Maybe Sumu should not get married!!!

[TheLoFather]

Remaining single is better for him because he cannot achieve the purpose of marriage, and he would be preventing his wife from becoming chaste by marrying someone else. And he would be harming her by keeping her for himself, and he is exposing himself to obligations and duties that perhaps he cannot fulfil, and he is distracting himself from seeking knowledge and worship with something that is of no benefit to him. 

On the othet hand there is no difference between the one who can afford it and the one who cannot: a man should get married and if he can afford to spend he should spend, and if he cannot then he should be patient.