Domestic Violence. What's your opinion on it?

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Domestic Violence. What's your opinion on it?

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Ladies and gentlemen, what's your view on domestic violence. I never gave domestic violence a second thought before because I'm Somali and I am used to Somali females calling their brothers/uncles/cousins/911 if a guy even looked at them funny let alone punched them. I was reading a story online actually tumblr, about a woman ( Danii Phae) she's everywhere on tumblr. She posted about how her boyfriend beat her up and threatened to destroy her life. What would you guys do? well before you decide, read this and then come to a conclusion.

'This is very hard for me at this moment in my life to express my heart/mind to the world, but I will say these last few months have been the worst months of my life. I was dating someone (J$tash) that abused me verbally ,emotionally and physically throughout the end duration of our relationship. Monday morning on September 15th 2014 my life was forever, changed. A person I thought and believed I could trust, whom I gave my love/time/energy to brutally punched me in my face repeatedly with his fists while I became slowly unconscious covered in blood in his brooklyn apartment bed. After he was done he told me to not tell anyone to not tell my friends, He also started to prepare legal action to protect himself in case I pressed charges against him. He cried and became unstable within his emotions and was apologetic towards his actions, but would continue to say i did this to myself.

He then boarded a flight to Japan a few hours after and has been sending me text messages claiming he will destroy me even more than he already did. He said he will ruin my life! I got brutally beaten for confronting him on infidelity which caused him to become violent in an instant.

Do not interpret this as a cry for help this is honestly a decision to speak up against domestic violence for those who cant due to the manipulative acts our abusers inflict on us to never speak up and for those who didn’t survive because of brutal domestic violence.

I will not allow myself to sit in the shadows of darkness and disrespect myself for not taking a stand.

I am speaking out for all my women!

Be brave this is what bravery looks like.'

I won't post the pictures because they're too graphic.
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Re: Domestic Violence. What's your opinion on it?

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That's the Ogaden department. They're known to beat their women :lol:
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Re: Domestic Violence. What's your opinion on it?

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It's horrible. You know how prevelant this is in the somali community but the women are afraid to call the police. They have been crushed mentally and their are slaves to their men. That's why some of the women keep getting back to their men who hit them. So sad.
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Julkimi wrote:I won't post the pictures because they're too graphic.
Lol @ graphic

A blackeyeI is graphic? Bitchlove got offyou lucky.

She looks cawaandijulkimi too, she had it coming. :stylin:
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Re: Domestic Violence. What's your opinion on it?

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LMFAOO wrote:It's horrible. You know how prevelant this is in the somali community but the women are afraid to call the police. They have been crushed mentally and their are slaves to their men. That's why some of the women keep getting back to their men who hit them. So sad.
stop lying, somali women have more freedom then majority of the world. you will get few cases of men beating their wifes but even then there is a big social stigma attached
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