Modern Day Polygamy

Daily chitchat.

Moderators: Moderators, Junior Moderators

Forum rules
This General Forum is for general discussions from daily chitchat to more serious discussions among Somalinet Forums members. Please do not use it as your Personal Message center (PM). If you want to contact a particular person or a group of people, please use the PM feature. If you want to contact the moderators, pls PM them. If you insist leaving a public message for the mods or other members, it will be deleted.

How do you feel about polygamy?

Men: I would never do it.
8
19%
Men: Why not? As long as she is happy with the idea and I can FULLY AND EQUALLY SUPPORT ALL WIVES AND CHILDREN. (I also pray 5 times a day and am a devout Muslim)
26
60%
Women: I wouldn't dream of accepting to be a sister wife.
6
14%
Women: As long as he loves us both equally, why not?
3
7%
 
Total votes: 43

User avatar
Idman702
SomaliNet Heavyweight
SomaliNet Heavyweight
Posts: 3486
Joined: Mon Mar 02, 2015 11:06 am

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by Idman702 »

If you're treating your man right,he won't feel the need to get another woman. Let's be honest, most Somali women don't take care of themselves or their husbands, most of them put the kids before the husband. They don't decorate the house nor do they take time to look good for their men. If you feed, walk, and play with a dog then that dog won't stray.


Now let's talk about 50+ perverted geezer who marry child brides. I blame the child's parents and her surroundings. What the hell are they going to talk to a child with? How are they going to have a conversation with this child? They don't have common interests. These geezers should be jailed for a long time. They're selling hopes and dreams to these young women.


P.s

They basically made prostitution xalal. These women are marrying 50, 60 and 70 year olds for money and American passport. There's no love and chemistry. She's selling her body for America! :down:
User avatar
GAMES
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 8220
Joined: Fri May 25, 2001 7:00 pm
Location: U.S

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by GAMES »

Having one wife is already hard enough, imagine TWO of them. Smh

But I am not surprised though, because I know a guy who left the US and went to Somalia to get married without his first wife not knowing about it.

It was the biggest scandal in my city at the time.
User avatar
gegiroor
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 6445
Joined: Sun Mar 22, 2015 11:57 pm

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by gegiroor »

Essence89 wrote:@BV, they could be living in high-rise but different floors. Habeenba mid buu usoo degi lahaa ;).... plus if all parties are happy and financially stable, why not? :Shrug:
Exactly. If the husband is a good man and financially stable, his wives are raaliyos, and they are all happy, that is all that is needed. :up:
User avatar
gegiroor
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 6445
Joined: Sun Mar 22, 2015 11:57 pm

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by gegiroor »

Idman702 wrote:If you're treating your man right,he won't feel the need to get another woman. Let's be honest, most Somali women don't take care of themselves or their husbands, most of them put the kids before the husband. They don't decorate the house nor do they take time to look good for their men. If you feed, walk, and play with a dog then that dog won't stray.


Now let's talk about 50+ perverted geezer who marry child brides. I blame the child's parents and her surroundings. What the hell are they going to talk to a child with? How are they going to have a conversation with this child? They don't have common interests. These geezers should be jailed for a long time. They're selling hopes and dreams to these young women.


P.s

They basically made prostitution xalal. These women are marrying 50, 60 and 70 year olds for money and American passport. There's no love and chemistry. She's selling her body for America! :down:
For some reason, older Somali guys like to marry innocent young girls who are in their 20s, and majority of the time, these girls are from poor families. It is a culture that originates from baadiye and it seems it makes old men feel more manly and proud of themselves.

So, yes Idman, you're right, the younger women are marrying it for money and American passport. The old men have figured out the game tough, they would never bring these younger wives into the West, 'cause as soon as they get here, they will leave their older husbands. They're keeping them backhome. Well, many of these finance-based relationships won't last long.
User avatar
GAMES
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 8220
Joined: Fri May 25, 2001 7:00 pm
Location: U.S

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by GAMES »

Horta, what are the Pro's and Cons of marriage?

Pro's :
You can brag to your friends you got kids.

You have someone to carry ur family name and bloodline

Hopefully they'd be there in ur old age and take care of u

Cons:

Say good bye to ur freedom, no more Xoriyad.

Your Xaas would constantly nag you

DAGAAL joogto ah, Buuq, Qeylo iyo Muran aan dhameenen

Your kids might turn out to be losers, after spending 18yrs of raising them and become like some of the people on here. All for what? Tacab khasaaray.

No Lacag, cuz ur Xaas takes everything and wants you to bring more Lacag. So you'd end up working to death.

Fast Forward to when you are 65yrs old. You are old, ur ilmo hate you, Xaas can't stand you, you are broken and have no more will. You are regretting ur life choices and wondering how things turned out so bad.

Waa iga talo...don't get married. It's a trap.

:snoop:
User avatar
EvolSyawla
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 5196
Joined: Sun Jun 08, 2014 10:59 am
Location: A woman proud of who she is cannot be made to feel otherwise of who she is not.

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by EvolSyawla »

Brothers, you are delusional.

I should make another poll of "how many wives do you KNOW for a fact are completely okay with their husband marrying/have married another woman?"

lol "If you feed, walk, and play with a dog then that dog won't stray."
Image
User avatar
EvolSyawla
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 5196
Joined: Sun Jun 08, 2014 10:59 am
Location: A woman proud of who she is cannot be made to feel otherwise of who she is not.

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by EvolSyawla »

GAMES wrote:Horta, what are the Pro's and Cons of marriage?

Cons:
Your kids might turn out to be losers, after spending 18yrs of raising them and become like some of the people on here. All for what? Tacab khasaaray.

:leon:
User avatar
Idman702
SomaliNet Heavyweight
SomaliNet Heavyweight
Posts: 3486
Joined: Mon Mar 02, 2015 11:06 am

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by Idman702 »

Am I right or am I right about that part? :Shrug:
User avatar
GAMES
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 8220
Joined: Fri May 25, 2001 7:00 pm
Location: U.S

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by GAMES »

EvolSyawla wrote:
GAMES wrote:Horta, what are the Pro's and Cons of marriage?

Cons:
Your kids might turn out to be losers, after spending 18yrs of raising them and become like some of the people on here. All for what? Tacab khasaaray.

:leon:
It's true. Infact, future kids are probably gonna be worse than what we have now.

If you think the Atheist, the Homosexuals, the ISIS supporters we have on the forum now are bad, wait until you get married and have kids in 2015 or later.

You would wish you never had them. Every generation is worse than the 1 before.
User avatar
EvolSyawla
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 5196
Joined: Sun Jun 08, 2014 10:59 am
Location: A woman proud of who she is cannot be made to feel otherwise of who she is not.

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by EvolSyawla »

Excuse me, but I (and many women on here) have never been attacked or threatened with rape, murder and other disgusting things by any of the Atheists, the Homosexuals, or the ISIS supporters...So let's keep the judging to a minimum.


Idman macaaney, I would like to hope not. But truth is, for men and women, we have our needs and we must strive to be the end-all for each other. InshaAllah, I have no other intention for Reacher. Otherwise if our hubbies get fat, wrinkly and annoying we can divorce them (since we can't have polygamy) and get with someone younger without all the buuq. Sounds insane, but that's these fktards are doing and have the audacity to say they are helping a young woman lool
User avatar
CaliQase
SomaliNet Heavyweight
SomaliNet Heavyweight
Posts: 2024
Joined: Mon Jan 19, 2015 11:26 am

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by CaliQase »

^^ Waa iyaduna ku yar ha raadsaato, isna tu yar ha raadsado soo maaha?
User avatar
GAMES
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 8220
Joined: Fri May 25, 2001 7:00 pm
Location: U.S

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by GAMES »

I was talking about FUTURE Somali generations.

The kids that are born 2015 or later.

:snoop:
User avatar
Suleiman117
Posts: 110
Joined: Sat Dec 14, 2013 11:15 am
Location: Ottawa, Ontario.

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by Suleiman117 »

One man. One woman. One household. One family. Under the one true God whom we call Allah. Best solution.
User avatar
EvolSyawla
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 5196
Joined: Sun Jun 08, 2014 10:59 am
Location: A woman proud of who she is cannot be made to feel otherwise of who she is not.

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by EvolSyawla »

:up:
User avatar
Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 7665
Joined: Tue Feb 21, 2006 12:52 am
Location: Jubbaland

Re: Modern Day Polygamy

Post by Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE »

Suleiman117 wrote:One man. One woman. One household. One family. Under the one true God whom we call Allah. Best solution.
This :clap:
Post Reply
  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to “General - General Discussions”