I can't get over this embarrassment, I just can't

[flyWOODY]

Bismilaahiyow!!!!

Dadka meeshaan ku jira qaarkood aan ka yaabay...

Listen, there is nothing to be embarrassed! You just need to keep your hands to yourself. Don't hit your brothers no matter what. When someone gets in pain, it is very normal for the person to retaliate and strength has nothing to do with age. Maybe you didn't wanted to harm your brother, while he exerted all his strength on you. Maybe he is physically bigger or stronger than you. You should understand kids don't just stay the way they are...

Move on and apologize to your brother and be the bigger person... and don't listen to those people who are calling you flower etc..a brave person is the one who leaves alone his brothers and sisters even though he can fight/argue etc

And remember the Somali saying "Waayeel xanuunsaday, xil ma garto"

But but but I'm humiliated and he could treat me is a little b*tch..I've lost my credibility with him bc he put me to sleep

[Marques]

It doesn't matter if he is stronger/bigger/taller than you. If he respects you as his older brother then that's what matters.

BTW punching and stabbing your own brother when you're 20+? Sounding like petty street kids yall can't be serious

[Rambie]

BTW punching and stabbing your own brother when you're 20+? Sounding like petty street kids yall can't be serious

lol, we rarely fought even when we were kids. I was and still ignoring him every time but sometimes he crosses the line. You dont seem to know my brother. He is an embarrassment. He is 22 and have a year to graduate from college yet he does not know how to talk or act in public or to people (he treats males and females alike). He failed in driving exams dozens of times and still did not pass at the moment (since 2011 loool) He is the only one among us who managed to grow a bear yet he still watches cartoon and animations. He watches Hentai instead of real porn. He stinks like hell and take a shower 2 or 3 times a week (keep in mind he is going to COLLEGE) he hates anyone taking his clothes but yet he take the other peoples cloth (he got into a fight with my younger brother a year ago for a shirt and got his shoulder dislocated cos he always fall on his weak side everytime) he is the type of person who does not wash away his tooth paste he spited after brushing his teeth. He is the type if hoyoo asked him to give him a dollar he would come back the next day and ask her "where is my money?"!!! he is so fking loud he screams all day long on my younger brothers for the most stupid things like "change the channel or bring that thing from there" and waked me up Hundreds if not thousands of times (our first fight was because he shouted for 10 minutes I hardly sleep tried to sleep from 9 to 12 and almost falled for it but the nacaas woke me up for a another stupid reason I forget it already) at our house we all call him "The alien", cos he has this huge forehead and undiplomatic behavior (sometimes abnormal and unhuman). He walks in a funny way and acts like a lttke kid. I have far more respect for my 8th grade brother and others than this socially retarded punk. Wallahi I am cursed for having such a wasakh brother.

[Hodan94]

^ wow you have just accurately described my brothers, I thought I was the only one dealing with the immature behaviour

[Xamud.]

^^^^ Rambie
Sounds like you guys are in a dire need of some family counselling. I have yet to come across someone like you, who's airing out shit about his own brother, that's foul man. Whatever he is or does, he is still your brother, and your older brother at that, show some restraint dude.


Me and brothers rarely fight nowdays, even if we were to fight, it never gets to a level where one of us gets a proper beat down. As for younger brothers, I will always be stronger than my younger brothers, not matter how tall or how big they get, it's science, I mean if my younger brother was to beat me up, it would be like achieving something that goes against nature.


It's all about having a hierarchy, it should never get physical, they should fear and respect you, and you should respect and support them and show restraint, if you abuse your role as the "older brother" they will get fed up and stop respecting you, even if you are capable of beating them up, it won't help.

[Julkimi]

Rambie: Why are you spilling your family business on here like that? I don't understand siblings who hate each other, Every siblings fight and disagree with each other but blood is thicker than water, no matter what your brother is or does he's still is your blood. It's your duty to hide his flaws.

[Rambie]

Post by Julkimi » Mon Dec 08, 2014 3:12 am

Rambie: Why are you spilling your family business on here like that? I don't understand siblings who hate each other, Every siblings fight and disagree with each other but blood is thicker than water, no matter what your brother is or does he's still is your blood. It's your duty to hide his flaws.

It just happened that this thread is telling a story similar to what I got through. Beside, do you see me mentioning his name or our family name or something. To you am an anonymous. But in real world i wouldnt say shit

ps: are you the oldest Sister ???? That would explain a lot!

[Julkimi]

Rambie: No I am not the oldest, I am a middle child. But I can sense some kind of resentment towards your end, if it really bothers you that much, you should talk to him in a mature way. I was raised to always state what bothers me and not to hold my tongue. My siblings and I communicate, if I see them doing something wrong I always tell them and they do the same with me.

[Rambie]

^^^^ Rambie
Sounds like you guys are in a dire need of some family counselling. I have yet to come across someone like you, who's airing out shit about his own brother, that's foul man. Whatever he is or does, he is still your brother, and your older brother at that, show some restraint dude.


Me and brothers rarely fight nowdays, even if we were to fight, it never gets to a level where one of us gets a proper beat down. As for younger brothers, I will always be stronger than my younger brothers, not matter how tall or how big they get, it's science, I mean if my younger brother was to beat me up, it would be like achieving something that goes against nature.


It's all about having a hierarchy, it should never get physical, they should fear and respect you, and you should respect and support them and show restraint, if you abuse your role as the "older brother" they will get fed up and stop respecting you, even if you are capable of beating them up, it won't help.

ninhow, I dont hate him cos he is my older brother, i hate him cos of his personality. On all other families around us from all nationalities the oldest brother is always active, smart, leader of the family. I got this stupid nacaas that i have to clean after him everytime he screws something up. The thing is he emabareses our family name. when I am somewhere with alot of people and I sighte him from far away. I pack my bags and leave. I don't need anymore scandals.

[Hyperactive]

Rambie, pray for him and be nice to him.

every family there is issues , myself i have literlly crazy bro, who is so extreme that i am afraid he will be arrested. for him every one is mortad. but thanks to Allah, my father is still in control. he cannot bring his bullshit in the house. other people tells me what he says in the masjid and school. his friends all stayed away from him cause they scare from his extreme views.

he is been lonely for a while, so he doesnt go out much, other than to school or masjid. im so scared this is calm before the storm. so i make little talk with him and joke, but he is not liking it. lol God helps.

whatever happen never get physical that never helps and your relation never be the same.

[ciddhartha]

lol, we rarely fought even when we were kids. I was and still ignoring him every time but sometimes he crosses the line. You dont seem to know my brother. He is an embarrassment. He is 22 and have a year to graduate from college yet he does not know how to talk or act in public or to people (he treats males and females alike). He failed in driving exams dozens of times and still did not pass at the moment (since 2011 loool) He is the only one among us who managed to grow a bear yet he still watches cartoon and animations. He watches Hentai instead of real porn. He stinks like hell and take a shower 2 or 3 times a week (keep in mind he is going to COLLEGE) he hates anyone taking his clothes but yet he take the other peoples cloth (he got into a fight with my younger brother a year ago for a shirt and got his shoulder dislocated cos he always fall on his weak side everytime) he is the type of person who does not wash away his tooth paste he spited after brushing his teeth. He is the type if hoyoo asked him to give him a dollar he would come back the next day and ask her "where is my money?"!!! he is so fking loud he screams all day long on my younger brothers for the most stupid things like "change the channel or bring that thing from there" and waked me up Hundreds if not thousands of times (our first fight was because he shouted for 10 minutes I hardly sleep tried to sleep from 9 to 12 and almost falled for it but the nacaas woke me up for a another stupid reason I forget it already) at our house we all call him "The alien", cos he has this huge forehead and undiplomatic behavior (sometimes abnormal and unhuman). He walks in a funny way and acts like a lttke kid. I have far more respect for my 8th grade brother and others than this socially retarded punk. Wallahi I am cursed for having such a wasakh brother.

Saxib, you just described Asperger's (autism). Ninyahow your entire family (excluding your possibly autistic brother) is wasakh.

[Rambie]

Saxib, you just described Asperger's (autism). Ninyahow your entire family (excluding your possibly autistic brother) is wasakh.

SXB, do you live here? you joned less than two months and already got 300 comments!

Get A Life Freak

[ciddhartha]

Saxib, you just described Asperger's (autism). Ninyahow your entire family (excluding your possibly autistic brother) is wasakh.

SXB, do you live here? you joned less than two months and already got almost 300 comments!

Get A Life Freak

Qof baas baad tahay. Learn compassion and understanding.

I know a Somali woman who gossiped all over town about the autistic child of another Somali woman. Guess what she was blessed with, an autistic child. A violent, troublesome one at that. I don't believe in karma or fate but it's just poetic how that turned out.

[Marques]

BTW punching and stabbing your own brother when you're 20+? Sounding like petty street kids yall can't be serious

lol, we rarely fought even when we were kids. I was and still ignoring him every time but sometimes he crosses the line. You dont seem to know my brother. He is an embarrassment. He is 22 and have a year to graduate from college yet he does not know how to talk or act in public or to people (he treats males and females alike). He failed in driving exams dozens of times and still did not pass at the moment (since 2011 loool) He is the only one among us who managed to grow a bear yet he still watches cartoon and animations. He watches Hentai instead of real porn. He stinks like hell and take a shower 2 or 3 times a week (keep in mind he is going to COLLEGE) he hates anyone taking his clothes but yet he take the other peoples cloth (he got into a fight with my younger brother a year ago for a shirt and got his shoulder dislocated cos he always fall on his weak side everytime) he is the type of person who does not wash away his tooth paste he spited after brushing his teeth. He is the type if hoyoo asked him to give him a dollar he would come back the next day and ask her "where is my money?"!!! he is so fking loud he screams all day long on my younger brothers for the most stupid things like "change the channel or bring that thing from there" and waked me up Hundreds if not thousands of times (our first fight was because he shouted for 10 minutes I hardly sleep tried to sleep from 9 to 12 and almost falled for it but the nacaas woke me up for a another stupid reason I forget it already) at our house we all call him "The alien", cos he has this huge forehead and undiplomatic behavior (sometimes abnormal and unhuman). He walks in a funny way and acts like a lttke kid. I have far more respect for my 8th grade brother and others than this socially retarded punk. Wallahi I am cursed for having such a wasakh brother.

LOL sxb has he pissed you off this evening? Whenever my older Bro pisses me off i start to recall all his shitty traits too. Sometimes you gotta take a deep breath and be mature, even when others around you are immature. At the very least just don't give your dear Mother another headache.

I use to think i was more sensible and smarter than him but in reality he showed better maturity than me from a young age. Even though he was older just by 2 years, it was always me who cried loud enough to get a Bike first, the game consoles, a TV, even the top bunk in our old bedroom etc. I use to be the one allowed to sleep over at our cousins whilst he went back home because there weren't enough space..it was me the Macalins loved at dugsi because i learnt quraan quicker than him...he was good at Skl but my Dad gave him a harder time than me coz i made sure not to fall into his mistakes

Looking back now, i feel bad that i never noticed all this, so to make up for it i always make sure to give him the respect an older brother should, even if he treats me like shit. The same annoying siblings you have will one day become some of the very few contacts you keep in your later life.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Loool u need to start lifting dude