can a modest girl be sexy?

[SummerRain]

Basra,

It was the mere mention of NYC and the reminder that you are one who is fighting obesity macaanto.

[Basra-]

LOLIsmahaan


I think everytime i allude to part of my life that bespeak, my slimness, u sort off --jump with attack to discredit or fight it. Its as if u dont want me to leave u alone in the 'fat club' membership. Macaanto u dont have to wish me fat-- just let me know-- and i will go with u for company, my goodness.

[skruu]

depends on what u wearing

[SummerRain]

Walaaley, aint it obvious that you are the one who is screaming "Ismaha, macaanto how do you keep so slim and fabulous?" to the point where you want to make me come and get committed to the same work out facility as yourself and not to mention plan my wedding,only to ruin it and take my husband to be. U dear basra want everything is this Ismahan trademarked already. It is one thing to ask and seek my help, which I will gladly accept. but your devious ways of trying to get around me is getting childish and rather out of control.

[Basra-]

"but your devious ways of trying to get around me is getting childish and rather out of control"



Hhhmmmm Ismahaan how interesting!

[SummerRain]

LOOOOOOOOOL basra, you just pulled an Arabman on me. If you get my drift.

Indeed! it is interesting.

[Basra-]

LOl ismahaan



Oh Ismahaan, come.....Lets shakes hands and hug and be sweetheart again. Doesn't matter if u are obnoxiously fat. U have a pretty face darling.

[SummerRain]

Stupidaad!!

[#1baller]

[quote="zulaika"]

"That is why when u see a girl wearing very tight clothes, exposing cleavage and a lot of skin, she’s not sexy, she’s simply a hoe, a slut, what have."

Zules,

Normally I agree wit u on alot of issues but i can't this time. I have to disagree with the above-mentioned comment regarding women who wear tight clothes.

Believe it or not all women who wear tight fitting clothes aren't sluts or hoes. They are sometimes good decent females who choose to wear sexy attire that exemplify their figures. That is confidence also especially when you have the body type made for that outfit.

Its not fair to generalise and trash these women because they have the physique and flaunt it a lil bit. Its not for everybody.

Most of the females that categorize these types of women are generally jealous of them by nature. I think its a good thang. I don't advocate being naked but some of 'em are just happily blessed.

I'll tell you the ones that lack confidence. The ones that do are usually the overweight, obese females like Basra who wear small tight sizes when their body types are 14+

[zulaika]

ismahan,

basra throws everyone she's jealous of in the fat clab...she made me an honorary member.

koronto,

exactly huuno...


baller,

u normally agree with me? are u sure?

so your telling me women dressed like pole dancers are confident women? that is not sexy to me dear, but u're a guy and boobs and booty cloud your judgement.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

[quote="Basra-"]

LOLSir lug


Really? Then i think u have progressed a tad bit. Good for you. I see zulaika and Yourself clicking- what say u? I'll do anything to have her get dumped by this supposefd new 'farah' who is turning her into a little miss praire stepford wife!

[/quote]


Basra,

Thanks, but no thanks. Zuleika is a control freak, I know she would ask me for my bank account's pin number and cell phone password on our first date, and I am sure it won't work since I wanna be the one in pants at home.

[Padishah]

A definite YES! I only recently noticed this phenomenon, which shows I'm about as observant as a door post.

There is this particularly modest but very alluring Arab lady who has her own signature manner of dress that is particularly muted and concealing, and very elegant at the same time. How she pulls it off is a mystery. I would be very interested, if it were not for a) me gunning for a Halimo b) her not having her sights set on one of my closest friends.

I've noticed, also, that her modesty serves to discourage any untowardness one might otherwise be expect with such graceful beauty.

[#1baller]

[quote="zulaika"]


baller,

u normally agree with me? are u sure?

so your telling me women dressed like pole dancers are confident women? that is not sexy to me dear, but u're a guy and boobs and booty cloud your judgement. [/quote]


Zules,

yea I do and u know it...quit playin'. Anyhow, believe it or not it does. They do have confidence. It takes alot of guts for a woman wit a beautiful body type to wear sumthin sexy and form fitting.

I think you're looking at it from a religious perspective which has nothin' to do with the everyday social behaviour. They're separate issues altogether.

And yea I'm a guy but not ur typical guy. I don't go crazy if I see some a$$ and booty. I usually look more at a female from the inside out not tha outside in.