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Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 12:29 am
by Alphanumeric
Lillaahiya wrote:Nope
So, would you advise a women who found out her husband drank, to leave him? Or still unsure?

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 12:33 am
by Lillaahiya
I personally would leave. I wouldn't advise someone to cause I don't feel I have the right to.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 10:28 am
by Arabmann
Before, marriage I will ask blood test for stds, alcohol, drug, etc.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 10:33 am
by Hyperactive
Arabman wrote:Before, marriage I will ask blood test for stds, alcohol, drug, etc.
this is the reason, i dont want to do anything with any one, be wife or kids. world getting scary and you hear things wasnt that much issue in the past!

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 10:37 am
by Sealion
I hate it when Muslim guys think it’s okay to do all the haram in their life but when it comes to marriage they want to find the perfect Muslim girl, fully covered, that has never left the house.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 11:06 am
by mcali
Sealion wrote:I hate it when Muslim guys think it’s okay to do all the haram in their life but when it comes to marriage they want to find the perfect Muslim girl, fully covered, that has never left the house.
sadly you are right. We can get away with a lot but females have labels that really stick to them for a life time.

Dumarka waa cawro

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 12:06 pm
by LobsterUnit
DIDn't he ever smell her breath when he kissed her?

Did she ever put in his food?

Does she have any other habits?


I mean, if my wife was found to be khamri, it would just bug me with suspicion with and many other crazy questions>?Like, if she is willing to drink khamri, would she let other men in ayh ku qabtan. Acudubillah.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 12:47 pm
by Nabeela
Lol@Gaajo

I doubt this story is even legit.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 1:04 pm
by mcali
Nabeela wrote:Lol@Gaajo

I doubt this story is even legit.
Even if its not a legit story its not farfetched. This could happen. The cases I heard of it was usually the man though

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 2:18 pm
by miskeen86
DarthSomali wrote:Shit, this happened to a salafi friend. His salafi wife had secret which is drinking vodka.
He found out last month.
take her back to somalia and hand her over to al-shabab for a public beheading. :arrow: :arrow:

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 11:50 am
by DarthSomali
miskeen86 wrote:
DarthSomali wrote:Shit, this happened to a salafi friend. His salafi wife had secret which is drinking vodka.
He found out last month.
take her back to somalia and hand her over to al-shabab for a public beheading. :arrow: :arrow:

Too harsh method.
I prefer the rehab option.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 11:56 am
by Samatr
If she was drinking black label, I would forgive her and tell her to stop
if she was drink a can budweiser I would divorce her on the spot. :lol:

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 1:01 pm
by nomadicwarlord
Samatr wrote:If she was drinking black label, I would forgive her and tell her to stop
if she was drink a can budweiser I would divorce her on the spot. :lol:
What if it was a can of 211?

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 1:31 pm
by Samatr
nomadicwarlord wrote:
Samatr wrote:If she was drinking black label, I would forgive her and tell her to stop
if she was drink a can budweiser I would divorce her on the spot. :lol:
What if it was a can of 211?

I would file divorce, the reason would be irreconcilable differences.

Re: What if you found out ur wife drinks alcohol

Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2012 1:58 pm
by nomadicwarlord
Samatr wrote:
nomadicwarlord wrote:
Samatr wrote:If she was drinking black label, I would forgive her and tell her to stop
if she was drink a can budweiser I would divorce her on the spot. :lol:
What if it was a can of 211?

I would file divorce, the reason would be irreconcilable differences.
No reason will be "Crystal Clear" :lol: