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MujahidAishah wrote:Blue lion is running up and down this thread Waar maxa ku waalay maada qaaba. I'll divorce her iyo balayo baa 8 pages inugu akhrisay. Inadeer calm down it's not that serious.

GRANNY wrote:Ina aayah, get down from ur high horses walaaley.We all make mistakes and no body is perfect.If her husband is happy with the way she dress herself who are we to judge.

Anigu cidna iskuma diro and right now im posting from my bed.Bad habit im trying to get rid off.


Cala kuli xaal, habeen wanaagsan.

grandpakhalif wrote:No, i will never tolerate my female relatives to wear pants,so other men can enjoy their ass. Only Dayuus would tolerate such bs

Skippa wrote:Sheekhow, It may not work at all but like it was said above, qof weyn lama qasbi karo and this on its own is not reason enough to divorce. You coax, you drop hints, you offer sincere advice, help her with the kids, with the chores...bribe her with compliments and sasab her with gifts and kind words, set a good example by being righteous...essentially raganimo muuji and handle your business like you should...then redouble your efforts and pray inuu Ilaahay u fududeeyo xaqa. Hadaad dadaasho, at least, you are not dodging your responsibility and that's all that matters.

As to why people weave in and out of the right path...It's the devil's work

Inaayah wrote:

GRANNY wrote:Ina aayah, get down from ur high horses walaaley.We all make mistakes and no body is perfect.If her husband is happy with the way she dress herself who are we to judge.

Anigu cidna iskuma diro and right now im posting from my bed.Bad habit im trying to get rid off.


Cala kuli xaal, habeen wanaagsan.

If I'm not talking to you, then sheekadayda ha soo dhex gelin. I don't care if you're posting from your roof top.

Simple.

BlueLion wrote:

MujahidAishah wrote:Blue lion is running up and down this thread Waar maxa ku waalay maada qaaba. I'll divorce her iyo balayo baa 8 pages inugu akhrisay. Inadeer calm down it's not that serious.

to me its a serious matter, i hope inaanad jeans kugu dhajisan meelahaa ku caycaymadin

Hyperactive wrote:lool@sahal's shower. that became somalinet's quote.

believe me my cousin, if you think little harder than just why people do what they do and think little about quran, stories of quran, God told us. not for entertainment but to learn from it how prophets and messengers handle their bussness.

best example that no one stops and thinks and talk about it, my always best surahs, surat nouh and anbiya'. about nouh and lout.

their both wivies where none believers and Allah even mentioned they" cheat them, not sexually but worse the believe it self and work behind their back to serve intrest of their enemies"

quran told us they were destroyed just like kufars but never they divorced them or they fight them or Nouh dishonored his son. but even in last minutes still told Allah and questioned Allah "out of fatherhood" his son is his family. God corrected him that is jahil thinking/3amal.


do you think they preach others and forgot their wivies and kids? i am sure there was tears and lectures and begging and quotting Allah's words nights in and out, behind doors. but God didnt tell us that. cause wouldnt be important... you have your own situation and your own time and ability to weight it.

Allah isnt for punishment bussness but looks your heart if your heart where it needs to be , you will be fine. naag hijabka tourtery na kuguma ibtileynayo or will be reason for Allah, just the reason why 2 prophet's wivies were gaalo.

means you cannot safe who you love, it's up to them, that is work they need to do.

Skippa wrote:

COOL-MAN wrote:^ what happens if she says no to the waano?

In that case, you're doing something wrong...waa inaad rif riftid ood si fiican uga shaqaysid (in the conjugal bed) si ay hadalkaaga u maqasho