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Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 3:34 pm
by Gifted
surrender wrote:Gifted wrote:I think both somali men and woman are guilty. Remember it takes two to tango!!
I disagree. remember what allah has said. women are 50% less of a men. its the men that suppose to lead the family. lead the wife, the girls, the sisters, the mothers, and the daughters. if they were doing everything allah told them to do, i know for sure women would follow. but hey that dont happen. infact is the men that doing the following these days. makes you wonder eh? why is that? most somali men are weak. too weak to look after their children, familes and daughters. but not weak anough to start a war; a civil that saw our country in flames. we here today in the west, following their culture, because of somali men. it wasnt women who went around killing, raping, burning houses. it was MEN. men are the back bone of our country. but when the back bone bends it needs to be fixed otherwise it will break. somali men have broken to tiny pieces of uselesness. not offence to anyone but just stating the fatcs. i hope our brother, sons, fathers realise what the doing to their country affects everyone including their sisters.
I agree with the first part, but what you don't understand is that it takes both partners for a relationship to function properly. Blaming one person is the easy way out. Not only are somali men not fullfilling their role properly but neither are the woman in the west. You see women asking for equal rights but at the same time want to be treated as they were in somalia. Somalis are suffering from a serious culture shock, adapting to the western culture of life but also keeping our "daqan" has proven to be difficult as a result both are left confused and divorce. I think if somalis properly educated themselves about their rights in marriage Islamically..divorces would not be as prominent as it is today.
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 3:37 pm
by FAH1223
Executive wrote:Why are you people complaining? If you end up with a loser its your own fault, probably cause you are a loser yourself.
100% true
You get what you deserve.
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 3:38 pm
by Samatr
Sadaam
Jareer, ferenji, shiino iyo dhagacas waa isku wada mid madaama ciyaalku Somaali ma noqonayaan haday ajanabi gabadha soomaliyeed uu dhaxasho.
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 3:42 pm
by sadaam's step dad.
Samatr wrote:Sadaam
Jareer, ferenji, shiino iyo dhagacas waa isku wada mid madaama ciyaalku Somaali ma noqonayaan haday ajanabi gabadha soomaliyeed uu dhaxasho.
TRUE, ONCE SHE IS IN BED WITH A AJANBI, IS THE DAY HER SOMALINIMO IS REVOKED
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:01 pm
by xidigow
You guys are missing the point. Instead of name calling and making baseless critizisim, why dont you make a constructive point of what is this problem is all about, how as society we can create solution. let's if you can come up with any better ideas.
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:06 pm
by Naaima
Salam alaikum
marriage is what you make of it, not what you expect of it...
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:08 pm
by xidigow
Naaima wrote:Salam alaikum
marriage is what you make of it, not what you expect of it...
That is very true, but giude me how do you do that?
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:10 pm
by Naaima
is maqal iyo iska kala danbeyn is the key to achieve a successful marriage today
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:14 pm
by HELWAA
Xidigo
No offence walaal........Waxaan ku waydiyey caruurtan aad dhali kartid ee xaarkooga qasaniya maxaad su'aalahan waawayn ka waydiineysa.....Ask them about the best rock song and you will see how this thread becomes 6 pages.
If you are looking for real answers go to more mature forum huuno.
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:36 pm
by salafi_student
Surrender
[quote]I disagree. remember what allah has said. women are 50% less[/quote]
No, I do not remember and no evidence I found in any-where of the Qur'an backing up your claim. To quote on Allah must be upon the Qur'an or what his Messenger (SAW) has informed us, from authentic sources. You failed to do that my "brother/sister".
your bro Salafi
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 12:46 pm
by xidigow
HELWAA wrote:Xidigo
No offence walaal........Waxaan ku waydiyey caruurtan aad dhali kartid ee xaarkooga qasaniya maxaad su'aalahan waawayn ka waydiineysa.....Ask them about the best rock song and you will see how this thread becomes 6 pages.
If you are looking for real answers go to more mature forum huuno.
Helwaa,
waa runtaa hortaa qaarkood aad baan oga weynahay, laakiin intooda badan oo isa sawirinayaa ilaah unbaa ka wayn. besides, these kids must be educated before they hit the streets and end up single moms with no enought gov. money. Got the point?
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 12:54 pm
by gedo_gurl
Divorce has always been happening, its just that now we all get divorced for different things. I got divorced because of finacial issues. Some men prefer to be the bread winner but are attracted to women who dont want to be housewives, people are just being mis matched all the time. Its not like the old days where everyone had an assigned role, new careers are forever being created, people are travelling a lot and men and women dont see eye to eye anymore. We live in a post modern world, and some people dont know the heavy implications this can have on a marriage.
If you want your marriage to succeed, you need to lay everything bare from the beggining, none of this romance bullshit as it will fizzle out as soon as you discover things wont go the way you expected.
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 1:04 pm
by zulaika
divorce rate among young somali married couples where i live is horrifically high. in my own circle of friends...5 are married, 2 already got divorced within the first 2 years of marriage. acuudibilaah..sheytaan is hard at work walle. i heard his greatest achievement to break marriages..
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 1:06 pm
by IZNOGOOD
Somali men are better of with white muslima's
Re: GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.
Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 1:09 pm
by PINK_BUNNY
Executive wrote:Why are you people complaining? If you end up with a loser its your own fault, probably cause you are a loser yourself.
Yeah every1 ends up wid their like! Anyways divorce is part of life! I don know why it's so taboo wid Somalis. Get up n move on!