Bac Madow: Fellows Be Smart

[Colonel]

^ So you're taking the right hand possess route?

im thinking a solution for those who already in trap or thinking to marry risk free.

how about to get for her rental property and have your own house. just call her when you want sex and she calls you when she needs one. qof walba meshesa ko nolado? no mashakil no jiqjig , no expectations , other than sexually. i think is good solution for halal sex.

don't they already do that in Egypt and Gulf countries? They call it nikaah misyar.

[Alphanumeric]

I don't own slaves.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

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[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Argument ended.

[CushiticReflections]

While these things may happen unexpectedly, I find that people who have this sort of issue didn't really get to know their significant other before marriage. Somalis seem to marry too early in relationships. This could likely be avoided if you don't jump at the chance of marrying that pretty girl you barely know. You don't know if she's unstable, cruel, or spiteful. The same warning applies to women - don't marry the first handsome or seemingly "quality" who shows interest in you. Be cautious and take your time getting to know him. Take a year or more to just get to know them.

[zulaika]

Don't be a fool ! Don't get kicked out of your own house when its not convenient for you. Be smart ! leave on your own terms.

1. Squash the argument until day light hours ! Finding a hotel at midnight is not ideal nor is crashing at your friends.

2. Make sure you have all of your documents with you incase you are permanently kicked out because once you are out getting access to your valuables will be difficult. Matter of fact, if you feel things are souring, get a safety deposit box to store your docs.

3. Look for a rental or rent a room should things not pan out.

4. Use the divorce word once - If you go nuclear, ain't no coming back. Don't be a bit.ch and back out no matter if she uses her greatest weapons: her tears, the kids, etc.

5. If she is the vindictive type will take you to court, make sure you get legal advice from a divorce attorney before you go nuclear. Matter of fact, get consultation from the best ones in town so that they can not represent her. Make cash withdrawals and stash 'em. If you own property, take a second mortgage and borrow against the property so there is very little cash for her.

6. If she lays a hand on you, call the police on her. Keep records as evidence (a bruise, CCTV) Whoever dials 911 has the upper hand. Don't be hero or the bigger person, it doesn't pay off in the long run.

7. Build a case. Notes, notes, notes. I Whether it is tribal court or civil court, be prepared.

8. Stay the course and refer to No. 4. Ain't no coming back.

Apologies in advance to the good ladies of SNET if they take offense but I am tired of these injustices.

and there u have it gentlemen..

A/W has suffered and died for matrimonial sins against you..so that u may live in bliss with your women folk