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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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smooth wrote:The problem is in your mind, until you correct that, you'll never get anywhere. It's a combination of fear and a serious lack of experience in courtship mostly stemming from low self-esteem, there is no commodity in this world more plentiful and easy then women, to make it even easier for the likes of you, they come blessed with biological ticking time-bomb that activates once she hits into her late 20's

She will descend into an almighty mid-life crisis were everything becomes a fire-sale at rock bottom bargain prices, it's crazy stuff! I have seen them in my own eyes earnestly converting Gaalo, settling for hood lumps, even open to becoming second wife's and here you are complaining, cajiib.
Did you say hitting late 20s? and Why would I go for the late 20s? My Max 24 years old. I keep adding a year every year from next year. so will be insha allah 25 next year and up and up. Its not about insecurity or courtship. Its just that, I am looking for a 23 year old Maqbiyo, whose mother has never been divorced,very practicing muslimah and her mother practicing too. Without her father having balwad and her whole family being masjid type. Raised in a avery organized and loving household. Who does not need a lot of material wealth but just halaal marriage for future.

Add that up and tell me if you can go to the market and find her easily?
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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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Sumu, 23 is too young for 40 years old. be realistic and make it 33 instead.
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^^^^^Summu its because you insecure - in the sense - you are worried she will compare you to her last man and scared which means you have very low self-confidence.

Say you have only two ladies interested in marrying you:

1) never been married - but you don't find her attractive.
2) married before and you think she is very beautiful.
Which will you pick?
Let me guess - - no need I know already and why.

Also I know few divorcee - with children and Guess what - they get plenty of attention and guys who want to marry them but they are the one been chosey.

Don't try downgrade divorcee just because of your low-self-esteem issuess .
Don't want marry them? -fine -but don't put sisters down to make yourself important -you just come across as creep-attention seeker desperado.--- so not attractive yucky.
And the only reason why you only attract gold-diggers.

Sisterly advice - peace.
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The G broke it down :Obama:
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Hyperactive wrote:Sumu, 23 is too young for 40 years old. be realistic and make it 33 instead.

Because he wants a child that he can manipulate and control not a partner in life.
Little he know - children are very self-centred.
Good luck sumu - I'm out.
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Sumu, just choose your married girl of choice and kill her husband.

Get back to us when you married your widow
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Susu000 wrote:Sumu, just choose your married girl of choice and kill her husband.

Get back to us when you married your widow

I have no bad feelings for the divorced women but I think they should marry the married brothers. Once you have a first wife, anything else is a dessert so its good. You also get ajar by helping a sister out but that Is only when you have a family of your own which you started. Still, I prefer her ex in uu dhinto.
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Sumubaridi wrote:
Susu000 wrote:Sumu, just choose your married girl of choice and kill her husband.

Get back to us when you married your widow
Did you say her last husband? and why do I want to be her second husband. When we were young, our mother used to soak the second hand clothes that she buys for us with a hot water so that the bugs and jiggers from the old owner do not infect us. Also, its for security reasons. Somalis do not disclose their medical records for arogancy. Just imagine if her husband had Jabto, syphilis, goror, dhareer dhiig etc. Where do you think all those things drained into and what will happened to anyone who goes to swim in it. Akhash Caleek.

Also think it has something to do with another man getting the better of me by saying, I got his reebreeb. Just imagine one day if he comes to the mosque and shake hands with me. My Name is Mr. Abdirahman and I am Halima's ex-husband with a crowd watching. Then he smiles and leave.
I'm confused. I thought the whole purpose of this thread was how hard it was to find a widow. And now you don't want one because you don't want a second hand woman?
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There's been a troll and having a little laugh on a public forum and then there's been a 40 yr old o wax walba ku hadlaya. :snoop:

I wish I could buy you some xishood Sumu. :down:
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Susu000 wrote:
Sumubaridi wrote:
Susu000 wrote:Sumu, just choose your married girl of choice and kill her husband.

Get back to us when you married your widow
Did you say her last husband? and why do I want to be her second husband. When we were young, our mother used to soak the second hand clothes that she buys for us with a hot water so that the bugs and jiggers from the old owner do not infect us. Also, its for security reasons. Somalis do not disclose their medical records for arogancy. Just imagine if her husband had Jabto, syphilis, goror, dhareer dhiig etc. Where do you think all those things drained into and what will happened to anyone who goes to swim in it. Akhash Caleek.

Also think it has something to do with another man getting the better of me by saying, I got his reebreeb. Just imagine one day if he comes to the mosque and shake hands with me. My Name is Mr. Abdirahman and I am Halima's ex-husband with a crowd watching. Then he smiles and leave.
I'm confused. I thought the whole purpose of this thread was how hard it was to find a widow. And now you don't want one because you don't want a second hand woman?
widows are not divorced. Allah took their husbands. It means they were good wives and allah took it away. So you are just starting from where the marxuum left. That is why its called widow and divorced. Shuqul iskuma leh. Even with men, nin gabar kadhimatay is more valuable than anigoo kale oo divorced ah although alxamdulillaah my reason for divorced was for love and compassion.
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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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Inaayah wrote:There's been a troll and having a little laugh on a public forum and then there's been a 40 yr old o wax walba ku hadlaya. :snoop:

I wish I could buy you some xishood Sumu. :down:
Xishood for what? ma anigaa caytamay? this is why I hate Somali girl's arrogancy. I remember when we were in high school in biology class and we had to learn women body physiology. All the Somali girls walk out because of some skeleton and pics portrayed in the lab.

All the diseases that I wrote exist and Yes, some guys have. They would infect their wives. So the wive can transfer to whoever marries her in the future life. Naayaa be open minded and be careful. Don't even marry a man without taking him for Jabto test.
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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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Do you mean, widows are not so called "second hand "
You do realize that there is no such thing as a virgin widow. So your theory about your mum soaking second hand clothes in soap applies to widows as for divorcees mate
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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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Sumubaridi wrote:
Inaayah wrote:There's been a troll and having a little laugh on a public forum and then there's been a 40 yr old o wax walba ku hadlaya. :snoop:

I wish I could buy you some xishood Sumu. :down:
Xishood for what? ma anigaa caytamay? this is why I hate Somali girl's arrogancy. I remember when we were in high school in biology class and we had to learn women body physiology. All the Somali girls walk out because of some skeleton and pics portrayed in the lab.

All the diseases that I wrote exist and Yes, some guys have. They would infect their wives. So the wive can transfer to whoever marries her in the future life. Naayaa be open minded and be careful. Don't even marry a man without taking him for Jabto test.
Asaladaada wase "naya" anaga ha nagu odhan.:pacspit:
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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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Innayah told ya he was a nacas

Told ya so


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Re: Too Hard to find a Somali Widow

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I have been too nice to him for far too long.

He's a f-king washed up 40 yr old broke loser who will forever be single. :pacspit:
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