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Re: allowing your women to wear pants?

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No, i will never tolerate my female relatives to wear pants,so other men can enjoy their ass. Only Dayuus would tolerate such bs
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MujahidAishah wrote:Blue lion is running up and down this thread :lol: Waar maxa ku waalay maada qaaba. I'll divorce her iyo balayo baa 8 pages inugu akhrisay. Inadeer calm down it's not that serious.
to me its a serious matter, i hope inaanad jeans kugu dhajisan meelahaa ku caycaymadin :lol:
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she could be brainwashed so If he can give her a chance of getting informed islamic beliefs would be fine for him

A new similar case....there was this newly married girl who used to wear paints.her husband was not that pressuring on her bc she had a nice job but he would ask her to cover herself when they r around his relatives...however, her student brother in-law who used to visit them in the weekends has been giving her islamic CDs....subanallah now shes happily hijabi, works and is a mum.

She needs to see stuff like this
http://youtu.be/HaN4-LL0aVY
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Susu- Qaawanan to me is wearing trousers and showing your hair.
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And if he's OK with it (dosen't advice you)then that's not right to me. But it's your marriage abaayo, so do you.
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GRANNY wrote:Ina aayah, get down from ur high horses walaaley.We all make mistakes and no body is perfect.If her husband is happy with the way she dress herself who are we to judge.

Anigu cidna iskuma diro and right now im posting from my bed.Bad habit im trying to get rid off.


Cala kuli xaal, habeen wanaagsan.
Just because you like someone (as I like Susu and her posts) it doesn't mean you have to be up there bum and agree with all their thoughts.

As I said earlier, you can have differences of opinion and still be cool with someone. Clearly you are all for inta dadka iska dhadhicisid if you can't speak the XAQ.

If I'm not talking to you, then sheekadayda ha soo dhex gelin (if what I'm talking about doesn't apply to you) I don't care if you're posting from your roof top.

Simple.

Let me add, you come across as the kind of person who wants people to fear them and their opinions, ina laga baqdo camal. This is the Internet abaayo and even if it was any different, I'd tell you the same.
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grandpakhalif wrote:No, i will never tolerate my female relatives to wear pants,so other men can enjoy their ass. Only Dayuus would tolerate such bs
EXACTLY!
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Skippa wrote:Sheekhow, It may not work at all but like it was said above, qof weyn lama qasbi karo and this on its own is not reason enough to divorce. You coax, you drop hints, you offer sincere advice, help her with the kids, with the chores...bribe her with compliments and sasab her with gifts and kind words, set a good example by being righteous...essentially raganimo muuji and handle your business like you should...then redouble your efforts and pray inuu Ilaahay u fududeeyo xaqa. Hadaad dadaasho, at least, you are not dodging your responsibility and that's all that matters.

As to why people weave in and out of the right path...It's the devil's work
Top man. :clap:
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Inaayah wrote:
GRANNY wrote:Ina aayah, get down from ur high horses walaaley.We all make mistakes and no body is perfect.If her husband is happy with the way she dress herself who are we to judge.

Anigu cidna iskuma diro and right now im posting from my bed.Bad habit im trying to get rid off.


Cala kuli xaal, habeen wanaagsan.
If I'm not talking to you, then sheekadayda ha soo dhex gelin. I don't care if you're posting from your roof top.

Simple.
Once while on vacation


My own cousin from holland is very liberal and wears pants, I was around 12 back then, she was much older than me (sophi's age) so I couldn't dictate to her and I felt really embarassed walking around amsterdam with her bootylicious butt shown to all those gaalo people. It upset me.
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Re: allowing your women to wear pants?

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BlueLion wrote:
MujahidAishah wrote:Blue lion is running up and down this thread :lol: Waar maxa ku waalay maada qaaba. I'll divorce her iyo balayo baa 8 pages inugu akhrisay. Inadeer calm down it's not that serious.
to me its a serious matter, i hope inaanad jeans kugu dhajisan meelahaa ku caycaymadin :lol:
Hell no inadeer sodooh baan yahaye waan inan xishoodo.. Guriga iyo hurdada baan ku dhex orda :deadrose:
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Re: allowing your women to wear pants?

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Hyperactive wrote:lool@sahal's shower. that became somalinet's quote.

believe me my cousin, if you think little harder than just why people do what they do and think little about quran, stories of quran, God told us. not for entertainment but to learn from it how prophets and messengers handle their bussness.

best example that no one stops and thinks and talk about it, my always best surahs, surat nouh and anbiya'. about nouh and lout.

their both wivies where none believers and Allah even mentioned they" cheat them, not sexually but worse the believe it self and work behind their back to serve intrest of their enemies"

quran told us they were destroyed just like kufars but never they divorced them or they fight them or Nouh dishonored his son. but even in last minutes still told Allah and questioned Allah "out of fatherhood" his son is his family. God corrected him that is jahil thinking/3amal.


do you think they preach others and forgot their wivies and kids? i am sure there was tears and lectures and begging and quotting Allah's words nights in and out, behind doors. but God didnt tell us that. cause wouldnt be important... you have your own situation and your own time and ability to weight it.

Allah isnt for punishment bussness but looks your heart if your heart where it needs to be , you will be fine. naag hijabka tourtery na kuguma ibtileynayo or will be reason for Allah, just the reason why 2 prophet's wivies were gaalo.

means you cannot safe who you love, it's up to them, that is work they need to do.
Thank you sheikh hyper. make this post sticky. So much to learn from it MaashaAllah. God bless you and your family our young sheikh & increase you in hikma.
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Re: allowing your women to wear pants?

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coolman thank you bro, God bless us all.
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Dangirl ..speak for yourself sweetheart if you are a tub of lard walking doesn't mean the rest of us are x
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Re: allowing your women to wear pants?

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A marriage issue stemming from pants :mindblown:
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Re: allowing your women to wear pants?

Post by Vivacious »

Skippa wrote:
COOL-MAN wrote:^ what happens if she says no to the waano?
In that case, you're doing something wrong...waa inaad rif riftid ood si fiican uga shaqaysid (in the conjugal bed) si ay hadalkaaga u maqasho :lol:
:dead: no rifrifid walaalkey. Hadaan waana la kala qaadaneynin ama la is maqleynin then waa la isku sabraa ama waa la kala faataxeysanaa. :lol:
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