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AyeeyoH wrote: Wed Feb 15, 2017 10:35 am Those little monsters kill your sex life as well. :evil:
Then why come Somali parents keep sexing each other up to the tune of 8+ kids lol
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Say no to children and marriage. :)
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I don't think children perse kill romance, it's just priorities change and that romance takes a different form.


The text messages bit is so true... basically just a grocery list lol
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CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote: Wed Feb 15, 2017 3:53 pm Alxamdulilah salool aad baa loo wada fiicanyahay.

Biibaye, put the bottle down sakhraanyahow lol
Sakhraan yaa ku tilmaamosa oday? Xaa igu aragtay?Dadka aa iskala safanesiid iska dhaaf and cry for arsenal. Thank you.

To keep it 100 tho salool xaywaanta is the only person on here when i see her post she just gets on my nerves everytime with her hollier than thou shit. Maalin dadka lo wacdiina maalinta ku xigto ciyaal suuqnimada ee gees kala qabsane. Fuck her.
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Bibaaye6828 wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2017 2:22 am
CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote: Wed Feb 15, 2017 3:53 pm Alxamdulilah salool aad baa loo wada fiicanyahay.

Biibaye, put the bottle down sakhraanyahow lol
Sakhraan yaa ku tilmaamosa oday? Xaa igu aragtay?Dadka aa iskala safanesiid iska dhaaf and cry for arsenal. Thank you.

To keep it 100 tho salool xaywaanta is the only person on here when i see her post she just gets on my nerves everytime with her hollier than thou shit. Maalin dadka lo wacdiina maalinta ku xigto ciyaal suuqnimada ee gees kala qabsane. Fuck her.
sxb marka hore raali ahow, dee waxaan mooday inaad cirka maraysay, sidaad u caytantay :down: waan ogahay salool ma naxdo some times :lol: lakiin ragu waxaa fiican inay dumarka ka socdaan waliba qof ka wayn ixtiraan dheeraad ayuu ka mudanyahay.

as for arsenal i was just watching arsenal tv on youtube :dead:
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zulaika wrote: Wed Feb 15, 2017 9:14 pm
AyeeyoH wrote: Wed Feb 15, 2017 10:35 am Those little monsters kill your sex life as well. :evil:
Then why come Somali parents keep sexing each other up to the tune of 8+ kids lol
4seconds in a dark room doesnt count dear. :lol:
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Cigaal, xasharaadka meshan so gala looma jawaabo.Just put them on ur ignore list.

Mid kasto aad maalin dhirbaaxdey sidi ilmo yar oo naas dooneya ayuu ka dabo laaladeya siniin miniin. Waligoodba ha cabaadan looma baxo :win:
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Is it the children though or is it the pressure?

The one thing I can see is that when you have kids you have less sleep, less time, less of you to be with you. When people are under pressure the worst of them comes to the surface, no one wants to be with the worst of you so you make the person who is miserable

I wonder if the findings would change if they controlled for social support. Maybe if you don't feel so exhausted (or guilty for not being exhausted) then you have the good sense to continue to put on the best image of you on display for your partner...?
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BVSNet wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2017 3:06 pm Is it the children though or is it the pressure?

The one thing I can see is that when you have kids you have less sleep, less time, less of you to be with you. When people are under pressure the worst of them comes to the surface, no one wants to be with the worst of you so you make the person who is miserable

I wonder if the findings would change if they controlled for social support. Maybe if you don't feel so exhausted (or guilty for not being exhausted) then you have the good sense to continue to put on the best image of you on display for your partner...?

This is exactly how i see. Isnt about the kids its about raking care of them alone without help from family members or maid. And sometimes working outside too. Kids are a blessing and yes they do bring couples closer but stress nd headche are what ruin relantiopships. So if you are a rich nather effer who can afford a maid or live in africa you should be fine.
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This woman is a legend.
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