Birds N Bees: Did U ever have that talk ?

[biko]

[quote="abdi.ismail"]My father told me when I was ten, that if i ever soo much as looked at a girl he would kill me and I would go to hell forever, Hence my views from then on that women are satanic and that I will never befriend one. True story.[/quote]


loool

he was right about one thing thou...they realy are develish!

taa been kamu sheegin.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

[quote="biko"][quote="abdi.ismail"]My father told me when I was ten, that if i ever soo much as looked at a girl he would kill me and I would go to hell forever, Hence my views from then on that women are satanic and that I will never befriend one. True story.[/quote]


loool

he was right about one thing thou...they realy are develish!

taa been kamu sheegin.[/quote]

walaahi he said that, and it could never have aided me more.

[FAH1223]

[quote="HELWAA"]Gifted is right.........That is a forbidden topic.[/quote]

no it isn't lol

if anything it should be talked about, somalis are so taboo its ridiculous

i was talked to about it at 12! simple stuff, and then in dugsi too lol...they got all the older kids to talk about hygiene and then this topic

[Gifted]

This whole issue should be approached in a scientific manner, but firstly in an Islamic manner..really we should preach abstinence..the scientific approach will answer all those questions kids have without having to get uncomfortable.

[AbdiWahab252]

FAh,

One of the two is a jock. He was telling me the other day about how cute he thought my g/f was and asked if she had a younger sister. He is a chip off the old block, his papa was a mack.

Gifted,

I believe in teaching them about all options. But never underestimate the human nature.

[Oxy-]

If ever they make a mistake, fall into sinning or anything that may cause serious problems... and prior to that you could have easily prevented it by a simple talk, or educating them...


its all your fault. never let this subject remain taboo when they've reached sexual maturity.

[Gifted]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]

Gifted,

I believe in teaching them about all options. But never underestimate the human nature.[/quote]

Wouldn't that be promoting pre-marital relations?

[AbdiWahab252]

Gifted,

The choice is up to them. Last thing I need for them is to catch a disease or make me an awowe.

I had a friend of mine who had his kid at age 15. On the plus side, his kid is graduating high school now. He is a young father and folks think they are brothers.