Is it an Anomaly? (the word means "not nomal")

[Basra-]

To be continuously and daily be shukaansied by boys who r younger than me by 10 years??? This is horribilis. Sometimes even 14 years--- just almost being old enough to be their mothers.

I find that flattering in a deep level, but disturbing and irked on the surface, where my sexuality lives. I am irked by the stares, the Google eyes, the aggressive shukaansi. It is truly frightening. My vanity, however, is charmed. A continuous of young men in universities who are charmed and fall in love hard for yours truly. Strangers, who are lost in my person. I decided to take the train today to the library and collect my book reserved I had reserved. While I was waiting for my train, this charming young man, of Red Indian descent, sat next to me, and just had this sweet, puppy love eyes on me. (He had stunning face that had soulful wise beauty) I was lost in the excitement of my book, not giving him any attention. (this was coming back home.) He had clean Nike snickers that next to the preoccupation of starring at me, he was busy occupied by his shoes, constantly wiping and looking at his snickers incase of any dirt on it. A young white fat girl, his age, passed by him and complimented him on his hat. (the hat was ugly, it was one of those green, camouflage hats worn by fishermen and hunters, usually by white trash men). The boy was disgusted with this poor fat white girl, that he looked at her with disdainful, disgusting stare. For some reason, I reacted immediately, by saying---first smiling at him, and second--I said "u should be nice. You should say, Thank you" He smiled back and continued to awkwardly stare at me. Then after like 6 minutes and 18 seconds ---he finally had the confidence to talk to me. He asked:

"Do you know, what time it is"?


In which I obliged and told him the time. He said thank you to me sweetly, which I knew, he was just pretending. I am sure he had a cell phone, but he wanted to just talk to me, but he didn't have that confidence necessary to facilitate his deep desires. (THANK GOD!!!!!)


Anyway--- It was a lovely Sunny day today.

[Lamagoodle]

You are not under palliative care are you, dear Basra? If you are not, then, there is no crime in being courted by a younger person ( I am assuming that he is not underage). When I was a teenager, I was always attracted to older women (in particular married women). I don’t know the reason. Maybe Freud was right in his analysis. As I grew older, I have noticed that I have become the fulcrum of glazes from women on the opposite ends of the spectrun; younger adult women and cajuusos.

[Basra-]

Lama--r u in P. Care? Heart congestive due to obesity?


Freuds analysis? Incest? Bisiinka. Lama, u seem to advance for the normalcy of a typical Somali.



PS It is my opinion, that men go older women are an anomaly. It is not natural for men to desire something 'OLD". Therefore, one assumes at the core of these desires lies some perversion. That their attraction to OLD women has nothing to do with body sexual reward but that of a 'mind sexual reward'. These unique women tend to be highly smart and deficient of normal male sexual drive. They mental-ize their feelings or desires as opposed to feeling and reacting to them.

[Lamagoodle]

Lama--r u in P. Care? Heart congestive due to obesity?


Freuds analysis? Incest? Bisiinka. Lama, u seem to advance for the normalcy of a typical Somali.



PS It is my opinion, that men go older women are an anomaly. It is not natural for men to desire something 'OLD". Therefore, one assumes at the core of these desires lies some perversion. That their attraction to OLD women has nothing to do with body sexual reward but that of a 'mind sexual reward'. These unique women tend to be highly smart and deficient of normal male sexual drive. They mental-ize their feelings or desires as opposed to feeling and reacting to them.

LOL; "Heart congestive due to obesity" is that your Is diagnosis dear? In that case, you would have ended up in a clinic and not Palliative care=near death care. I see that you are not versed in medical analogies

Freud had other theories than incest. Have you been drinking dear? I thought you read all his works.

It is difficult to deduce "old" from looks- at least from a somali perspective- given anti-aging support systems out in the market. It is when the going gets going that one notices aging.

How is your evening thus far? My night has been great; excellent dinner and wonderful company.

[Basra-]

Lama@lol

My night is great, alhamdhulilaah. Cozy, comfortable and delightful. Thanks for asking and for sharing yours.

Freud wrote about sex, mostly. He was obsessed with all avenues of sex. (perhaps he wasn't getting sex>?)

[Lamagoodle]

Lama@lol

My night is great, alhamdhulilaah. Cozy, comfortable and delightful. Thanks for asking and for sharing yours.

Freud wrote about sex, mostly. He was obsessed with all avenues of sex. (perhaps he wasn't getting sex>?)

True, Freud wrote about sex. He also wrote about psychosocial avenues as you rightly mentioned and in his other theses (not his seminal work), he discussed other issues.

It is a bright sunday morning here. A little bit windy but that is ok. It is the kind of mornings people will take out their dogs.

[original dervish]

Basra...he could have just been thinking..."Is that a woman or a man?"

[Basra-]

Original. I am NOT talking to you. Since reading your 'wearing one underwear, and wiping your futo with you hands' and calling it liberating-- I have been irked on a deeper level that it will take a long time to get over.

[original dervish]

Are off your trolley?
I never discuss such things.

[Lamagoodle]

Basra, how are you?

I read this;

https://janeaustensworld.wordpress.com/ ... l-hygiene/