Is ignorance bliss?

[Idman702]

A revert friend of mine was telling me today about married muslim men who are undercover. They sleep with other men and they have wives and children. She knows the gay guy (he is a long term family friend) he is hiv positive and these muslim men are unaware not to mention their poor unsuspecting wives. They are the lowliest creatures to me.

I've also heard about this. The guy I heard about is Algerian with wife and kids. Subhanallah.


Thank God our skinny faraxs are not like that. There are couple of downlow somalis but they're not married!

[Firefly]

Firefly you should talk your friend into blowing their cover, sure its never nice to interfere in other peoples business, but we are talking about the well being of another human being, if the faggot is H.I.V positive then its only a matter of time before they are too, thats if they arent already, and if they catch it then their wives and kids are next in line, ilaahey ha ka xijaabo balaayada.

She can send an anonymous text or something, is she don't blow the whistle on them, shes just as guilty as them.

I did discuss this with her aboowe. One of the muslim men is actually her neighbour. He lives a few doors down. She spoke to his wife but all she received was abuse. I'm going to speak to the imam from my masjid about it and ask him to address the issue because it affects the Muslim community as a whole. I'm also speaking about it to muslim women and writing leaflets so they can be informed. Another issue is that hardly any muslims go through regular sexual health checks and this is something that needs to be addressed. The problem is that most women don't want to believe their husband is capable of that and they don't even entertain the idea and prefer to live in denial than face the truth. It is difficult to get through to them.

[Buraanbur]

A revert friend of mine was telling me today about married muslim men who are undercover. They sleep with other men and they have wives and children. She knows the gay guy (he is a long term family friend) he is hiv positive and these muslim men are unaware not to mention their poor unsuspecting wives. They are the lowliest creatures to me.

I've also heard about this. The guy I heard about is Algerian with wife and kids. Subhanallah.


Thank God our skinny faraxs are not like that. There are couple of downlow somalis but they're not married!

Sorry cuz, but I personally know of two cases. One of them got caught by his wife and admitted everything to her. We even have a guy on snet who was struggling with his sexuality and is/was getting married.

As for the topic, I'd rather not know. Once I know I'm being cheated on, one or both of us will end up 6 feet under.

[salool]

A revert friend of mine was telling me today about married muslim men who are undercover. They sleep with other men and they have wives and children. She knows the gay guy (he is a long term family friend) he is hiv positive and these muslim men are unaware not to mention their poor unsuspecting wives. They are the lowliest creatures to me.

Masiibo ka weyni ma jirto khaniis habeen kasta ag jiifso. Ilaahy xaasaska xanuunkooga ka ilaaliy.

[Basra-]

the amount of couples that have committed infidelity is higher than expected. But some of the best relationships I have seen is when the other doesn't know. Of course once it's out it turns out badly.


I have seen two scenarios that are most common:

Scenario 1: husband or wife or bf/gf cheats but covers their tracks well and it is only short term, couple stays together and the other is ignorantly unaware.

Scenario 2: cheating partner gets caught or confesses and the other goes ballistic relationship is destroyed and they split at whatever cost.


Is honesty always the best possibility?

If a cheater cheated and then went to tell their partner for the sake of 'honesty' then this partner is EVIL!!!!!


IF u cheated, never admit to it. If u r caught, never admit to it, unless your partner red handedly caught u or busted u!

It is mean, and narcissistic to inform a partner u have cheated, usually your motives are different from your 'honest policy'!

[TheCadaanGuy]

When discussing whether ignorance is bliss or not, I'd like to ask myself a question - Would it change anything if I knew this hereafter? If the answer to this question is no, then yes ignorance is bliss. Dunya is a really really really really really short blip in our lifetime considering what we're about to face in hereafter.