Islam and Sexuality

[HELWAA]

They should open a man section for only brothers....there you can discuss whatever you want in private.

[Somali_4Life]

Helwaa,whats this hypocrisy of somalis? On arab forums there is a room for topics like this for both genders.

[Somali_4Life]

All genders are welcome: except lesbians and gays.

[biko]

[quote="Shirib"]Allah Almighty says in Holy Quran chapter number 2 Al-Baqarah, verse number 222 and 223:

-"They ask thee concerning womens courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them as ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly; and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.
-Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.".(Holy Quran 2:222 and 223)

Based on this, all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation or post partum bleeding.[/quote]


i was reading this article about food and some of the reason they are forbiden...i.e..the Pig.

now did you know that the pigs sexual behaviour is alot different than that of other animals, and the only that lick each others private part after sex...the Dog does it too. so from that sense isnt it fair to say Oral sex is haram...

i'll try to get the link.

[HELWAA]

somali4life

I'm member in islamic forum..it's forbidden for the members to discuss sex in GENERAL DISCUSSIONS...we allowed to do that in the sisters section only there only females are allowed.

[Somali_4Life]

[quote="biko"][quote="Shirib"]Allah Almighty says in Holy Quran chapter number 2 Al-Baqarah, verse number 222 and 223:

-"They ask thee concerning womens courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them as ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly; and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.
-Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.".(Holy Quran 2:222 and 223)

Based on this, all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation or post partum bleeding.[/quote]


i was reading this article about food and some of the reason they are forbiden...i.e..the Pig.

now did you know that the pigs sexual behaviour is alot different than that of other animals, and the only that lick each others private part after sex...the Dog does it too. so from that sense isnt it fair to say Oral sex is haram...

i'll try to get the link.[/quote]

Umar R.A grabbed his wife from behind on the right spot,did prophet pbuh forbid this?Your argument is weak!

[Somali_4Life]

[quote="HELWAA"]somali4life

I'm member in islamic forum..it's forbidden for the members to discuss sex in GENERAL DISCUSSIONS...we allowed to do that in the sisters section only there only females are allowed.[/quote]

I see

[cabdidotcom]

I wish to respond to this post only to shed some light on the topic from an Islamic point of view. One of you quoted the Quran "....Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.".(Holy Quran 2:222 and 223). PAY ATTENTION PLEASE : It is clearly said that your wives are as a tilth unto you. A TILTH - is a land that is cultivated ie prepared and used for raising crops. When used in this context, it would mean the woman is to a couples offspring like the land is to a farmer. You sow seeds into them and the land gives crops while the woman gives offspring. Now, in this light, it seems that one can enjoy sexual relations with his wife so long as the penetration mode will allow for impregnation, which is the primary goal of sex in the first place. Oral sex, anal sex and masturbation for that matter would not be included in this interpretation because non of them will lead to conception. Brothers/sisters in Islam, please let us try to understand and interpret the Holy Qur'an and Sunnah of Rasuululaah (SAW) in the best way we can and not to justify our desires. Allah (SWT) knows best what is lawful and what isn't but it is important for us to be very cautious such that we don't mislead ourselves and others. This is my interpretation and God forgive me if i've erred. Another thing, oral-sex is bad for your wives for it has been shown to cause some types of throat cancers. Be considerate next time. And have you ever heard the case of a woman who suffered a spasmic attack (involuntary contraction of muscles) in her jaw muscles while she was administering oral-sex to her male friend? She bit his penis very hard and the rest goes without saying. Yes! It does happen and you all should be very, very afraid.

[PINK_BUNNY]

[quote="Voltage"]Biko, oral sex is Xalaal only before the "juices" start flowing. Once that starts, it is not allowed but oral sex is xalaal.[/quote]


OMG.....OMG.....Again OMG.....

[Skippa]

some freaky sheikhs around here!

[FAH1223]

Dr. Ali Jum`ah, professor of the Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar Univ., says further that licking, sucking and kissing spouse's sexual organs are all allowed, as long as it gives a person sexual gratification that will keep him away from Haram (unlawful) or starring at opposite sex (marriageable). But every Muslim must keep in mind that sexual intercourse is just a lust and passion that must be satisfied in a lawful way; it's not to be perceived as necessary as foods and drinks, as it's the case in the Western perverted ideology.

The Messenger of Allah (Sallahu Alayhi Wasallam) said, "There is no shyness in matters of religion."

[DR-YALAXOOW]

absolutely oral sex is haraaam. wax macquul maba aha af allah lagu xuso quraan lagu akhriyo, in Furuujka DUMAR ama RAGG LA dhexgeliyo.

TUSAAALE AHAAN.

ORAL SEX WAA naagtaada(WOMEN) (canberkeeda aad afka ula tagto) iyo naagtaada YOUR WIFE ay( cali fanaxaaga afka ku qabsato) thats absolutely 100% XAARAAAM.

af CANBAR LEEFAY quraaan maba lagu akhrin karo. dhinaca DUMARKANA af CALI FANAX dhuuqdey, sidee allah magaciisa loogu xusayaa, waa wax disgusting ah XAQIIQDII xalaaalna maba noqon karto.

inkastoo KOOX horny wahaabiya ah ay xalaaleeyeen ORAL SEX.

WAHAABIYA TUUGO

[PINK_BUNNY]

Why don't you guys just use the extreme forum....Isn't that what it's for....While you're at it can you also kick out the homo's that are constanly lurking in the corners in and around.

[Koronto91]

LOOL@Dr. Yalaxoow.

[cabdidotcom]

asalamu caleykum- walaalayal,

my apologies for posting this comment in the wrong section. It seems some of us have no regard for law & order, yet we wonder why our country is in such a mess!!!

anyway, my respect to all in this forum who stand up for what is right. it is each and every muslims responsibility to maintain the integrity of Islam. No one can make a xaraam thing xalaal or vice versa. so speak up for what is right.

to all those who are trying to assimilate non-Islamic practices into Islam, Itaqilaah! It is not for us to judge anyone or condemn one another but to remind one another of Allah's (SWT) law, enjoin righteousness and forbid evil.
Remember, Islam is Allah's (SWT) and no one can change it.

there are also many comments by members that discourage others from participating. some topics are interesting but some members post very immature and annoying comments. but again, one must knock some sense into them eventually. so, if you ever have anything worth listening to, don't hesitate. you'll probably put someone's life in perspective.

May Allah ( SWT) guide us all to the right path.