Man or woman who wears the pants?

[Young_Dave]

In the family/marriage/relationship.

discuss.

[Kramer]

For me its my house my rules-no other person, its my world, she is just a squirrel looking for a nut -it really have nothing to do with the pants --today everybody wears pants--its more like who get the beard and balls, you know what I'm saying then its definitely me.

[SomaliLight]

For the purpose of making a successful household, a woman must fool her husband into thinking he wears the pants in the family, but in reality the woman is the one who excerises all exective functions of the house. She must be independent financialy and psychologically but at the same time She must live with her husband as though he is the sole provider. Men love a woman who is most productive economically and still remains humble house wife. In this way, he knows your are not truly dependent on him, and that you are still capable of being a good mother, and wife

[Nabeela]

I definitely think that a marriage/relationship is a MUTUAL thing between two people. No one has the say over what the other does. A man and woman should love each other enough and care for each other enough to be reasonable and not try to control the other. So, both of them wear the pants!.



P.S I don't like having too much power over someone. The power to know that you could break them in a second b/c they practically worship you.

[Advocator]

[quote="SomaliLight"]For the purpose of making a successful household, a woman must fool her husband into thinking he wears the pants in the family, but in reality the woman is the one who excerises all exective functions of the house. She must be independent financialy and psychologically but at the same time She must live with her husband as though he is the sole provider. Men love a woman who is most productive economically and still remains humble house wife. In this way, he knows your are not truly dependent on him, and that you are still capable of being a good mother, and wife [/quote]



I think you watched too much of the cosby show ........

[xaax_girl]

[quote="Nabeela"]I definitely think that a marriage/relationship is a MUTUAL thing between two people. No one has the say over what the other does. A man and woman should love each other enough and care for each other enough to be reasonable and not try to control the other. So, both of them wear the pants!.



P.S I don't like having too much power over someone. The power to know that you could break them in a second b/c they practically worship you. [/quote]