Trust me, it don't matter if she is in the family if things go bad.
I'd rather be wed to a Shiisheye if things were to go sour. I'd know what tatics to apply and not have to deal with the consquences of seeing her or her relatives again.
Its a good thing to get to know a person well before you commit. Closing your eyes and taking a leap of faith sounds romantic but nothing is worse than having a horrible marriage.
My cousin is married to this Sacad woman and she puts him through hell. Her family are a bunch of barracudas (which I suspect is because they are Rer Konfuur not from Mudug). He is 40 but looks like he is 60 cause of the stress. I told him to walk away from her but his love for the kids keeps him there.
KK, You are just a GAROOB producer & I am there to help rehabilitate your victims

Isamahan:
You have refreshing ideas and what not. Don't compromise the whole courtship thing. Take your time because its a lifetime commitment.