The Persistent Kind

[Cherine]

Yes. Nice guy but shame I didn't feel the same.

[BlackVelvet]

It's people like you who break hearts and cause depression. If you don't like him don't waste his time. Tell him to swerve and hit the road. Flirtations kuyee..

Is you illiterate nigga can't you read between the lines?

Actually to be fair to myself I didn't even hint it I said it, just wan't a bitch about it which is probably why he doesn't believe I mean it.

Maybe I can learn from your experience, do you wish she was more stern in turning you down?

[BlackVelvet]

Yes. Nice guy but shame I didn't feel the same.

Were you able to stay friends or is that impossible?

[Cherine]

BV remember the guy who came to my city ...that's him.

[BlackVelvet]

Oh wow, damn. Ok I don't want it to get to that. Is there anything you wish you could have done differently?

[Cherine]

You can never be friends with a guy you rejected. From my experience they also tend to lie about moving on.. only to find out from friends that they just wanted to make me jealous.

[WarriorMan]

hes gonna rape u soon. no jokes

[Cherine]

Yes i tend to avoid or lie ( e.g i am seeing someone) wish was more clear and honest. I feel very uncomfortable rejecting them face to face.

Btw i avoided him because I didn't want to raise his hopes.

[SelfD]

Whats ur story Cherime?

[BlackVelvet]

lol it shouldn't be so complicated. Where there is a will there is a way. I will friendzone this guy come what may and he'll he see that us getting along does not have to equate romantic involvement. Exception to the rule

hes gonna rape u soon. no jokes

How about this time you're just nice from the get go

[Murax]

Jasmine,


I think the guy is a freshie, came from africa or Somalia not too long ago. I remember this 1 girl I tried to approach and the girl was not feeling Me. My Uncle asked Me what happened and I said the girl doesn't want Me and He was like 'War ciyaalkan maraykanka shukaansi ma yaqaanan, ragg iska dhig..Warya Gabar markay meya ku dhahdo been waaye' etc.I was like Abti, relax what do You want Me to do. Then on close observation I found out Somalis who are old school, seriously believe that a girl saying no or rejecting You means nothing. I think it comes from the old geeljire culture where girls didn't have a choice who they want

[Peroxide]

Tell him you are going out with a white security guard once a week.

[BlackVelvet]

That's interesting, I don't actually know. He doesn't seem like the type. Aniga waxaan is dhahay most girls throw themselves at him, literally, I've seen it happen. He's probably just intrigued that there is someone who can resist the charm lol


Horta adiga when are you getting married? You are now borderline iskaabulo territory. Soon you'll be giving AW and all a run for their money

[BlackVelvet]

Tell him you are going out with a white security guard once a week.

That would so backfire. He'd think I was trying to make him jealous

[Peroxide]

Tell him you are going out with a white security guard once a week.

That would so backfire. He'd think I was trying to make him jealous

Honesty. Tell him you blush and drool all over a white security guard and that he should fuck off. I hate women leading men on. I wish ill upon them.