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Re: When polygamy goes right

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damn 41? now i understand why she chose to be 3rd wife. :snoop: sexual repression

if she was okay with sharing her husband then more power to her I have no reason to judge.
polygamy is pretty weird and outdated but i would also be okay with 1 woman having many husbands.

As long as its not forced!!!

its a different case when a father forcefully marries a kid to and old man. I will actually slap my own father if he tried selling out my small sister to and old fart with many wives.
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visious wrote:damn 41? now i understand why she chose to be 3rd wife. :snoop: sexual repression

if she was okay with sharing her husband then more power to her I have no reason to judge.
polygamy is pretty weird and outdated but i would also be okay with 1 woman having many husbands.

As long as its not forced!!!

its a different case when a father forcefully marries a kid to and old man. I will actually slap

my own father if he tried selling out my small sister to and old fart with many wives.
U would slap ur own fatheer :o
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no ! never but if he forced my little sister ofcourse I would.

luckily he is a smart educated logical man and will never do this stupid act
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I wouldn't dream of this, on myself or any woman I knew.
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I wonder if it's possible to support a gaggle of wives & children without recourse to public funds. I know the guy works but this is England and London which is one of the most expensive cities on the face of the earth.
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Polygamy marriages can only work if u have the blessings of your first wife, I have heard of a story where the husband went abroad telling his wife he's viditing his parents, ends up marrying a reer miyi women there without telling his first wife. She found out around 3 weeks later from some women gossiping at her area, who were related to her husband. I felt so bad for her.
If wife says no then its no to poly marriages, i dont care with ppl backing it up by saying its deen but if u dont even treat ur first wife and kids right then why buy another wife from amazon?
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Hodan94 wrote:Polygamy marriages can only work if u have the blessings of your first wife, I have heard of a story where the husband went abroad telling his wife he's viditing his parents, ends up marrying a reer miyi women there without telling his first wife. She found out around 3 weeks later from some women gossiping at her area, who were related to her husband. I felt so bad for her.
If wife says no then its no to poly marriages, i dont care with ppl backing it up by saying its deen but if u dont even treat ur first wife and kids right then why buy another wife from amazon?
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I heard about a 24 year old girl I know who recently become a 2nd wife. She dropped out of uni because it was "haraam" ( mixing with men). She married a man who could father her multiple times, I personally think qooq baa hayee, horta Miss Bonita ahaan I would rather die and an old maiden then subjugate myself to becoming a 2nd wife. I am not that desperate for the D :)
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Live and let live. I personally couldn't handle but thumps up for those who do.
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^ What makes women most desperate is not the D but the baby.
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Its called adoption. There are many children around who need a home.
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MissBonita wrote:Its called adoption. There are many children around who need a home.
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God, somali women are pathetic. Even in old age they have no nobility or self-worth. I can't believe I'm saying this but I'm starting to admire xabashi females, they at least have pride and self respect.

I guarantee you he doesn't work at a charity and his "import-export business" is a dingy little salafibookstore shop.
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Re: When polygamy goes right

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MissBonita wrote:Its called adoption. There are many children around who need a home.
Egg freezing = eggs stored for later use
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Re: When polygamy goes right

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LiquidHYDROGEN wrote:God, somali women are pathetic. Even in old age they have no nobility or self-worth. I can't believe I'm saying this but I'm starting to admire xabashi females, they at least have pride and self respect.

I guarantee you he doesn't work at a charity and his "import-export business" is a dingy little salafibookstore shop.

Firstly, easy with the blanket generalization. Some Somali women are pathetic. What self worth do Xabashi women have? please elaborate? They are so quick to sell themselves for pennies so I say you direct your admiration elsewhere. Being a woman is not easy these days, Somali women are sick and tired of being sick and tired so I can't blame them...I blame the Somali men who have failed them.
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