Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:10 pm
Which programme is your avatar from?quark wrote:absolutely.ladies yall should do a background check and fellas should do the same.u cant trust anyone this days
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Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:16 pm
deep space nineBlackVelvet wrote:Which programme is your avatar from?quark wrote:absolutely.ladies yall should do a background check and fellas should do the same.
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:19 pm
Mr_Alfaas wrote:
danta unba kalifeyse lakin markay albaabadu xidhmaan run ba wacane socon mayso
Qabyaaldu ma fiicna, hada laga bilaabu isaaqba dhaafin maayo.
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:25 pm
seeftaadu dhinac kale yaanay u dhaafin ba.
btw waxay women General meshan an daf soo idhi
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:28 pm
What's the point, when they're still going to go for the dude with the prospects/money?quark wrote:absolutely.ladies yall should do a background check and fellas should do the same.
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:50 pm
Dee qaybtii dumarka ayaad timi, laakin raguna wa wlc.Mr_Alfaas wrote:
seeftaadu dhinac kale yaanay u dhaafin ba.
btw waxay women General meshan an daf soo idhi
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:57 pm
de ma waxban arkaya maba ogeyn in dhawr general jiro dee i always click meshan latest posts ka e front pageka ah ki unban general ku dhufto salool ba iiga so boodey 
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2012 7:22 pm
yes, yes, and yes....i mean this should not even be contemplated...but a must!!!
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2012 7:31 pm
Back ground check kulaha
So a xalimo dating a jail bug should do a background check on tyrone who has a tatoo but however has designer shoes with white khamis and a long beared still having a silver/gold tooth and frequently sprays himself with Catar.
Anyway a Xalimo inlove is not a sane person. The moment you advice her even if you are dearest/friendly to her she will turn against you and will isolate you.
So if she wants to jump into a burning fire just give her a jerican of petrol and tell her to pour it over her body. It will be a long lasting sensation .
So a xalimo dating a jail bug should do a background check on tyrone who has a tatoo but however has designer shoes with white khamis and a long beared still having a silver/gold tooth and frequently sprays himself with Catar.
Anyway a Xalimo inlove is not a sane person. The moment you advice her even if you are dearest/friendly to her she will turn against you and will isolate you.
So if she wants to jump into a burning fire just give her a jerican of petrol and tell her to pour it over her body. It will be a long lasting sensation .
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:24 am
Background checks are a MUST.. I mean you wouldn't buy anything over a certain amount without researching first right?
Plus the female doesn't even need to do the background checks.. That's what male relatives are for..
Plus the female doesn't even need to do the background checks.. That's what male relatives are for..
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 3:10 am
Backround checks are extremely easy in the Somali community. If there was ever a situation me and a girl got serious My Mom, would make a few calls and voila she knows her entire history. All the Parents do is make a few calls and since all Somali habaro/odayaal know each other theres always a 6 degrees of seperation kinda thing going. You simply get the family name a nd Your Mom calls one of her friends/family where the other person is, and good chance they either know the family (and the person) or at least know someone who does. This is the one tremendous benefit of Somalis doing a lot of xan/backbiting, etc. If the person is a screwup it will not be a secret
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 6:45 am
Btw, its not always JUST guys who do not wanna undergo backround checks and move super fast towards marriage. Infact I'd dare to say most of the time its the girl who wants to get married quick. My opinion is both the Guy and the Girl need to be straight up, and not hide anything its gonna come back to bite. Anybody thats not comfortable giving information, answering questions is suspect.
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 10:10 am
^ I guess keeping your sins to your self is out of the window than.. 
But ruunti there's a big difference IMO between 'hiding' parts of your past *even when asked* and simply not mentioning or even avoiding to talk about it..
Its when 'they' try to hide certain things *by all means necessary* and put on a holy/miskiin act that is worrying..
But ruunti there's a big difference IMO between 'hiding' parts of your past *even when asked* and simply not mentioning or even avoiding to talk about it..
Its when 'they' try to hide certain things *by all means necessary* and put on a holy/miskiin act that is worrying..
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 5:52 pm
Murax wrote:Btw, its not always JUST guys who do not wanna undergo backround checks and move super fast towards marriage. Infact I'd dare to say most of the time its the girl who wants to get married quick.
West, how do you know when they're acting or not? Or should we simply assume the worst in all instances, as others have mentioned?
Re: Would you do a background check on guy
Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 6:05 pm
Im strictly for 'miskeen until proven otherwise'
What I meant by the act comment is..
Firstly it was directed at the ones who act like their poo poo doesn't smell *pardon my Swahili* but a simple background check proves otherwise..