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How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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If you know someone with qualities that you find annoying, reprehensible even, how lenient are you with them?

As you grow older do you discriminate more in that once you notice those qualities you keep them at an arms length or have you become more easy going and learnt how to get on with all types of people?
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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If close relative, put up with them, if not hi n bye works
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I can't stand disrespectful people. Other than that I'm pretty easy going with most personalities
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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people who ask intrusive questions (mostly somalis) iga ilaali
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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Okay say someone is trying to be friends with you but you notice a characteristic(s) that you really can't be bothered with, would you;

1. Try and be okay with it, cut them some slack
2. Talk to them about it, communication is the way to real friendship
3. Avoid them or blank them they'll eventually get the hint, you're too old for this ish and don't need new friends especially not annoying ones
4. Tell them to get lost, honesty is the best policy
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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I would go with option 1, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, and hope that they change the trait that comes across annoying. If they don't change i don't talk to them about the problem with them instead, i tend to avoid them altogether as best as i can (damn that makes me horrible person but CBF to tell a grown ass man/woman to fix up)
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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Jasmine6 wrote:
4. Tell them to get lost, honesty is the best policy
Straightforwardly :up:
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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given i dont get close friend to any one to begin with, it depends what is the qualities. qarna wa lo adkeysan kara for while qaarna dee wa deal breaker. for me qof dadka eebtooda, daba gala, goes length to expose people and their shirt coming, that is looma aedjeysan karo.

being loud, nosy etc wa la iska adkeysan kara for while.
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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Jasmine6 wrote:Okay say someone is trying to be friends with you but you notice a characteristic(s) that you really can't be bothered with, would you;

1. Try and be okay with it, cut them some slack
2. Talk to them about it, communication is the way to real friendship
3. Avoid them or blank them they'll eventually get the hint, you're too old for this ish and don't need new friends especially not annoying ones
4. Tell them to get lost, honesty is the best policy

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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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Cherine you seem very anti-social that could be a good thing or a bad thing.
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Re: How lax are you when it comes to personalities?

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الباب اللي يجيك منه الريح سده واستريح

'The door from which the wind blows in, shut it and relax'
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