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i like da idea of da council house slim

funny how most somaliz have dat ideology

i have no idea at all.... but i tell hooya everything....in due time or hooya's really good at working things out so if there was sum1 in my life she'll know waay before i even tell her.... ballshid why cant i keep things on the low

Welcome sis

1. I wouldn't be in a relationship with him, if he wants to get to know me and he's serious about it, like a marriage thing, then he would do it the proper Islamic way and thats by coming over to my parents house and asking for their permission to get to know me. If he does it that way then you know for sure he's serious and he aint playing around, but if you do it the relationship way then he isn't serious, and he doesn't respect you nor himself, because you're getting yourself into a lot of deembi, remember the third person is always the shaydaan.

2. In Islam it isn't advised to be engaged for to long, walahi 2 years is ridicules, if its longer then 6 months, the shaydaan finds a way to ruin it.

A. If he approaches me the Islamic way then my whole family and friends would know about it. Simple. I don't need complication in my life.

B. It's a two way thing, I do my part and he does his part

C. what is his is mine, what is mine is mine Lol I'm kidding'..

3. Inshallah after our wedding, but he has to have a house, i don't want to move into his parents house.

1. When we're both serious and ready to get married and settle down.

2. I would give it about 3-4 years.

A. When my heart tells me that this person is the right one than I would start telling my family. The first person I would tell first would be my mother.

B. I go half way and he goes half way lol.
Yes I believe once your married it's a team thing not me and him thing working together as one.

C. Yes I do believe in whats yours is mines and whats mines is yours after all we are married.

3. After are wedding.

i dont do relationships every time i try 2b in 1 my heads hurts

so i think i might just knock for Ghetto_Poetress

[quote="military-mind"]i dont do relationships every time i try 2b in 1 my heads hurts

so i think i might just knock for Ghetto_Poetress [/quote]


hell ur funny! so i tk it u'll never settle down...

y does ur head hurt...?

Getto_poetress----thanx 4 da wlcm sis----
interesting point raised n i kinda agree but in todays society hardly any1 does dat... ... im sure we wud live in a betta world if dat waz practised....

keep em cumin....

[quote="TUUG4LIFE"][quote="Mr_Somalia"][quote="xamari_gash"]DATING IS XAARAM[/quote]

since when did that stop u?[/quote]

EVER SINCE I TOLD HER SO
U GOT PROBLEM WITH IT [/quote]

so u must be her father... I can see where she gets dat forehead from

no offence gash..

[quote="xamari_gash"]DATING IS XAARAM[/quote]

practis wat ya preach

[quote="amazinggirl"]1. When we're both serious and ready to get married and settle down.

2. I would give it about 3-4 years.


YOU CHICKS ARE HARAAAAM ALL OVER
AND YA SAYIN MANS GONNA KICK BK WITH U FOR 3-4 AND NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU. HES EITHER GAY OR SERIOUSLY ILL

ONE WEEK....................

THEN MEET THE PARENTS.......

Dont give him a chance to escape is what i say! lol

LOL @ SUNSHINEE..

SUNSHINEE SIS... I READ A TOPIC U DUN IN UK GENERAL SECTION QUITE A WHILEE BACK.. "Dear Diary"??

AN MITEEE I SAY, DAMNNN GALL U TALENTEDDD... I GOT HOOKED TO DAT STORYY MAN!!

ANY MORE OF DEM INTERESTING STORIES?? LET ME KNOWW!!

Ladie_x

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[quote="SugarLipz"]well...
i personaly fink dat 2/3yrz shud give u enuff tym 2get 2no da person --- afta all-u aint buyin a pair of shoes---itz marriage&itz 4 life so i say think it thru&tk it nice n slow!!!!!!!!!

I wud say less than a yr....why keep the dude 2-3yrs to get to knw..U will get bored how about getting 3-4yr get knw under 3-4mins real police inteview condition

i wudnt tell ne1 till i no da real deal coz afta all as soon as u start chattin abt it---every1 getz da wrong end of da stick n cumz da he said she said bizniz...n b4 u no it, iz all OVA.. is tru..imagine ur side kick knows everything u be like Mother how to u knw..

er..movin in n stuff---well i wud only move in afta da weddin coz i dnt blf in havin ya mehr,movin in dan gettin married! hell nooo! oh n den appearin @ur weddin wid a lil bump! hell noooo! nah shud afta the weddin


money n stuff...well if itz a 2way thing den yeeeah! but if onda oda hand im always givin n i aint gettin jack bk den hell noooo.. i fink if ya start gettin in2 each ovaz pocketz b4 da offical annoncement den fingz cud get complicated...
still... buyin eachova stuff n payin bills is cool coz afta all u're lookin 2 share ya whole lyk 2geda! yeh tru but I believe WHATS MINE IS MINE AND URS IS MINE METHOD

well datz wat i fink 2now...but ya neva no...
cum on galz n guyz...wuz ur viewz---letz compare n contrast...[/quote]

*BAIT*

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He doesn't have a choice is either he sticks around for that long or he gets the boot.
Shit I wish he would cheat I'll give him the beating of his life.

why isnt ne1 mentioning ne ting about saltull istakhara b4 actually making a firm desiscion bout getting married .....always consilidate tings like dis wid ur creator!

[quote="*BAIT*"][quote="xamari_gash"]DATING IS XAARAM[/quote]

practis wat ya preach [/quote]


HOW U MEAN GYALS NEVA DATED
NO1 OVA DEN MY SNICKERS