Would you do a background check on guy

[BlackVelvet]

absolutely.ladies yall should do a background check and fellas should do the same. u cant trust anyone this days

Which programme is your avatar from?

[quark]

absolutely.ladies yall should do a background check and fellas should do the same. u cant trust anyone this days

Which programme is your avatar from?

deep space nine

[salool]

danta unba kalifeyse lakin markay albaabadu xidhmaan run ba wacane socon mayso

Qabyaaldu ma fiicna, hada laga bilaabu isaaqba dhaafin maayo.

[Mr_Alfaas]

seeftaadu dhinac kale yaanay u dhaafin ba.
btw waxay women General meshan an daf soo idhi

[Alphanumeric]

absolutely.ladies yall should do a background check and fellas should do the same. u cant trust anyone this days

What's the point, when they're still going to go for the dude with the prospects/money?

[salool]

seeftaadu dhinac kale yaanay u dhaafin ba.
btw waxay women General meshan an daf soo idhi

Dee qaybtii dumarka ayaad timi, laakin raguna wa wlc.

[Mr_Alfaas]

de ma waxban arkaya maba ogeyn in dhawr general jiro dee i always click meshan latest posts ka e front pageka ah ki unban general ku dhufto salool ba iiga so boodey

[zulaika]

yes, yes, and yes....i mean this should not even be contemplated...but a must!!!

[The_Patriot]

Back ground check kulaha

So a xalimo dating a jail bug should do a background check on tyrone who has a tatoo but however has designer shoes with white khamis and a long beared still having a silver/gold tooth and frequently sprays himself with Catar.

Anyway a Xalimo inlove is not a sane person. The moment you advice her even if you are dearest/friendly to her she will turn against you and will isolate you.

So if she wants to jump into a burning fire just give her a jerican of petrol and tell her to pour it over her body. It will be a long lasting sensation .

[DisplacedDiraac]

Background checks are a MUST.. I mean you wouldn't buy anything over a certain amount without researching first right?

Plus the female doesn't even need to do the background checks.. That's what male relatives are for..

[Murax]

Backround checks are extremely easy in the Somali community. If there was ever a situation me and a girl got serious My Mom, would make a few calls and voila she knows her entire history. All the Parents do is make a few calls and since all Somali habaro/odayaal know each other theres always a 6 degrees of seperation kinda thing going. You simply get the family name a nd Your Mom calls one of her friends/family where the other person is, and good chance they either know the family (and the person) or at least know someone who does. This is the one tremendous benefit of Somalis doing a lot of xan/backbiting, etc. If the person is a screwup it will not be a secret

[Murax]

Btw, its not always JUST guys who do not wanna undergo backround checks and move super fast towards marriage. Infact I'd dare to say most of the time its the girl who wants to get married quick. My opinion is both the Guy and the Girl need to be straight up, and not hide anything its gonna come back to bite. Anybody thats not comfortable giving information, answering questions is suspect.

[DisplacedDiraac]

^ I guess keeping your sins to your self is out of the window than..

But ruunti there's a big difference IMO between 'hiding' parts of your past *even when asked* and simply not mentioning or even avoiding to talk about it..
Its when 'they' try to hide certain things *by all means necessary* and put on a holy/miskiin act that is worrying..

[Alphanumeric]

Btw, its not always JUST guys who do not wanna undergo backround checks and move super fast towards marriage. Infact I'd dare to say most of the time its the girl who wants to get married quick.

West, how do you know when they're acting or not? Or should we simply assume the worst in all instances, as others have mentioned?

[DisplacedDiraac]

Im strictly for 'miskeen until proven otherwise'

What I meant by the act comment is..
Firstly it was directed at the ones who act like their poo poo doesn't smell *pardon my Swahili* but a simple background check proves otherwise..