Promiscuous people

[Basra-]

I say round the horn dogs up and have them spade or neutered

Very western notion you have there Johnson. You realize one can still not have a monotheistic belief system, say animalism or Hinduism and still believe in copulation within the confines of marriage.

What is the difference between a promiscuous person and one that is serially monogamous with regard to their sexual encounters? Seems to be the same thing to me. Shagging is shagging no matter how nuanced or sugar coated you make it out to be. However, better have some religious in your case legal entitlements as a form of security so the individual is at least culpable. There seriously is nothing fun about liaisons with only a short-term gain, hit them where it hurts and make them pay - socially and financially (nothing is for free and neither is a cookie). Also, can you really trust this other person? Do they have sexual discipline? - How can you be for certain unless they are celibate or do a survey of their past sexual encounters, kind of misleading as many of these people are disingenuous. It's much easier hating humans, plotting to destroy them and remaining abstinent, your mind never waivers and you simply just want to poison their water.

Wretched people with opposable thumbs.

I loathe you all.

Signed,

The Misanthropist.

Sophisticated Ho.e,

I find it shocking that would type an essay to defend your adulterous Ho.e career. It seems breath-taking at how earnest and honest you are with the love of a Gu.s. Disgustingly Sophisicated I say.

[Sophisticate]

I don't think you understood what I said. I was not supporting them. I simply said someone that is promiscuous is not different from one that is serially monogamous (enters a series of temporary relationships). They are both prone to STIs and a myriad of health problems. If you cared to notice being celibate is the better option of the two. Keep in mind I said marriage requires accountability that you cannot get from promiscuity or serial monogamy. I will write something simple next time around.

Clearly, you can't read between the lines.

Such a shame. As you tend to write graphic tales about defiling members? Who is really the lady of ill-repute (whore) now?

Case closed.

[Adali]

I say round the horn dogs up and have them spade or neutered

Very western notion you have there Johnson. You realize one can still not have a monotheistic belief system, say animalism or Hinduism and still believe in copulation within the confines of marriage.

What is the difference between a promiscuous person and one that is serially monogamous with regard to their sexual encounters? Seems to be the same thing to me. Shagging is shagging no matter how nuanced or sugar coated you make it out to be. However, better have some religious in your case legal entitlements as a form of security so the individual is at least culpable. There seriously is nothing fun about liaisons with only a short-term gain, hit them where it hurts and make them pay - socially and financially (nothing is for free and neither is a cookie). Also, can you really trust this other person? Do they have sexual discipline? - How can you be for certain unless they are celibate or do a survey of their past sexual encounters, kind of misleading as many of these people are disingenuous. It's much easier hating humans, plotting to destroy them and remaining abstinent, your mind never waivers and you simply just want to poison their water.

Wretched people with opposable thumbs.

I loathe you all.

Signed,

The Misanthropist.

I loved your post until you started hating humans, that part was depressing Lol.

but anyway, I'm glad you pointed out the flaws of serial monogamist, they are no saints, they just bang women in a less chaotic way, long straight line taking them one at a time.

what are you stance on Polygamy ? I hate the idea of perpetually banging women, but also hate the idea of being stuck with just one for the rest of my life, no pun intended, but I am young attractive and doing well for myself, women need to accept the fact that guys like myself want more than to grow old with you Lol.

Your so intelligent, what do you think of relationships before marriage ? please a non-religious perspective would be nice, I don't need schooling on Islam.

[Basra-]

Waryaa Adali! We all know u r also soph! Get over yourself Marehaan fatty!

[Sophisticate]

^^^
you are becoming like secretagent, you need to do some background checks.

Adali haven't seen you around for a while.

That extra part was just for the cameras, Somalinet can be like a wrestling arena (fake). I'll write a more true to life piece...
I don’t necessarily approve of the dating thing. Partly because it is predicated on lies, people are trying to sell themselves and downplay their unflattering side. If one is comfortable saying my room is often messy, my cooking is bad and mediocre at best and I sometimes spend beyond my means. I would pat them on the back for honesty. I also don’t see any point in dressing up for a date, and why one must spend anything, why not go for a jog or farmers market (cheap organic food ). Sadly, most people think there is something wrong with someone that would rather focus on getting ahead, doesn’t want to be bothered with attachment and doesn't grant sexual access to people they are not married too. They would rather pigeon hold you and write defamatory statements because you are indeed an enigma.

To answer your other questions...

1. Marriage is and will always be a social and economic contract, it is intended to safeguard the individual and it is terminated when the contract is not being fulfilled and there is no chance of reconciliation.

2. Having sexual relations with someone that one is not married to is a high-risk activity and should be avoided at all costs. There is no sense of obligation and nothing binding you to the person. The individual has no safeguards or security and it is much easier to leave no qualms about it. Let us not forget what could happen if the female gets pregnant. Perhaps, there is no such thing as sex without attachments.

3. In addition many people in mainstream society suffer from the curse of premarital sex, where they are not satisfied and compare partners, it is unfortunate if your self esteem is tied up in that; sounds a lot like slavery. They also cannot remain sexually disciplined so they reprimand you for living a clean life. Hence, it’s best not to discuss anything of that nature with them.

4. Polygamy is fraught with controversy. Some men marry exclusively to satisfy their sexual appetites. I could understand if they did to elevate their community. I do not see men marrying women that are widowed, down-trodden, disabled or older than them. It also appears that there isn’t a level playing field, so there will be cases of favoritism also. There is no regulation on polygamy that is strictly followed. No enforcement = potential for abuse.

[Marques]

Man i'm so happy sophisticate is a member of this forum. Basra the old mare has been full of herself lately, thinking there isn't someone who can step up to her misinformed sense of writing expertise. #teamsophisticate

[zulaika]

Man i'm so happy sophisticate is a member of this forum. Basra the old mare has been full of herself lately, thinking there isn't someone who can step up to her misinformed sense of writing expertise. #teamsophisticate

hear hear!..couldn't agree more

and of course I take no jabs at Basra in the same fold

[Basra-]

My dear Maq

I have NO PROBLEM giving my crown to sophisticate aka Adali aka Zulaika. A good Queen is humble enough to give up her tiara to a fellow contemporary sister.

[ofafrique]

Uff.

[Adali]

^^^
you are becoming like secretagent, you need to do some background checks.

Adali haven't seen you around for a while.

That extra part was just for the cameras, Somalinet can be like a wrestling arena (fake). I'll write a more true to life piece...
I don’t necessarily approve of the dating thing. Partly because it is predicated on lies, people are trying to sell themselves and downplay their unflattering side. If one is comfortable saying my room is often messy, my cooking is bad and mediocre at best and I sometimes spend beyond my means. I would pat them on the back for honesty. I also don’t see any point in dressing up for a date, and why one must spend anything, why not go for a jog or farmers market (cheap organic food ). Sadly, most people think there is something wrong with someone that would rather focus on getting ahead, doesn’t want to be bothered with attachment and doesn't grant sexual access to people they are not married too. They would rather pigeon hold you and write defamatory statements because you are indeed an enigma.

To answer your other questions...

1. Marriage is and will always be a social and economic contract, it is intended to safeguard the individual and it is terminated when the contract is not being fulfilled and there is no chance of reconciliation.

2. Having sexual relations with someone that one is not married to is a high-risk activity and should be avoided at all costs. There is no sense of obligation and nothing binding you to the person. The individual has no safeguards or security and it is much easier to leave no qualms about it. Let us not forget what could happen if the female gets pregnant. Perhaps, there is no such thing as sex without attachments.

3. In addition many people in mainstream society suffer from the curse of premarital sex, where they are not satisfied and compare partners, it is unfortunate if your self esteem is tied up in that; sounds a lot like slavery. They also cannot remain sexually disciplined so they reprimand you for living a clean life. Hence, it’s best not to discuss anything of that nature with them.

4. Polygamy is fraught with controversy. Some men marry exclusively to satisfy their sexual appetites. I could understand if they did to elevate their community. I do not see men marrying women that are widowed, down-trodden, disabled or older than them. It also appears that there isn’t a level playing field, so there will be cases of favoritism also. There is no regulation on polygamy that is strictly followed. No enforcement = potential for abuse.

Great response sis, I appreciate it.

[CushiticReflections]

Sophisticated Ho.e,

I find it shocking that would type an essay to defend your adulterous Ho.e career. It seems breath-taking at how earnest and honest you are with the love of a Gu.s. Disgustingly Sophisicated I say.

Of all people you call Soph a hoe? Take your time to read that over again, Basra.

[AbdiWahab252]

Monogamy is against the laws of nature. Feel free to breed.

[Vivacious]

I say round the horn dogs up and have them spade or neutered

Very western notion you have there Johnson. You realize one can still not have a monotheistic belief system, say animalism or Hinduism and still believe in copulation within the confines of marriage.

What is the difference between a promiscuous person and one that is serially monogamous with regard to their sexual encounters? Seems to be the same thing to me. Shagging is shagging no matter how nuanced or sugar coated you make it out to be. However, better have some religious in your case legal entitlements as a form of security so the individual is at least culpable. There seriously is nothing fun about liaisons with only a short-term gain, hit them where it hurts and make them pay - socially and financially (nothing is for free and neither is a cookie). Also, can you really trust this other person? Do they have sexual discipline? - How can you be for certain unless they are celibate or do a survey of their past sexual encounters, kind of misleading as many of these people are disingenuous. It's much easier hating humans, plotting to destroy them and remaining abstinent, your mind never waivers and you simply just want to poison their water.

Wretched people with opposable thumbs.

I loathe you all.

Signed,

The Misanthropist.

Sophisticated Ho.e,

I find it shocking that would type an essay to defend your adulterous Ho.e career. It seems breath-taking at how earnest and honest you are with the love of a Gu.s. Disgustingly Sophisicated I say.

As crazy as you could be, I never ever thought you would call a fellow sister a ho.e.