Is it good idea to do background check to the woman before you get married?

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Timiro1999
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Re: Is it good idea to do background check to the woman before you get married?

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Qofkastaa wuxuu guursadaa qof u qalma ama u dhigma.
Tusaale nin ciyaala suuq ah gabadh ciyaala suuqad ah.
Nin wanaagsan oo dhawrsan gabadh dhawrsan.
Xataa hadii qof ciyaala suuq ahi qof fiican helo iskuma raagan.
Arintani waa run
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Re: Is it good idea to do background check to the woman before you get married?

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Timiro1999 wrote:Qofkastaa wuxuu guursadaa qof u qalma ama u dhigma.
Tusaale nin ciyaala suuq ah gabadh ciyaala suuqad ah.
Nin wanaagsan oo dhawrsan gabadh dhawrsan.
Xataa hadii qof ciyaala suuq ahi qof fiican helo iskuma raagan.
Arintani waa run
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Re: Is it good idea to do background check to the woman before you get married?

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VeiledGarbasar wrote:
Revolutionary wrote:OP has a point. Marrying a virgin will lead to a happy and a lasting marriage.
Raali noqo.

A happy and lasting relationship is a rarity these days. Virgin or not.
We are speaking from a Muslim perspective. This generation westerners can't even last marriage after month nowadays which is why their divorce hits over 50% and their population is declining unlike Muslims and Easterners.

Anyway, if the Husband discover his wife was in a relationship and slept with multiple men before marriage. In other word, committed zina will have him put in a constant divorce.

In contrary, husband who marries a chaste/virgin woman who protected her honor and dignity all her life till she was married and was finally conquered by one will give him a happy life. Temp or perma, it is better than the first point where trust and feeling will break apart.

If you truly know the nature of men, you would understand.
A furious 99 year old man is divorcing his wife of 77 years after he discovered she had an affair more than 60 years ago.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... s-ago.html
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