Bisinka iyo burdah, meesha walaxaa ka dhacee
SANDIEGUY wrote:No it does not mean that and the prophet's sunnah (csw) is a testament to that. There are many things Allah decrees which the human being does not like but obeying them and fighting your nafs/pride is faith. And if you say no then its a sin. And don't give me that why not share your wife argument not cause its not allowed but because of the implications. There is wisdom behind it so think about it a little. Salaam
You first came to this thread saying this ^.
In the end you gave up your initial sentiment and said:
SANDIEGUY wrote:I am aware that she can get divorced from the guy regardless of what he says but I am asking would not wanting him to marry a second wife be a valid reason according to Shari'a although it would be a perfectly valid reason to her. Would the sheikh see it that way if the man is perfectly able to fulfill his xaqq on both families and his first wife havent put that on their marriage cobtract. Dont be like this kid fall and accuse me of things i didn't say. You said yourself if the brother is able to fulfill his xaqq he should be able to. You can say the woman has a right to get mad and divorce him but I'm asking is it right just for the sole purpose of jealousy according to deen?
Titanium wrote:You are only allowed multiple wives to support the woman and not out of your desire to have more flower (ie: your brother died and his wife has no income). People should stop twisting the religion to suit them. I am skeptical at first when I see some men with multiple wives but then I remove all benefit of the doubt when I see them divorcing their wives for fresh meat. Marrying multiple wives simply to have more ass is haram. But the retarded imams don't bother informing the people since they engage in the practice themselves. The ummah is full of hypocritical and immoral bunch and the imams are on the top.
Follow what Allah has said, stop twisting his words or leave the faith. Its that simple. We don't need Islam being corrupted.
Titanium wrote:I am a male and I practice Islam. Not abusing what Islam says and not practicing filthy behavior. Marrying multiple wives has a purpose. It is an honorable duty, not a sexual one. Were you expecting me to side with horny males when its haram to do such a practice to just satisfy your ceeb? Like I said, stop abusing my religion. Or simple, leave Islam. This is a message to anyone who wants to corrupt my religion. Anyone who wants to play around with Allah is worse than a dog. Go practice your sex orgies and open up your own faith. Also anyone who marries a new wife without the consent of their wife is committing adultery and qualifies for stoning. Retarded reformists. You arethe same as gays who try to legitimize their sodomy
Cherine wrote:
Surah An Nisa v 3
' Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one,'
Surah an Nisa v 129
'You will never be able to be fair and just as between women even if it is your ardent desire: but turn not away (from a woman) altogether so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If you come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.'
I find the above three quotes to be the best answers for the likes of SANDIEGUY and SaacJabshee.
Jasmine6 wrote:SANDIEGUY wrote: if you say no then its a sin
All you need is a big gar and a khamiis, say it with conviction markaas and have her eating out of your hand. Wasakh bila edab
Exactly!
Alshabaibe wrote:Warsheekh wrote:
Thats something else
Habeen wanagsan!
What he needs is washamsi
Lol! Big time.
zulaika wrote:DeeqaDagan wrote:Garoob aad ka hadlee, gabar xitaa uma ogoli. My way or the highway Zuli
Lol, what's all that talk up there that you think it's ok for garoob to go after married then?
Abaayo, I don't believe that a garoob should go after a married man. No no. Not at all. In fact, such garoobs are home wreckers balaayo ha aragtee. lol. What I said was that, if the girl was never married before, why should she go for a married man? She can get any young man who was never married before. They can both turn over a new leaf as a married couple together. If she is garoob, then it's fine. She can hit it off with the married man easily. Although, I don't approve of garoobyaal chasing nin xaas leh oo reer kiisa dhaqanaayo. Haduu ninka damco inuu guursado gabadha garoobka ah, taas wax dhib ah uma arko hadeyba iyadana ku qanacsan tahay. Allaha isugu barakeeyo aan dhihi karaa markaas.
Cant argue with that
