How to be a good wife in the 21st century - PPD

[TheAspiringMufti]

Alpha, that's true. How can we at the same time fulfill our sexual needs and not get married? I would like to know...

[Alphanumeric]

Alpha I used to think that, still kinda do and you have no idea how much worse it is when you factor in the physical strain as a female.

But that is how the world works and those cute, sticky, financial black holes make men and women do things to themselves voluntarily. Things which had anyone else done to you, would lead to them being locked away in a prison cell for a long time. Your clock will also start to tick and chances are you will also give in like many have done before you. And what will happen to you after that only time will tell...

I have no desire to reproduce. Perhaps one day I'll adopt, if I have some overwhelming urge to be the benefactor of an unfortunate child. Sadly the world looks through a squinted eye at a guy wanting to adopt.

Kids are not fun. Once you have them, your life is over. Done. They are not the reason "men and women do things to themselves". They're simply a product. And most often unforeseen and unplanned.

I'm a male; I have no clock, so long as I have money.

Alpha, that's true. How can we at the same time fulfill our sexual needs and not get married? I would like to know...

Robots. Soon enough, trust me lol.

[AgentOfChaos]

Stephen King eat your heart out. Bv you would make one hell of a horror novelist.

You'd be the character who tries to be in denial until one by one the rest fall away. The one who says "guys...? Quit playing with me"

Fine with me as long as I'm not the black guy who always dies first in all horror stories. That's so racist.

[Tuushi]

Alpha, that's true. How can we at the same time fulfill our sexual needs and not get married? I would like to know...

Have u met Yalaxow?

[Titanium]

Alphanumeric is right. Kids are a huge headache.

I am thinking of maybe adopting "older" (over 12 yrs of age) children and raising them when I am in my early 40s with my newly married wife God willing.

As for now, save up money, establish myself and live a peaceful life for about 1.5-2 decades

[SultanOrder]

I'm an incredibly presumptuous guys, but I'll have you know that I'm working on it.


But, getting back to my point, if whatever is stopping you from marriage in Canada, and you want to marry, why not move where the same conditions do not exist?

Is that better for you?

[TheAspiringMufti]

Robots? I wonder if having intercourse with one would be considered zina, I'll have to await a fatwa for that one.

[Lillaahiya]

What kind of world do you people live in? Cause the world I live in, marriage typically benefits men. Married men have higher salaries than single men, whereas married women experience depreciated incomes, especially after childbirth. Married men tend to be healthier, report they are more happier, and live longer than single men. Most of the resentment stems from the fear of financial coercion, which shouldn't be that much of an issue since 99% of us won't make what Usher or Tyson paid out in settlements over our entire lifetime.

[AgentOfChaos]

Alpha, that's true. How can we at the same time fulfill our sexual needs and not get married? I would like to know...

Have u met Yalaxow?

Watermelon.

[BlackVelvet]

Kids are not fun. Once you have them, your life is over. Done.

In a lot of ways that is true. But if you've ever spent a lot of time with a child then you will also see that in a lot of ways a part of your life that you'd never considered begins. Your heart grows to accommodate the needs of a human being that didn't exist a few months back but one who you'd gladly take a bullet for. It's a strange feeling.

As for you being a man and not having a clock...well let's wait and see

[TheAspiringMufti]

What kind of world do you people live in? Cause the world I live in, marriage typically benefits men. Married men have higher salaries than single men, whereas married women experience depreciated incomes, especially after childbirth. Married men tend to be healthier, report they are more happier, and live longer than single men. Most of the resentment stems from the fear of financial coercion, which shouldn't be that much of an issue since 99% of us won't make what Usher or Tyson paid out in settlements over our entire lifetime.

You quoting Pusha T and you giving us marriage advice yareey?

[Lillaahiya]

^

[Alphanumeric]

What kind of world do you people live in? Cause the world I live in, marriage typically benefits men. Married men have higher salaries than single men, whereas married women experience depreciated incomes, especially after childbirth. Married men tend to be healthier, report they are more happier, and live longer than single men. Most of the resentment stems from the fear of financial coercion, which shouldn't be that much of an issue since 99% of us won't make what Usher or Tyson paid out in settlements over our entire lifetime.

The world that is blind to women.

Kids are not fun. Once you have them, your life is over. Done.

In a lot of ways that is true. But if you've ever spent a lot of time with a child then you will also see that in a lot of ways a part of your life that you'd never considered begins. Your heart grows to accommodate the needs of a human being that didn't exist a few months back but one who you'd gladly take a bullet for. It's a strange feeling.

As for you being a man and not having a clock...well let's wait and see

No one needs to tell me anything about children. I'm fully aware of attachments and the like. That isn't a good enough reason. Little better than hoping they'll toil the land and provide in your old age.

[Tuushi]

Alpha, that's true. How can we at the same time fulfill our sexual needs and not get married? I would like to know...

Have u met Yalaxow?

Watermelon.

If all fails for the fellas,there`s always that i guess.

[Lillaahiya]

The world that is blind to women.

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