Is Yarad/Gabaati/Sooryo Fixed or Voluntary

[Sumubaridi]

I know our culture requires the guy to give some money to the girl's family as a gift or compensating them for raising this girl or whatever its intended for maba aqaane. Do we have fixed expected amount in America? Is $2000 reasonable. If not how much is reasonable? Not sure What I should budget for. Waxa ma just sharaf iyo kaftan ayaa loola jeedaa mise really cida wants to make money out of this marriage? meesha ma beecsharaa taala. WTF.

FYI,

If any of you got married in america, please tell me the amount the groom brought. No bragging been been. Meeshaan cid lacag kugu siinayso maleh in aad is amaanto. This is mature people's discussion. If you are some of food stamp kid in his mother's bedroom, aabahaa wase go back to the kitchen and eat some cereal.

[PrinceDaadi]

if my understanding is correct sooryo is different from yarad/gabaati.

Sooryo is what ever the team from man bring to girl's family and you can bring anything, there is no fixed amount.

some people bring few hundred dollars others tens of thousand of dollars.

[Sumubaridi]

if my understanding is correct sooryo is different from yarad/gabaati.

Sooryo is what ever the team from man bring to girl's family and you can bring anything, there is no fixed amount.

some people bring few hundred dollars others tens of thousand of dollars.

and how much is reasonable for Yarad.

[NoThatAbdi]

You pay 2 grand to her family and her family and friends pay 2-4 grand in furniture, seems to be a fair deal.

[Sumubaridi]

You pay 2 grand to her family and her family and friends pay 2-4 grand in furniture, seems to be a fair deal.

What Furniture? The family will not pay furniture.

[NoThatAbdi]

You pay 2 grand to her family and her family and friends pay 2-4 grand in furniture, seems to be a fair deal.

What Furniture? The family will not pay furniture.

Who pays for the furniture, don't say the man.

[Inaayah]

Sooryo waa waxa la raaciyo Inanta marka lala wareegayo.

Markau ninku inanta doonayo lacagta laba ayaa loo kala qaybiya. Badhna raga la siiya, badhna waxa la siiya inanta iyo reerkooda oo waxa la dhaha yarad. Kolay aniga waxaay ila tahay inantii Intaas o dhan reerkoodu ku tabcayeen inay tahay lacag duco loogu talagalay waalidka.

Gabaatiguna waa wax dumarka iyo raga ba la siiyo oo qofki ba wax yar aya la siiya sidey u duceeyan.

[Inaayah]

How do you guys as men not know any or much of this?

Yaab.

[Sumubaridi]

How do you guys as men not know any or much of this?

Yaab.

We know in ay jirto oo labixiyo but manaqaan qaymaha. Gabadha Somalia joogta iyo tan Sucuudiga joogta iyo tan UK joogta iyo tan USA joogta isku yarad miyaa horta?

[Inaayah]

Sumu, maraanimadaada has no limits.

Nin walba wuxu awoodi karo ayu bixiya.

Adigu daasad soo qaado o dadka Islam ka ku dheh i caawiya kadibna wax calaa waxaay ku noqoto ba, gabaati uga dhig.

[Sumubaridi]

Sumu, maraanimadaada has no limits.

Nin walba wuxu awoodi karo ayu bixiya.

Adigu daasad soo qaado o dadka Islam ka ku dheh i caawiya kadibna wax calaa waxaay ku noqoto ba, gabaati uga dhig.

Anigu qofna wax mawaydiisto dayna mabixiyo. Waxayga wixii ay awoodo ayaan isticimaalaa. Xitaa Cayrta iyo duugsiga iyo welfare ta waa necbahay. Weligeey dawlad iyo qof midna wax mawaydiisan. Maanta waxaan haystaah alxd $1000. Way igu filantahay because anigaa soo shaqaystay.

[Inaayah]

Sumu, I can't take you seriously.

[Sumubaridi]

Sumu, I can't take you seriously.

Wallaahi I have been in america for 15 years and I only got less than $800 in soodhaways money which i only got when I was new for 2 months. I am the most clean from welfare black man in america. I have 2 jobs alxd and I am a college graduate. I have an appartment, a car, a job, health and everything else including cash $1000. Waxaan ahay taajir alxd.

[Inaayah]

Ok.

[Sumubaridi]

Ok.