Can a husband rape his own wife?

smooth · Post by **smooth** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:16 pm

Qac

You believe a Husban is able to rape his Wife? swallow the crap about wifey not being ready, the only excuss for her not be laid is during her menses on you want to add extra days on top of it? Laughing

, Dont you think your being a bit Selfish their check your pockets before u talk

San_dheer · Post by **San_dheer** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:31 pm

To answer the Question, No matter what you guys think the religion says.

No means No! Rolling Eyes

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:33 pm

Yes..a husband is perfectly able to rape his wife ie: have intercourse with her forcefully and without her consent. All I'm saying is that the wife can have her husband locked up and charged with rape if he forces himself on her. Personally if I was in a situation like that I wouldn' t let a man enjoy the pleasure of being locked up in a prison cell. I would think of a more effective punishment myself and inflict some serious damage on those delicate areas Wink

San_dheer · Post by **San_dheer** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:39 pm

LaDy-Qac

You're evil, I like that. I'd do the same. Laughing

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:43 pm

looooooool...if I was a guy and I did that to my wife walahi I wouldn' t sleep in the house Laughing

. But I see we are on the same page on this one Wink

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:48 pm

[quote]Yes..a husband is perfectly able to rape his wife ie: have intercourse with her forcefully and without her consent. All I'm saying is that the wife can have her husband locked up and charged with rape if he forces himself on her.[/quote]

You sound like one of those xaliimos who calls the police on her husband at the slightest disagreement! Waxaasi waa dhaqanka gaalada..
Its your husband we're talking about here.. you know, that gudabiirsi faarax who makes sure you have food on the table? Laughing

.. not an everyday faarax..

If my wife denies me sex with no excuse then I will divorce her ass on the spot, fock raping her Laughing

Back to the thread.. no, A husband can not rape his wife.. its called fair Exchange Biyatch Laughing

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 7:57 pm

Xplosive,

Although I agree with you on the issue of 911 which I am sure Lady is also just joking with, but I have to correct you on two points:

1.. We do not know who puts food on the table... Now days the women are the ones who does that job.

2. Secondly... always remember not to expect from your wife something you would not do yourself... If are not in the mood of "shaqada habeenkii ama maalintii" and your wife forces you to do it how would you feel? Imagine if she also divorces you Sad

Just put yiourself in her shoes.

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 8:07 pm

Nah man, you got me all wrong. I would never call the police on him but I would deal with the situation myself unless ofcourse I feel that this person might kill me or even worse. The thing is if a women isn' t in the mood for intercourse then it' s her right to refuse. She isn' t your property ilahay ba iska leh Rolling Eyes

. A husband should respect and honour his wife and a wife should do the same. If she isn' t in the mood then he should understand period Evil or Very Mad

and there is always next time.

Like I said before if I'm in a situation like that I would never hand him over to the police I would inflict my own little evil tricks if you know what I mean Twisted Evil

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 8:14 pm

[quote]Xplosive,

Although I agree with you on the issue of 911 which I am sure Lady is also just joking with, but I have to correct you on two points:

1.. We do not know who puts food on the table... Now days the women are the ones who does that job.[/quote]

Where do you get that from? Welfare is not "putting food on the table".. I think what you mean is "nowadays its the STATE that puts food on the table" walaal Laughing

Anyway, I'm not talking about single cases.. According to Islam the man is supposed to take care of his family... Its the womans right to be taken care of properly and in return she has to take care of her man.

[quote]2. Secondly... always remember not to expect from your wife something you would not do yourself... If are not in the mood of "shaqada habeenkii ama maalintii" and your wife forces you to do it how would you feel? Imagine if she also divorces you Sad

Just put yiourself in her shoes[/quote]

I didnt say I would divorce her if she said no because she was stressed or whatever.. but if she says no, just to say no.. like many women do nowadays.. then I would divorce her on the spot.

Also, it depends on how many times she refuses.. if the woman is perfectly fine and nothing is wrong with her and she denies me sex just to prove a point and does it repeatedly.. then I dont see why I shouldnt divorce her.

I've heard some messed up stories of how some of these Somali women can get Laughing

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 8:20 pm

[quote]Nah man, you got me all wrong. I would never call the police on him but I would deal with the situation myself unless ofcourse I feel that this person might kill me or even worse. The thing is if a women isn' t in the mood for intercourse then it' s her right to refuse. She isn' t your property ilahay ba iska leh Rolling Eyes

. A husband should respect and honour his wife and a wife should do the same. If she isn' t in the mood then he should understand period Evil or Very Mad

and there is always next time. [/quote]

No, there is not always next time.. what if she is not "in the mood" the next time also? There is a reason why sex in a marriage is a healthy thing.. sometimes, a guy really needs some.. and with those powerfull urges coupled with the Shaytaan he may do some things if his WIFE denies him.. especially if she does it more than once Laughing

Thats why I said I would divorce her on the spot if she tries to run that one on me.. rather do that than sin.

[quote]
Like I said before if I'm in a situation like that I would never hand him over to the police I would inflict my own little evil tricks if you know what I mean Twisted Evil

[/quote]'

Thats un-islamic.. just get a divorce if you're not happy in the marriage.

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 8:38 pm

loool Xpo, alla xumaa Surprised

. I can already picture you threating your wife with Furiitan each time she does something really wrong Laughing

. Divorce it's self is not a desired option in our culture or islamically. You can always work things out. Divorce should be the last resort!.

You can never be sure as to why your wife might not be in the mood for intercourse. There are so many things that go on you men will never understand therefore if a women states that she is in no mood there must something wrong!.And I'm sure it' s unislamic if a man batters his wife and forces intercourse without her consent which will lead to bruising or other physical injury Rolling Eyes

. I don' t think there is a reason a man should sin. Y'all are allowed to have 4 wives.

If one acts up you can find another one without divorcing the one that' s never in the mood Laughing

...at least then when you get a new wife and the old one hears about her she'll die of jealousy and she'll definately be in the mood after that Wink

. See waaye Xplosive Very Happy

...do I have to spill it out for you like that caamo Laughing

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 9:19 pm

Nah man, I dont believe in marrying more than one woman. Too many complications...

michael_ital · Post by **michael_ital** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 11:32 pm

sex without permission is rape. Period.

Ashlee · Post by **Ashlee** » Tue Apr 18, 2006 11:38 pm

yeah, just like how a woman can rape a man. Laughing

what a load of bull.