[quote="biko"]
lady_qac
it will take more than a hijab to deter biko...
i also have a prayer book, and for a moment i entertained the idea of reaching for mine and say, " i got one just like it". do you think it would have helped?
come sis help a brother out and tell me whats the best approach in those situation.[/quote]
Biko you asked for lady's take . here is mine. I don't know this hijab sister you are talking about, so i can't really tell what she is thinking and how to approach her. But if she is pulling out the prayer book.... that does say a lot
. biko i know you may not like my opinion on this but i'll give you the truth. I been is same situation as that sister, but I have used other techiques. i never pulled out my quran or prayer book out my hand bag like that
. maybe i should try it.
but to be serious biko. if i was that girl(REMEMBER I'M NOT) i think i would have prefered that you didn't approach me at all. Next time you are interest in a sister like that try use "networking" skills. Meaning. See who this sister is connected with . Her friends, sister,brothers,cousins ,relatives, dad, mom etc. Find out who this girl knows. ANd get to know these people.Then ask these people to *cough* to hook you up?. Believe me biko this approach is much more honorable in my opinion. IT shows how much you respect the sister .
Just my 2 cents take it or leave it.
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