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Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:07 pm
by SummerRain
[quote="Basra-"]They marry, have sex and divorce.ITs haraam to have sex out of wedlock nooh. Rolling Eyes[/quote]

Totally agree with you. How convenient eh?

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:14 pm
by zulaika
i think basra kinda touched on the point...these days i noticed young somalis treating marriage like dating. divorce as common as "breaking up". they wanna hook up with someone and since "dating" is a no no...they will just go ahead and marry the person they wanna have a fling with. Laughing Laughing

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:19 pm
by SummerRain
[quote="zulaika"]i think basra kinda touched on the point...these days i noticed young somalis treating marriage like dating. divorce as common as "breaking up". they wanna hook up with someone and since "dating" is a no no...they will just go ahead and marry the person they wanna have a fling with. Laughing Laughing[/quote]

*aheem aheem* Talking about yourself there lady? Laughing

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:26 pm
by #1baller
Maybe one of the reasons for the failures are that the females are getting married too young.

One of the somali females i'm currently dating was married at 19. Shocked

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:34 pm
by Megatron
[quote="#1baller"]

One of the somali females i'm currently dating was married at 19. Shocked[/quote]


LooooooooooooooooooooooL

Trash collector Laughing

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:34 pm
by Basra-
Basra is ALWAYS right dee people. Rolling Eyes Laughing Laughing




'well isnt it also haram to marry someone just to have sex with the intention of divorcing them later?'


Kenyaatii....Well....Not necessariy--they never marry with the intention of divorcing. They haven't thought that far into the plan, dont give them unnecessary brain cells.They haven't gone past their horny hormones,their mentality is- we will cross bridge when we reach there, right now -lets just get it on.



Can i get a chorus YUCK plz. Mad Crying or Very sad

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:35 pm
by FAH1223
[quote="#1baller"]Maybe one of the reasons for the failures are that the females are getting married too young.

One of the somali females i'm currently dating was married at 19. Shocked[/quote]

you are right

people are getting married too young I think

finish school guys and have some stability in your life

insha allah, then it will be easier to find the one

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:40 pm
by #1baller
[quote="Megatron"]

Trash collector [/quote]


One man's trash is another man's treasure. You of all people should know that. Very Happy

And btw, I see you didn't have an answer to my question in the other thread regarding somalis and italians. Not surprised. You and arabman react the same way when confronted wit a question you have no answer for. Laughing

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:42 pm
by Megatron
Not me dude, I don't collect refuse.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:44 pm
by #1baller
[quote="FAH1223"]


you are right

people are getting married too young I think

finish school guys and have some stability in your life

insha allah, then it will be easier to find the one[/quote]

That's what more and more people are doing today as opposed to 50 yrs ago. It's the honest reason why I haven't gotten married yet. Career comes first and I'm still young wit alot of time available for that.

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:44 pm
by shidow1
We have something called Gudbhasara......means you marry tempora......for sex. Laughing Laughing

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:45 pm
by #1baller
[quote="Megatron"]Not me dude, I don't collect refuse.[/quote]


You don't collect anything but video games. Very Happy

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:46 pm
by Naaima
Salam alaikum

..rather get divorced than stay in an unhappy marriage any day!!

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:48 pm
by Megatron
[quote="#1baller"][quote="Megatron"]Not me dude, I don't collect refuse.[/quote]


You don't collect anything but video games. Very Happy[/quote]

up Wink

Re: why is divorce so rampant in Somali communities??

Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:49 pm
by Basra-
Rolling Eyes baller, our somalinet romeo adoon.He has slept with a few majeerten dhiloyiins or dhulbahanta firikianoyinis and suddenly he thinks he is lucky.uufff the disgust, the unawareness or the misfortunes. Rolling Eyes Cool