Married Guys Come In Marriage Cost

[Hyperactive]

my family do not need it and people who noko so dago from western country. we used to have dywaniya with washroom and masjid room.

but now we have whole suit for guests. even in our culture guests used to stay in the tree far from house. you can hospital them your own way and your ability.

[Cherine]

But we're not talking about people who come to stay, we're talking about people who come to VISIT. You said you'd turn away your own brothers from the main house & herd them into the guest building! I think that's bang out of order hyper.

[Hyperactive]

people who visit, i am there and there is dywaniya for men. every one has one... if you dont have one, you can meet them other places. i am not gonna tell my wife go to bedroom. hell no.

somalis need to learn their quran. if person told you to go back in the door you need to go back with out anything in your heart. it's person's rights. it's in quran how to visit people and the visit etiquette.

when i visit my own uncle, i knock the door and look other way and face my back to the door.... that is i do not visit with out notice in advance. hade noqo la e dahana wan noqda.

[Hyperactive]

fowdo is what put us in this possition.

[theyuusuf143]

dear sumburdi it will cost you nothing but her acceptence, just get a place to sleep, buy some nesessary household appliances like disgi fridge iwm, and keep phuking . If the woman wants you she wont even ask you any question if you take her into your crazy cousin's apartment.

[Cherine]

Aren't there dozens of ahadith where Sahaba visited each others houses and were served by each others wives? The Qur'an tells us not to be a nuisance and overstay our welcome, it doesn't say if your brother or uncle come to your house "meet them in other places". You will open your damned door for them. That is Islam anything else is alien traditions that has nothing to do with Islam.

Somalis might not be the best Muslims but they definitely got this right. Nothing is better than having all your family under one roof having a jolly good time.

[Hyperactive]

ahadeeth and quran tell us how we visit people and privacy of people. everything has rules. if rules follow is fine. nothing i said or ahadeth said is literly. is it's done for our convinience and comfort. no one slamps door for some one who is in need you for whatever reason. they also talk about dozes of their slaves, do we have to have slaves and treat them well as excuses!!

they didnt have the luxery we had and cell phones.

[Inaayah]

Hyper- So you wouldn't allow your brothers and male relatives who are visiting to enter the main home where everyone lives but you'd happily let your female relatives walk around in jeans and no hijab outside because you are more "interested in what's in their soul"?

Just trying to make sense of everything you say.

[GeoSeven]

OP I'm forking out a stupendous amount. But it's transcontinental and it includes half the meher upfront.

Make sure you attach a prenuptial to your nikaax document and have her sign it. Xalimos get funny athing divorce time. All of a sudden they forget about their nikaax and meher and want to follow gaalo law.

Don't get burned and adeer don't register your marriage. All she can do is sue for child support which is okay but alimony and your assets

An Islamic marriage contract with clear prescriptions. She's a gem alright but seers don't exist and fate is fickle adeerkiis

OP I'm forking out a stupendous amount. But it's transcontinental and it includes half the meher upfront.

Congrats, Geo, A heartfelt wishes on your marriage! May it be fruitful and everlasting. InshAllah.

Thank you Amira

[AbdiWahab252]

Geoseven

Hope for the best adeer, but prepare for the worst. When you are in Love and Lust, your mind is not super clear. I have lost faith in humanity and don't trust anyone whom I haven't known for 20 years.

[MujahidAishah]

No one allowed to visit inabtiyo I fell in love with you more

[waayeel101]

lol@hyper,
abti you don't have to get naked in front of anybody including your wife. that's not haram to do it, but it's not good thing. you know that hadith about t3arri 3ind jema3. plus it cause many relationships problems such as getting boring of your partner.
turn the lights off let the room be dark in dark until you says "heblayo kumee" lol.
there is this man who is specialist in female, sidu u arkayey cawrada dumarka ayu hammigi ka tegey.

[Hyperactive]

lol@hyper,
abti you don't have to get naked in front of anybody including your wife. that's not haram to do it, but it's not good thing. you know that hadith about t3arri 3ind jema3. plus it cause many relationships problems such as getting boring of your partner.
turn the lights off let the room be dark in dark until you says "heblayo kumee" lol.
there is this man who is specialist in female, sidu u arkayey cawrada dumarka ayu hammigi ka tegey.

you are right bro. that what created huge problems, nimankiina imaanka ka qaaday. wa naagahey qawan ay dareeqa ko dawanayan and comparing to theirs.

[smooth]

Any guy regardless whether he is able to afford it or not that pays the sort of $$$ discussed here, is nothing but a p*** whipped effeminate beta male of the highest order, they are the quickest to divorce and dump those equally degenerate entitled sorry excuse of a women on a mere whim.

The result is; another broken home, another poverty stricken household and a breeding ground for trash to add to an already deteriorating inferior gene pool.

[FarhanYare]

A guy I know knocked up his girlfriend and her family paid for everything. Sumu, you try it

Well he already got the milk for free.Inay xita reerka lacag bixiyan may aheyn.Inay bilaash ku raacdo bay aheyd oy furaashkisa furaash ag dhigto.So iyado cagaheda may oo kala balaqin nin aan qabin.

Hadaad dhulka is dhigtid wa lugugu dul socon.

From what AW said, asaga ayaaba lacag la siyeey. I don't know why AW is encouraging waxaan alah baneen. Sumu, don't listen to him.