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Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:07 pm
by SummerRain
[quote="Basra-"]They marry, have sex and divorce.ITs haraam to have sex out of wedlock nooh.

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Totally agree with you. How convenient eh?
Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:14 pm
by zulaika
i think basra kinda touched on the point...these days i noticed young somalis treating marriage like dating. divorce as common as "breaking up". they wanna hook up with someone and since "dating" is a no no...they will just go ahead and marry the person they wanna have a fling with.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:19 pm
by SummerRain
[quote="zulaika"]i think basra kinda touched on the point...these days i noticed young somalis treating marriage like dating. divorce as common as "breaking up". they wanna hook up with someone and since "dating" is a no no...they will just go ahead and marry the person they wanna have a fling with.

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*aheem aheem* Talking about yourself there lady?

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:26 pm
by #1baller
Maybe one of the reasons for the failures are that the females are getting married too young.
One of the somali females i'm currently dating was married at 19.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:34 pm
by Megatron
[quote="#1baller"]
One of the somali females i'm currently dating was married at 19.

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LooooooooooooooooooooooL
Trash collector

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:34 pm
by Basra-
Basra is ALWAYS right dee people.
'well isnt it also haram to marry someone just to have sex with the intention of divorcing them later?'
Kenyaatii....Well....Not necessariy--they never marry with the intention of divorcing. They haven't thought that far into the plan, dont give them unnecessary brain cells.They haven't gone past their horny hormones,their mentality is- we will cross bridge when we reach there, right now -lets just get it on.
Can i get a chorus YUCK plz.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:35 pm
by FAH1223
[quote="#1baller"]Maybe one of the reasons for the failures are that the females are getting married too young.
One of the somali females i'm currently dating was married at 19.

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you are right
people are getting married too young I think
finish school guys and have some stability in your life
insha allah, then it will be easier to find the one
Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:40 pm
by #1baller
[quote="Megatron"]
Trash collector [/quote]
One man's trash is another man's treasure. You of all people should know that.
And btw, I see you didn't have an answer to my question in the other thread regarding somalis and italians. Not surprised. You and arabman react the same way when confronted wit a question you have no answer for.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:42 pm
by Megatron
Not me dude, I don't collect refuse.
Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:44 pm
by #1baller
[quote="FAH1223"]
you are right
people are getting married too young I think
finish school guys and have some stability in your life
insha allah, then it will be easier to find the one[/quote]
That's what more and more people are doing today as opposed to 50 yrs ago. It's the honest reason why I haven't gotten married yet. Career comes first and I'm still young wit alot of time available for that.
Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:44 pm
by shidow1
We have something called Gudbhasara......means you marry tempora......for sex.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:45 pm
by #1baller
[quote="Megatron"]Not me dude, I don't collect refuse.[/quote]
You don't collect anything but video games.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:46 pm
by Naaima
Salam alaikum
..rather get divorced than stay in an unhappy marriage any day!!
Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:48 pm
by Megatron
[quote="#1baller"][quote="Megatron"]Not me dude, I don't collect refuse.[/quote]
You don't collect anything but video games.

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Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:49 pm
by Basra-