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Really though, elaborating what I meant is a distribution of roles for both the Guy and the girl, a understanding of what each person's role is. I do agree it does vary for each family. I mean if the Woman earns signifigantly more than the Man, obviously it is different She has to play the bread winner role. If it is the opposite than the Guy should. Different for each family. It would be ludicrous to tell a girl who's been to school, graduated can get a good job to sit at home and watch Your Husband while He works 80 hours a week on a taxi just to make ends meet. If the Man, can comfortably take care of the financial things in the house though, then I think it is a good thing if the Wife focuses on raising the kids, etc. Heck I still wouldn't mind Her working in that circumstance with a job flexible enough to not intefere with Her family life.
I know a Somali sister who has done this, and she's very happy right now. I think it depends on you and what you're looking for. A guy back home isn't necessarily better than one in qurbaha and vice versa...you'll probably face different obstacles with each, it's always going to be hard work..nothing in life is easy.
Firefly wrote:I know a Somali sister who has done this, and she's very happy right now. I think it depends on you and what you're looking for. A guy back home isn't necessarily better than one in qurbaha and vice versa...you'll probably face different obstacles with each, it's always going to be hard work..nothing in life is easy.
Well said Firefly, it does matter where your partner is from as long as you get along.