SU'AAL DADOW.....

[HELWAA]

[quote="hyperactive"]it's eastern culture.
wan arkay seekh sayenaya
where men has control over women.
i do it when i am with my sister
do not mean disrespecting them
it comes without knowing.
i think because i feel when danger comes
aniga face it first.
it's just protecting what is important to you.[/quote]

Mashallah Hyper keep protecting ur sisters.
But When you get married go beside ur wife yaa akhi dee :D

[Lil_Cutie..]

A/W.. you just described the somali culture. Werid that.

Helwaa.. Its culture. Not islamic. I know that Abu Abkr would walk behind the prophet (saw) sometimes in order to protect him, but he would sometimes walk in front of him also.? Lol.-if that helps.

[DerbiJiiF]

The answer is simple. The reason why you are still single. With your feminist attitude, you will be often coming on somalinet and whine.. why men do this to their wife, and why that....


At least the woman who was walking behind had a husband while you dont...



Derbi,

[HELWAA]

Mr derbi

Walaal ku noqo derbigaagi....and share ur opinion with the mouse next to you!




lil Cuiti

Thanx for ur little lecture yaa ukhti...

[Hyperactive]

hawenkan isku 3amiraya eega.lol
why you always insult men?
no man with little dignity and deen
treat his wife as slave.
marka wa habbit we learned
even with our sisters and mothers.
i will walk ahead with my sons and wife and girls back.lol

[Lil_Cutie..]

Hyper.Loool.You make me laugh yarow.
Never walk behind a woman, ibn Jubayr said: "Temptation came to David (peace be upon him) merely through a glance. Therefore. He told his son (Soloman-peace be upon him): "O my son! Walk behind a lion or a black cobra, but never walk behind a woman" (Ibid, vol. II, p370)

[HELWAA]

Hyper

I dont insult men...I just asked a Q....BUT IF i touched a nerve i'm sorry.

looooooOL@. i will walk ahead with my sons and wife and girls back.

The girl you will marry is very LUCKY WALLE....anigo saliid karkareysa ayaan dusha kaaga shubi lahaa..lol

[Hyperactive]

[quote="HELWAA"]Hyper

I dont insult men...I just asked a Q....BUT IF i touched a nerve i'm sorry.

looooooOL@. i will walk ahead with my sons and wife and girls back.

The girl you will marry is very LUCKY WALLE....anigo saliid karkareysa ayaan dusha kaaga shubi lahaa..lol[/quote]
lol youched nerve.
maya walal
balse i am a man and know what you're talking about.
i do what you're complianing about
with my sisters and mother.
by any meaning cannot disrespect them
so i am telling why this because requested an answer.
wan ku siyey my answer.
you didn't like it
balse maha saliida kulul kenay mesha?
walle adiga umba ku nin la'ani.lol
with that attitude nin ko imana majirto.lol

[HELWAA]

LOOOOOOL @ with that attitude nin ko imana majirto.lol

Are you sure about that?.....LEESH sheekh Hyper.....JUST ALAH KNOWS.NOT YOU

[Hyperactive]

lol hadee wan iska maleynaya
i know malada qarked wa danbi.lol
balse nin ka ku maqla hada wo 3absani
meshad jokto iman mayo.lol

[HELWAA]

Hyper

Horta to be honest with you...i could never hurt a fly...iskaba daaba saliid karkariysa inaan qof ku shubee....i just cant stand men who misstreat their wives.

[Gedo_Boy]

[quote="zulaika"]helwaa,
.tii xalaasha u aheydna hadii public dadkale ku ag arkaan wuxuu ka cabsan in dadka ku fakiraan...waa tii uu xalaasha ku garaacayey. LOL.
[/quote]

LooooL.....
Sad but true! :-)


Sadly, we don't take Sunna from our Prophet anymore & we suppress even xalaal aspects of our sexuality just because it appears moral to those without religious knowledge.

[Gedo_Boy]

[quote="Lil_Cutie.."]Hyper.Loool.You make me laugh yarow.
Never walk behind a woman, ibn Jubayr said: "Temptation came to David (peace be upon him) merely through a glance. Therefore. He told his son (Soloman-peace be upon him): "O my son! Walk behind a lion or a black cobra, but never walk behind a woman" (Ibid, vol. II, p370)[/quote]



Lil_Cutie,

That's b/c walking behind a woman who is not xalaal to you is too much of a temptation. Similar to why women don't pray in front of men, they may be tempted to wait just a 2nd or too so they can see the women can get in the sujood position.

[zulaika]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]


Lil_Cutie,

That's b/c walking behind a woman who is not xalaal to you is too much of a temptation. Similar to why women don't pray in front of men, they may be tempted to wait just a 2nd or too so they can see the women can get in the sujood position.[/quote]


gedo,

so in light of that, would it then be alright if i don't pray in public hadii ey salaad igu soo gasho while i'm outside and make up when i get home. some people tell me, salaada sacada ey tagaantahey waad in aad tukataa..even in the middle of the street with lots of people looking on. soo dambi igu ma aha hadaan sijuudo while strange men are looking at me?

[Lil_Cutie..]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"][quote="Lil_Cutie.."]Hyper.Loool.You make me laugh yarow.
Never walk behind a woman, ibn Jubayr said: "Temptation came to David (peace be upon him) merely through a glance. Therefore. He told his son (Soloman-peace be upon him): "O my son! Walk behind a lion or a black cobra, but never walk behind a woman" (Ibid, vol. II, p370)[/quote]



Lil_Cutie,

That's b/c walking behind a woman who is not xalaal to you is too much of a temptation. Similar to why women don't pray in front of men, they may be tempted to wait just a 2nd or too so they can see the women can get in the sujood position.[/quote]


It is not talking in the wife sense. :) But other women and this also comes in context with lowering the gaze.. Your right. Our Nabi (saw) taught his companions in the masjid and in congregational prayers to wait when they are finished so that the women behind could leave first. He would advice them to do dhikr, pray etc to give time for the women to leave. & yes, women leading the prayer is also out of the question.