Afartan Bax

Bella18 · Post by **Bella18** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:13 am

^ Yes, that and madax shub. Lama, mar kale ina adeero

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:16 am

Lamagoodle wrote:Evol,
Adigaa mudan.

The diaspora has transformed afartan bax; nowadays you'd find a mom who after 2 days of birth ventures outside her home. I had a niece who gave birth on a Friday and she was at a wedding on Sunday. She saw me on the street and shouted adeer Lamagoodle. I ran like xiin faniin. I wouldn't imagine saying hello to naag umul ah.

Essense89: Areey dey waa qalanjadii. Beryahaan aduunka ayaan wareegaayey. Adiga ii waran ina adeer?

Baastounit; soo dhowow maandhow.

I'm quite sure she won't bleed on you...

Post by **Lamagoodle** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:18 am

7 bax: 7 days of rocking and reeling till the break of dawn for the bride and groom. There is a philosophy behind it.

Evol; adeer it is not about bleeding. Just the thought; she is supposed to be home relaxing. To add salt to my cultural injury she was carrying the baby. Waa ceeb in naag umul ah la salaamo.

P.s. it is not only about bleeding; biology is at work and there is a profound need for taking things easy.

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:21 am

Gartay. Lol beautiful and strange at the same time!

And What's this about rocking and reeling BTW? I want to hear the philosophy.. :Heh:

zumaale · Post by **zumaale** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:28 am

7bax lool.

Always, back in the day a man was expected to open up a sewn up xalimo with his member. Let us just say it was a laborious process for both parties. It was a badge of honour for a man to accomplish that task before the seven day period was up.

Post by **Lamagoodle** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:31 am

EvolSyawla wrote:Gartay. Lol beautiful and strange at the same time!

And What's this about rocking and reeling BTW? I want to hear the philosophy..

Newlyweds are often inexperienced and do not know each other that well. Their knowledge of mating is limited too. Two strangers. The 7 days will give them time to know each other, to engage in raaxo. In addition, it is likely that there will be some bleeding (bride) and performance anxiety(groom). Soo 7 maalmood waa la baananayaa waayna is baaninayaa.

Waa waxaad dadkiina reer magaalka ugu yeertaan HONEYMOON.

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:34 am

zumaale wrote:7bax lool.

Always, back in the day a man was expected to open up a sewn up xalimo with his member. Let us just say it was a laborious process for both parties. It was a badge of honour for a man to accomplish that task before the seven day period was up.

Jaysus.....

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:35 am

Lamagoodle wrote:
EvolSyawla wrote:Gartay. Lol beautiful and strange at the same time!

And What's this about rocking and reeling BTW? I want to hear the philosophy..
Newlyweds are often inexperienced and do not know each other that well. Their knowledge of mating is limited too. Two strangers. The 7 days will give them time to know each other, to engage in raaxo. In addition, it is likely that there will be some bleeding (bride) and performance anxiety(groom). Soo 7 maalmood waa la baananayaa waayna is baaninayaa.

Waa waxaad dadkiina reer magaalka ugu yeertaan HONEYMOON.

Ahhh honeymoon. You're right. Nothing unusual there. Minus the fgm tear...

MoAwr · Post by **MoAwr** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:36 am

Is Evol preparing herself?
Congrats sister wish you many todoba iyo afartan baxs

Post by **Lamagoodle** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:38 am

EVO, It is not only the FGM-ed women who need sometime of healing. Blv you me; there is always some pain involved and possible damage not to mention anxiety.

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:51 am

MoAwr wrote:Is Evol preparing herself?
Congrats sister wish you many todoba iyo afartan baxs

No, but I'm headed to one soon. (Afartan not to do a

)

Lama, I know. Fgm is more serious, obviously, but the standard wedding night...trauma.

In any case, I didn't know there was a set and named 7-days lol, so thank you.

Post by **Lamagoodle** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:54 am

Trauma it is. Even in societies with sex before marriage, the first time is characterised by trauma and pain.

7 days is one of the few remaining cultural artefacts we have. It will disappear very soon to be replaced by one night stand where the bride will go shopping the next day... LOL

MoAwr · Post by **MoAwr** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:57 am

EvolSyawla wrote:
MoAwr wrote:Is Evol preparing herself?
Congrats sister wish you many todoba iyo afartan baxs
No, but I'm headed to one soon. (Afartan not to do a )

Inshallah walal, if we dnt see you for fourty days then we know why

Lama must we base the existence of somali dhaqan on the dhayuuusbara?

Post by **EvolSyawla** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 6:00 am

But what if I go shopping WITH him?

:umad:

Post by **Lamagoodle** » Mon Apr 06, 2015 6:02 am

MoAwr wrote:
EvolSyawla wrote:
MoAwr wrote:Is Evol preparing herself?
Congrats sister wish you many todoba iyo afartan baxs
No, but I'm headed to one soon. (Afartan not to do a )
Inshallah walal, if we dnt see you for fourty days then we know why

Lama must we base the existence of somali dhaqan on the dhayuuusbara?

No, adeer. We must not. However, diaspora=financial might and today when dollar power has replaced camel assets the lure is just too much. Our dhaqan is slowly dying.

EVOL, 7-da ayaad ku jirtaa ee sideed shopping ku aadi? War anagaa wax aragnay; you have oodka, caano geel, caano fadhi and love; and you want to go shopping?

You have dozens of women to cater to your needs; you are the queen; shopping aa? Ballo

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