Small things that would probably lead you to divorce your husband/wife

[BlackVelvet]

In relationships it's usually the little things piling up leading to erosion of patience, affection and even the thought that you ever liked this person. You may either have told the person to quit it and they didn't think it was enough of a big deal or you didn't bring it up because it's so obvious they should know it already


What's on your list of potential straws that would likely break the camel's back aka your marriage?


For me it's leaving the toilet seat up. If a man does not sit down when he uses the toilet and refuses to change that behaviour I would divorce him. For that reason I have decided to add that question to my interrogation pack


Another thing is not sharing chores and counting the pennies, first sign of such behaviour




Before any kids there needs to be a probation period. Review after 3 months, no sharing the same bedroom just seeing how you like living with each other and if you really want to do it for the rest of your life

[djibsomali]

allahh
magacagaa aan click garayay for the first time ilaa aad somalinet iis qortay!

Age:43

maa run baah??

you must be the first honest somalinet girl !
kuwaa kaleeh 23 mabaa dhafaan ilaa iyoo 2002 gii

you love relationship topic lakiin you don't teach us anything !!

[zumaale]

allahh
magacagaa aan click garayay for the first time ilaa aad somalinet iis qortay!

Age:43

maa run baah??

you must be the first honest somalinet girl !
kuwaa kaleeh 23 mabaa dhafaan ilaa iyoo 2002 gii

you love relationship topic lakiin you don't teach us anything !!

Ina Adeero, sodon mey garin wana guurdoon laakin wa gabar wiswas badan. Raaga ma aminto iyo waxay ka cabsada iney jilicdo hadi aqal gasho.

[BlackVelvet]

allahh
magacagaa aan click garayay for the first time ilaa aad somalinet iis qortay!

Age:43

maa run baah??

you must be the first honest somalinet girl !
kuwaa kaleeh 23 mabaa dhafaan ilaa iyoo 2002 gii

you love relationship topic lakiin you don't teach us anything !!

A person my age has a lot to teach. Waa adiga who is a bad student


Now fadhiiso and get your pen and paper ready

Ina Adeero, sodon mey garin wana guurdoon laakin wa gabar wiswas badan. Raaga ma aminto iyo waxay ka cabsada iney jilicdo hadi aqal gasho.

Hashac as much as I appreciate your insight ayeeyo I have no wiswas. It's just planning and foresight in order to increase chances of success and minimise potential fall-out. Qadar aside, this is me encouraging people to tie their goat on a pole


cabsataa*

she has to let me eat the ass otherwise I'm divorcing her, toute de suit!

Chief I hope you do it on a day that she has diarrhoea

[ChiefKimbo]

horta what is the problem, wouldn't you want your man to lick ur bottom?

[zumaale]

BV, once in a while someone has to pull your pigtails huuno.

[BlackVelvet]

Nice try, we will not turn this topic into a conversation about licking bottoms


But don't let me stop you Chief, bottoms-up

BV, once in a while someone has to pull your pigtails huuno.

I do not wear my hair in pigtails on Tuesdays

[waryaa]

Bv, http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6509836

#5

[bakoorad]

Well I don't believe women urinate or deficate. As soon as us she proves me wrong, shes out.

You should sit on the toilet in such way that i don't hear you urinate

[Thuganomics]

Well I don't believe women urinate or deficate. As soon as us she proves me wrong, shes out.

You should sit on the toilet in such way that i don't hear you urinate

Xaaladu waa "Naag xaartey xumaatey" miyaa

[Lamagoodle]

In relationships it's usually the little things piling up leading to erosion of patience, affection and even the thought that you ever liked this person. You may either have told the person to quit it and they didn't think it was enough of a big deal or you didn't bring it up because it's so obvious they should know it already


What's on your list of potential straws that would likely break the camel's back aka your marriage?


For me it's leaving the toilet seat up. If a man does not sit down when he uses the toilet and refuses to change that behaviour I would divorce him. For that reason I have decided to add that question to my interrogation pack


Another thing is not sharing chores and counting the pennies, first sign of such behaviour




Before any kids there needs to be a probation period. Review after 3 months, no sharing the same bedroom just seeing how you like living with each other and if you really want to do it for the rest of your life

Hi BV.
As you wrote, divorce is often preceded by small incremental issues that piles up. It rarely involves a one off dispute. Too often, the marriage runs out of steam because the parties build up grievances. Trust, dialogues and understanding the view of the other are diminished. Every issue becomes thorny and you end up in a slippery downward slope.

Leaving the toilet seat up is the least of your worries if you wed. You have to find ways to align expectations with realities. You have to be ready for disappointments and ready to accept what you got. It is about salvaging what is left of your theoretical expectations.

LOL @@@@@@ before kids. That will never happen. The notion of marriage implies sharing the bedroom – at least from a somali context and in the first phase of marriage.

If only the tribulations of marriage concerned toilet, table or other kinds of manners,!

[Bella18]

In relationships it's usually the little things piling up leading to erosion of patience, affection and even the thought that you ever liked this person. You may either have told the person to quit it and they didn't think it was enough of a big deal or you didn't bring it up because it's so obvious they should know it already


What's on your list of potential straws that would likely break the camel's back aka your marriage?


For me it's leaving the toilet seat up. If a man does not sit down when he uses the toilet and refuses to change that behaviour I would divorce him. For that reason I have decided to add that question to my interrogation pack


Another thing is not sharing chores and counting the pennies, first sign of such behaviour




Before any kids there needs to be a probation period. Review after 3 months, no sharing the same bedroom just seeing how you like living with each other and if you really want to do it for the rest of your life

Maandhay wax riyada kaa kiciyo uubaahantahay

Lol@the probation period.... maa ornaments baa tihin? Miyaad is daawanaysaan hadh iyo habeen?

[BlackVelvet]

Bv, http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6509836

#5

No.6

Reason 134 to get a pet parrot

[BlackVelvet]

Lamagoodle ku gartey

Maandhay wax riyada kaa kiciyo uubaahantahay

Lol@the probation period.... maa ornaments baa tihin? Miyaad is daawanaysaan hadh iyo habeen?

It's not riyo yakhee, these are all realistic and useful methods


Firi marki aad shaqo galeysid you have to go through probation so they can decide whether they can trust you and whether you can do the job. Ma anaga ayaa ka qiimo yar a job?


Probation is necessary. Haleys daawado ama haleysla shekeysto either way just observing and interacting, no fringe benefits until you become a permanent employee

[PrinceDaadi]

Nin waxaa laga sheegay in uu dhahay ileen sagaaro ima barato.


Either Sneters BV ma bartaan or entertainment rabaan.