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Leila2007,

Some wives can be highly irritating. The worst ones are the NAGGERS. The minute you step into your home, she is nagging. She criticizes, belittles you.

You have two options:

1. Temporary break - Going out with friends

2. Permanent break - Divorce.

[quote="Leila2007"]abdi.ismail

That is exactly what is happening with this guy. I think he it is acceptable when you are a teenager but a married guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abdi

It can be but how will he feel if the wife did that? Started going to parties / wedding and getting him to babysit?[/quote]

I know a female who is like that, she's not married though, but is despised because of it. when a man does it and hes married, then he is either being influenced by friends or goin through depression, bipolar disorder? i dont know.

Any one been to dubia there is a fresh somali 19 yrs old s!!l landing from the airport on daily basis
why would he drive a lorry when he can have a different lambargini every night.

abdi.ismail
Spot on! It can be depression lol

Abid

I know women can be annoying and irritating but are men not suppose to be dealing with all this issue.

i just think it is unfair to be in the party scene when your family are at home!! offcourse once in a while is fine he can spend time with his friends but when it is like eevry night some thing is wrong!

Also going on holiday without your family doesnt make any sense.

Depression is a mo'f***er. its so hard to understand yet its very very common in the world.

abdi.ismael

So that is your issue huh? i was wondering what was your issue, and boom u have just answered. Depression & lack of marriage? LOL

[quote="Basra-"]abdi.ismael

So that is your issue huh? i was wondering what was your issue, and boom u have just answered. Depression & lack of marriage? LOL[/quote]

Lol. I didnt know you had a sense of humour? Rolls eyez.

abdi.

actually, today i dont have a sense of humor. I am feeling bi polar, u know the feeling right? lol

i don't know about attending every wedding in town, but he can travel alone(without his wife), that don't make him a bad guy.

[quote="Leila2007"]All your contributions are highly apprecaited. here is a scenario what do you guys think?

A friend of mine has been married for some years. ManshaAllah her husband is a good guy, practising muslim ...He has changed all over sudden from sheikh to a party animal, attends every wedding in town and wants to travel the world. He has been to dubai without his wife offcourse!


To me this looks like a mid- live crises but i am like it is ok just give him sometime and be patient![/quote]

No he married to young this what i think my brother has the same problem he is married and he is gote six kids he is 37 but now mar ba tu yar uu 20 jiir ayuu dhexda qabta he said khalidow wixii barrigi horre ii dhaafay ayaan ka ghaadsiinaya

yaaa salaam yaa salaam

Leila,

Off course he's cheating or in the process of finding someone to cheat with!

There is only ONE reason men go partying and weddings etc..

and its not for the music!

Why would a married man be out mingling with other women?

why not just to hang out with ur bois have a good time

^^ you can do that at home? have a dinner party LOL

[quote="Aliyah99"]^^ you can do that at home? have a dinner party LOL[/quote]


Exactly!!!..

As for the topic I think when pple have been married for long time they need a break from eachother.

[quote="Leila2007"]All your contributions are highly apprecaited. here is a scenario what do you guys think?

A friend of mine has been married for some years. ManshaAllah her husband is a good guy, practising muslim ...He has changed all over sudden from sheikh to a party animal, attends every wedding in town and wants to travel the world. He has been to dubai without his wife offcourse!


To me this looks like a mid- live crises but i am like it is ok just give him sometime and be patient![/quote]

He probably never was a sheikh. There is no such thing as a mid-life crisis that's "gaalo" talk used to rationalize and justify unacceptable behaviors of grown ass ppl. Everything you listed is okay except the fact that he attends every party. A married man should NOT be partying unless he is invited and that happens to be family or friends. The party thing just ain't doing it for me.......They need to work on their relationship seriously cause it starts off with minor problems always.