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AbdiJohnson wrote: Sun Feb 08, 2015 10:43 pm It's incredibly stupid.

The stress of sponsoring her, having her enrolled in ESLfor a few years, having to teach them to drive and have all that stuff. Its literally a 10 year struggle. And she won't have good income to bring in, possibly for the rest of her life, if any

It's probably the most stupidest thing anyone can do. This goes for the women who bring their husbands from Africa.

There's more to life than finding a completely submissive woman, something that isn't even guaranteed when you bring her here. Theres a mortgage to pay for, bills, children to raise in a Western environment. I've seen many Somali fobs go wild here so its a myth that these girls back home are innocent. Many diaspora guys fool around with local girls back home.

Stop this madness and don't raise your future children in a single income households with mothers who are not empowered. Household incomes should be no less than $100K so you can enjoy life like a real family should. Annual vacations, having the money to take your kids to soccer practice, not having to sacrifice, 2 cars. I see these men who bring wives from Mogadishu or Bosaso and its like they don't think about their family's future. They have zero regard for their future kids. Why, after coming here 20 years ago, would you want to bring a wife from back home who will not integrate properly? Who will not be able to help her kids with their homework properly?

We already been through that struggle. No need to do it on the future generation who are supposed to have a better life we had growing up

I am,

Abdi "Its madness" Johnson

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