Faiza Ahmed: how one woman’s cries for help were missed by every authority

[Hyperactive]

lool@blue. wallah i hate dadka cruel ka ah. dambigey ka galeyn that miskeen kid!!

Aisha, her mother was worse. she dropped her in the airport and left and took the passport with her!! imagine 3aseer kid with no somali language, dropped in the airport with nothing but handbag!!

kuwas Allah wo o jeeday!!

[MujahidAishah]

lool@blue. wallah i hate dadka cruel ka ah. dambigey ka galeyn that miskeen kid!!

Aisha, her mother was worse. she dropped her in the airport and left and took the passport with her!! imagine 3aseer kid with no somali language, dropped in the airport with nothing but handbag!!

kuwas Allah wo o jeeday!!

Nacala waa love

She is not fit to be a mum

[YummyMummy]

Ka Darag sis, glad to know you're safe and well, welcome back

This is an incredibly heart-rending story, I didn't know the girl but our families (mothers) knew each other. Allah ha u naxariisto oo ha u dambi dhaafo, Aamiin

[AwRastaale]

Dismiss what I said.

Lesson; next time read little bit more about a Xalimo as you do with politics.

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

What is the difference if she drinks from her mouth or her ceeb?

What is the difference if she forces substances into her body and if a man forces himself into ceeb?

I see no difference.

Wan ogahay inad iga qaylin doontin lakin ruunta uun ban sheegay. If you hate youself and going to waste yourself, cidi kuma qusaynayso. Love yourself.

Say no to drugs.

Damn. Eebow she is a humanbeing. Drinking is a choice she made. Lets not judge her for that. What happened to her should not happen to any woman at all.

[AwRastaale]

AUN

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

I understand where you are coming from. But bro we don't know her full story lets not judge. Lets just say AUN and Move on.

[Tuushi]

What is the difference if she drinks from her mouth or her ceeb?

What is the difference if she forces substances into her body and if a man forces himself into ceeb?

I see no difference.

Wan ogahay inad iga qaylin doontin lakin ruunta uun ban sheegay. If you hate youself and going to waste yourself, cidi kuma qusaynayso. Love yourself.

Say no to drugs.

Wow.Dont be a jerk Mr.almighty.

[AwRastaale]

I understand where you are coming from. But bro we don't know her full story lets not judge. Lets just say AUN and Move on.

Did she die?

AUN



I didn't read the full story eebow. It's true if she no longer with us, we shouldn't say what I said.

Tuushi,

Iga raali ahaw inar. It's Good Friday and I had way too much bakele chocolates.

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

I understand where you are coming from. But bro we don't know her full story lets not judge. Lets just say AUN and Move on.

Did she die?

AUN



I didn't read the full story eebow. It's true if she no longer with us, we shouldn't say what I said.

She made suicide the day after the rape.

[AwRastaale]

This is why I avoid naago topics and should have but bakele chocolate is my own Johnie Walker.

Mel xun bu so gashay maanta eebow.

I feel bad for her and her family.

Suicide is form of mental illness especially amongst isolated and those who abuse substances. Voices speak to them and tell them to harm themselves while some have given up on life.

I support suicide awareness.

[Togdeer]

I don't know why everyone is feeling sorry for this girl like she was an angel.

Firstly she was drunk, she wasn't any goody goody two shoes.
Secondly she was committing sin with her black boyfriend that's so haraam.
Thirdly commuting suicide is one of the buggiest crimes in Islam.

Her family lived 10 minutes away from her. If she was not married was she not better of living with her family?
But instead she choose to live with her black boyfriend.

The way she died also was very sad, she called her mum and said "hooyo I don't want this life". Then she through her self in front of a train.

[AnigaiyoAdiga]

I don't know why everyone is feeling sorry for this girl like she was an angel.

Firstly she was drunk, she wasn't any goody goody two shoes.
Secondly she was committing sin with her black boyfriend that's so haraam.
Thirdly commuting suicide is one of the buggiest crimes in Islam.

Her family lived 10 minutes away from her. If she was not married was she not better of living with her family?
But instead she choose to live with her black boyfriend.

The way she died also was very sad, she called her mum and said "hooyo I don't want this life". Then she through her self in front of a train.

Every suicide is a tragedy. As someone who has experienced suicidal thoughts/ideation and even attempted suicide by walking in front of a van on a dual carriageway (aiming for lorry) , what you said is really hurtful. I've done many other things like lay in the middle of the road more than once, overdosed blaah blaaah...textbook Borderline Personality Disorder stuff. Obviously was not in the right frame of mind when I did these things.


About suicide being haram, although i'm not knowledgeable about the deen, i'm not so sure about that. Anyone who attempts or completes suicide is not sane. That's obvious. So how can and why would Gold punish the person for actions that were the result of the illness? Did He not give them to the person in the first place. I dunno.


Seriously you're heartless. I hope you are never affected by suicide by a family member doing it or something cos it's like the saddest thing in the world. The risk for the other family members increases significantly. You're going to have to google the stats. No one in this world should be committing suicide cos we should all be looking out for each other. It's shocking that ppl do.

It's not like the girl was a rapist or murderer. Then it would be understandable to bring up the angel thing. I'm not a bloody angel. If I topped myself though, I wouldn't want anyone to bring that up. Also a lot of people use substances to get away from their problems.

Anyway i'm going to leave this place for a bit.

If anyone wants to talk to someone in the UK contact the Samaritans on 116 123. It's free from landlines and mobiles.

If you're experiencing a serious mental health crisis e.g. you can't stop yourself from committing suicide, attend your nearest A and E.

Stay safe.

Toodles.

[Inaayah]

AnigaiyoAdiga- Wallahi you're a courageous young lady.

[Inaayah]

AIA- I just wanted to add, excuse those who hurt you with their words because they're talking out of sheer ignorance.

Wallahi billahi I can confidently say you have more balls than ALL of us on this forum put together.

If you can openly talk about a subject that is seen as "ceeb" on a public forum where people who hide behind screens can say anything they want, I salute you. A friggin million times.

I'm glad you don't feel ashamed because you shouldn't. Anyone of us on this forum can be afflicted with an illness just like that so people should be careful with what they say.

Anywho AnigaiyoAdiga, I have nothing but the utmost respect and love for you from this point forward Insh'Allah.