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Enlightened~Sista wrote:

Cisse Westlake wrote:the woman is a member of the somali comuntiy now, she is married to a somali man after all

So hada maa somaaliyad baa?? loool She a member of the Danish community..Danish parents gave birth to her and she should stay that way!!

And What if it was reversed?? What if the man is Cadaan and Muslim and married to a Somali sister?? like this brother





It would be interesting to know what you think..and puhhhhlease no double standards..Theres something called 'equality' in Islam.

The woman becomes whatever her husband is..

Thats why this women now feels more comfortable with the somali community. 8)

Enlightened~Sista All I see is a white dude speaking Af Somali on what do base that he married to a Somali lady?

someone told me hes married to one.

Alchemist wrote:
The woman becomes whatever her husband is..

Thats why this women now feels more comfortable with the somali community. 8)

Alchemist wrote:
The woman becomes whatever her husband is..

Thats why this women now feels more comfortable with the somali community. 8)

lol..in what book does it say a woman becomes whatever her husband is??

Maybe thats why a lot of those marriages dont work..since the poor women feels like the husband is trying to impose his culture and even religion (sad but true) on them.. as a result those women will be the first to denounce the religion and culture of their husband when marriages hit rock bottom.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:

Alchemist wrote:
The woman becomes whatever her husband is..

Thats why this women now feels more comfortable with the somali community. 8)

lol..in what book does it say a woman becomes whatever her husband is??

Maybe thats why a lot of those marriages dont work..since the poor women feels like the husband is trying to impose his culture and even religion (sad but true) on them.. as a result those women will be the first to denounce the religion and culture of their husband when marriages hit rock bottom.

99% of those divorces is when xalimos marry non somalis whites or Tyrones..

Somali men hardly marry non somalis and when they do they know how to treat them well.. Like not to piss on them or crazy shit like that

research it fool..and dont ever think u can force your culture or the deen on other women...many men do..since they like to act all domineering in relationships.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:research it fool..and dont ever think u can force your culture or the deen on other women...many men do..since they like to act all domineering in relationships.

why are you pissed?

aah yes, the battle of the sexes continues.

Ive had my say screw..wont hear a peep from me on this topic anymore..taraa !!

that is rude! i was beginning to enjoy this.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:

Cisse Westlake wrote:the woman is a member of the somali comuntiy now, she is married to a somali man after all

So hada maa somaaliyad baa?? loool She a member of the Danish community..Danish parents gave birth to her and she should stay that way!!

And What if it was reversed?? What if the man is Cadaan and Muslim and married to a Somali sister?? like this brother


It would be interesting to know what you think..and puhhhhlease no double standards..Theres something called 'equality' in Islam.

the white woman married to the somali man will give birth to somalis
if the woman is somali an she marries a non somali the kids wont be somalis

the white woman is bearing somali kids, while the somali woman isnt
so the white woman joins the somali community and the somali woman leaves it

Cisse Westlake wrote:the white woman married to the somali man will give birth to somalis
if the woman is somali an she marries a non somali the kids wont be somalis

the white woman is bearing somali kids, while the somali woman isnt
so the white woman joins the somali community and the somali woman leaves it

100% TRUE....

If you're father is Somali, YOU ARE SOMALI. Doesn't matter if it is half or w/e.

ohh my ... aren't we little bit more ignorant than the usual tonight?

FAH1223 wrote:100% TRUE....

If you're father is Somali, YOU ARE SOMALI. Doesn't matter if it is half or w/e.

Not 100% true. A Somali mother raises her child 100% Somali, teaching the child af-Soomaali, Somali culture, traditions, customs, respect for the elderly etc. A non-Somali mother teaches her child non-Somali language, non-Somali culture, traditions, customs etc. A child spends most of the time virtually with his mother. A child isn't only the product of genetics, he/she is also the product of how he/she was raised. What's more, in other societies, a child's mother determines who he/she is or identified with. For example, it's a child's Jewish mother that determines Jewishness.