Healing a broken heart...

[Cherine]

The healing starts once you cut him out of ur life..

This is the hardest part- delete his nr and block it.

Can you do that...if you cant you're not there yet.

Time is the best healer....but you have to realize its over first.Hadii kale ooyentaada baad ku jiri waliga.

Talo..waliga nin ila iyo xadka ha oo jeclaan xita hadu ku guursado.

Deleted his number because I keep seeing his whatsapp status (I could feel his presence when he is online ) I deleted his picture
Didn't block him because - don't see the point - people I blocked previously -I was notified when they called or text -it's just that it goes to voicemail on their end.
I don't think I really accepted yet because I've not got closure - and I don't think I want to hear.

Probably he is getting hitched to his cousin back home - I will literally run him over if he did that

Is he Pakistani?

[Theguardian]

^^
Eww no.
Are saying Somalis don't marry their cousins?

[Cherine]

Not someone who grew up in the west, even the ones in Somalia don't, they look elsewhere usually.

[Advo]

I know this might seem weird but I don't care

I like to think of myself as a 14th century king complete with a castle and everything. I also like to think of my girl as a common girl from outside the walls who I randomly ran into coming back from a battle.

if she wants out, I get angry or upset but then I realize Im a 14th century king in this bijjj, I am the law and sh!t. If she leaves, I got access to the whole kingdom. Then I start laughing.


Ps. I may or might not burn down her families property and sell the survivors to slavery. Don't look at me as heartless, that's how things were done back in the days.

[Theguardian]

Not someone who grew up in the west, even the ones in Somalia don't, they look elsewhere usually.

Usually yes but some families usually want to keep their "good ones" within the family.

Aunty back home pressuring your mother to meet her beautiful 16-18 years old girl; who will bear you as many kids you want, without all the western Somali girls' "problems".

I seen it happen many times over and that's my biggest bet.

[Theguardian]

I know this might seem weird but I don't care

I like to think of myself as a 14th century king complete with a castle and everything. I also like to think of my girl as a common girl from outside the walls who I randomly ran into coming back from a battle.

if she wants out, I get angry or upset but then I realize Im a 14th century king in this bijjj, I am the law and sh!t. If she leaves, I got access to the whole kingdom. Then I start laughing.


Ps. I may or might not burn down her families property and sell the survivors to slavery. Don't look at me as heartless, that's how things were done back in the days.

It is definitely weird because this is the first comment I read on here that's written fully in English that I do not understand its purpose. But it made me laugh so thanks.

[Garaad_LQ]

I know this might seem weird but I don't care

I like to think of myself as a 14th century king complete with a castle and everything. I also like to think of my girl as a common girl from outside the walls who I randomly ran into coming back from a battle.

if she wants out, I get angry or upset but then I realize Im a 14th century king in this bijjj, I am the law and sh!t. If she leaves, I got access to the whole kingdom. Then I start laughing.


Ps. I may or might not burn down her families property and sell the survivors to slavery. Don't look at me as heartless, that's how things were done back in the days.

Advo
This guy must be your hero

[Sophisticate]

The Guardian: I am a bit perplexed by your emotions. Correct me if I am wrong, just by reading between the lines, I don't suppose this Casanova is a non-Somali? I doubt a Xalimo would go to this lengths for a forehead enhanced Farax .

Sophisticated: By speaking few indecipherable French words to you, I would eliminate 50% of the competition; puts me in a good company. Viva la France et Francais, .

Miss Fiora: That "asset" of yours may just be the impetus that I need to fly out there with two tickets .

Get to work Jabuutawi aka Pepe. Might I remind you, terms like joie de vivre and soup de jour won't work on me, like it does the American girls you easily woo, with a simple bonjour.

[Advo]

I know this might seem weird but I don't care

I like to think of myself as a 14th century king complete with a castle and everything. I also like to think of my girl as a common girl from outside the walls who I randomly ran into coming back from a battle.

if she wants out, I get angry or upset but then I realize Im a 14th century king in this bijjj, I am the law and sh!t. If she leaves, I got access to the whole kingdom. Then I start laughing.


Ps. I may or might not burn down her families property and sell the survivors to slavery. Don't look at me as heartless, that's how things were done back in the days.

Advo
This guy must be your hero

Is that the duke of bristol

[FarhanYare]

Healing a broken heart....? bal ku soo celi. If the brake up occurred after getting married it would be understandable to have such strong feelings...

[Theguardian]

Healing a broken heart....? bal ku soo celi. If the brake up occurred after getting married it would be understandable to have such strong feelings...

Why?
Because it was not physical?
You do know emotional attachment is as strong or even more.
This guy invest a lot in me and so did I.
We were planning our future together.
Obviously something changed.

[GIJaamac]

Healing a broken heart....? bal ku soo celi. If the brake up occurred after getting married it would be understandable to have such strong feelings...

Why?
Because it was not physical?
You do know emotional attachment is as strong or even more.
This guy invest a lot in me and so did I.
We were planning our future together.
Obviously something changed.

The only reasonable explain is he might found out your wild past or
he turned religious and left you, as religious guys want religious women.

[Theguardian]

I don't have wild past -
And we always talked about religion and we were on the same wave-length - neither of us wanted someone overtly -religion, just normal Muslim person who follows the 5 pillars of Islam.
But then again nothing is impossible.
Thanks.

[Garaad_LQ]

I know this might seem weird but I don't care

I like to think of myself as a 14th century king complete with a castle and everything. I also like to think of my girl as a common girl from outside the walls who I randomly ran into coming back from a battle.

if she wants out, I get angry or upset but then I realize Im a 14th century king in this bijjj, I am the law and sh!t. If she leaves, I got access to the whole kingdom. Then I start laughing.


Ps. I may or might not burn down her families property and sell the survivors to slavery. Don't look at me as heartless, that's how things were done back in the days.

Advo
This guy must be your hero

Is that the duke of bristol

That's the biggest playa aka shaxaari in Europe's history bro , Henry the 8th of England

[Sophisticate]

Healing a broken heart....? bal ku soo celi. If the brake up occurred after getting married it would be understandable to have such strong feelings...

Why?
Because it was not physical?
You do know emotional attachment is as strong or even more.
This guy invest a lot in me and so did I.
We were planning our future together.
Obviously something changed.

Ignore these dudes. They automatically assume dating is correlated with giving away cookies or that you can't feel anything for someone you aren't married to. I'm sure women like their suitors, am I wrong? Even if your relationship was a non-physical one. An emotional investment plays around with your psyche. That's what they fail to understand. That's why its not advisable to date even if you don't give the brother so much as a cordial handshake. I dated one time, never again. I hope. About a year ago I was like you. I merely terminated whatever feelings I had for this individual like a straight shoot in the rubbish bin (swoosh). We're kinda soft being brought up abroad. So I channeled my stoic Somaliness to reach this point. I thought of it this way. I was not married to him, I was just a prospect (check). He never got to any of the bases (check). I still had my dignity and lost nothing from this but time. And the fact that I could no longer say I never dated anyone, irked me but I'm over it. Let me paint a vignette for you. I knew him since I was a teenager but he didn't try to court me until I was in my mid-twenties, partly because I would never allow it and never saw him as anything but a friend. It was rather short-lived on account of he moved away. He wanted to marry me, being rather religious. However, I was extremely apprehensive and not keen on uprooting myself plus other variables we're involved. However, he officially moved on a year or so ago. The sneaky little kneegrow didn't even tell me he was about to get married. I found it out through the habaryars. I can't blame him, he waited a couple years and to no avail, it was smart for him to bail while I was getting my education on.