lol this is bullshit! Im a native samaale and almost lighter than my somali neighbours from these clans! How can they be more arab than me?SteadyState wrote:You are forgetting one very important dimension to this, sxb. There is a very large subset of Somalis who consider themselves to be Arabs and thus a completely different race and culture than another large subset of Somalis who consider themselves black African. Therefore, such a relationship would itself be an interracial relationship! So, why support one kind of interracial relationship (i.e inter-clan), and be against others?sahal80 wrote:regional based inter-marriages had less problems bc theres a bit cultural gap..for example the women in some region r bad mouthed and use the word w*$ wich could be shocking for a religious jufo like mine but not in another neighbouring community!
communities from cadaado, dhusomareb and caabudwaaq have similar cultural backgrounds and it works between them
i dont like to go deep down but some communities r too tribal and work like a lobby so if your an stranger you would have big broblem with the in-laws bc they dont let their man to be an important in the future if he is not under their influence over his familys issues so waa inuu iska dhis dhiso on the expense of his partner!
Some communities have a social problems and cannot be trusted her own distant relatives with her!
Having said that, marrying a somali is not like marrying an ajnabi who you share with him a zero culture
I speak arabic just like a native and it will take me years to know the true colors of an arab friend
You cant tell them until you live with them, work with them than you will see a totally different person!
Qof ajnabi ah can have some hidden isues like alcohol, can beat you, can kill you, can have obsession, racist in-laws etc.
Also, again, you seem to be completely oblivious to the fact that Somalis are racist/hateful against each other more than ajnabis are to them. It's like you and the others in this thread are purposely ignoring the towering elephant in the room. Perhaps we need an example to drive it home: say a midgaan guy were to marry an Ogaden girl. Would anyone here deny that the midgaan guy would experience more hatred, more violence, and more opposition to the marriage than your typical Pakistani family? The same is largely true for any non-darod Somali man who wanted to marry the Ogaden girl. He would still face much more resistance and opposition to the marriage than marrying your typical Arab or Pakistani girl. More importantly, his family as well as the family of the girl will actively work to destroy the marriage. No one can deny this happens as there are even documented cases of this on this very forum. In fact, based on from what I've observed, the Ogaden family would be much more welcoming of their daughter marrying an Arab man than a non-Darod Somali man. I'm sure many others have observed this even if they do not want to admit this reality because it undermines their agenda.
I dont see any differences!
The only differences r political differences but the somali tribalism is not like the arab tribalism who dont marry outside of their cousins
The other day I was watching an iraqi guy who married his two cousins in the same day
The reason was because he was the only guy that was still living among their male cousins as many were killed in the war
Arab community suffer from
They were from south, basra at kuwait borders wich is more tribal
half of their female population are called al 3waanis just bc theres not the right guy
Somali women is free man!
Sonali tribalism is political but socially they have an open culture...arab tribalism is not political
These guys r native samaale full brothers but the younger one looks like more his "arab" reer abti kkkkk
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im out!
