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Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 9:50 am
by Foxy22
HELWAA wrote:Walaahi a life without children is horrible...I know this woman i used to be her translater at the hospital...This woman had been married with her first husband almost 12yrs And allah never gave them any children...She went to so many doctors ...she even went to Germany....and they never found anything wrong with her....The saddest thing is she left her husband who loved her very much...who never complained about that problem they had.She left him and got married with someone els who had children already just to get pregnant but after 4 month of trying it was no luck there either.......she got divorced and got married again with husband nr 3...who also had children and married...but guess what ...no caruur
...Subxanallah there is so many unfit mothers outhere who doesnt give a shit about there children ....dadna habeen iyo maalin yaa xabad ku siiya ayey ku baroortan....I will never forget that woman...i dont know what happend to her after that because i moved from that city.
Ilaahy caruur la'aan ha na dhigin aduunkan...They are the most greatest gift Allah swt gave human and a life without them is empty.
Leaving a man that loved her for lack of children? She lacked Iimaan. Whatever Allah brings our way as humans we should say Allxamdulillah but we forget and compalin. We should always remember that only Allah knows best and say Allxamdullillah with or without children.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 9:57 am
by HELWAA
Foxy
The thing is the city was full of somali families who had many children...some of them even had 13 children....i guess she got depressed and could't accept the fact she could't....I never seen in my entire life someone who loved children so much.Ilaahy oo sahlo maskiinada....
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:17 am
by The-Screw
you know, i would adopt a kid. 5 actually,
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:24 am
by Foxy22
HELWAA wrote:Foxy
The thing is the city was full of somali families who had many children...some of them even had 13 children....i guess she got depressed and could't accept the fact she could't....I never seen in my entire life someone who loved children so much.Ilaahy oo sahlo maskiinada....
Helwaa,
Maskiin... shame.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:27 am
by Starscream
I would even consider adopting a kid, even if I had kids from my own seed.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:28 am
by The-Screw
Starscream, i agree. good man.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 11:54 am
by 934
suga_n_spice wrote:its my biggest fear really
have no fear.
Inshaallah may Allah bless you with couple of healthy farax Juniors!
Amiin!!
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 12:05 pm
by Hyperactive
i dont think would effect me.
many great people like inb taimia, ibn qiyam and others
never married and got children.
ino khair ko jira laga yaba.
i also would kafil orphans and less fortune kids.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 1:10 pm
by Cisse Westlake
somalis are some of the most fertile people on the planet.
saw it on a website , somalis were in the top 2
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 1:29 pm
by MJ-Pride
I have seen a lot of Somalis girls that said they will never get married and they don't want to. I don't know if its lack of confidence of them being housewives or what not, but If that ever happens to me(Allah forbid), I will get one of those girls and adopt kids from Somalia
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:30 pm
by Chaste
HELWAA wrote:Walaahi a life without children is horrible...I know this woman i used to be her translater at the hospital...This woman had been married with her first husband almost 12yrs And allah never gave them any children...She went to so many doctors ...she even went to Germany....and they never found anything wrong with her....The saddest thing is she left her husband who loved her very much...who never complained about that problem they had.She left him and got married with someone els who had children already just to get pregnant but after 4 month of trying it was no luck there either.......she got divorced and got married again with husband nr 3...who also had children and married...but guess what ...no caruur
...Subxanallah there is so many unfit mothers outhere who doesnt give a shit about there children ....dadna habeen iyo maalin yaa xabad ku siiya ayey ku baroortan....I will never forget that woman...i dont know what happend to her after that because i moved from that city.
Ilaahy caruur la'aan ha na dhigin aduunkan...They are the most greatest gift Allah swt gave human and a life without them is empty.
Allah didn't give her kids but gave her a loving husband, if only she knew how many sisters who can't have kids but wish their husbands loved them and stayed married to them.
Personally i can't imagine not having kids, i cry every time i see a baby and pray i allah blesses me with a decent husband and insha allah lots of children. However, if it didn't happen than i pray my future husband loves me more then that womans husband loved her and also give us the eman and sabr to deal with the fact.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 10:51 pm
by MaJestic
Well...well, I think children are like a bad dream, a short lived orgasm,winter days, the stench of Bosinans, men w/o an income, yes, yes....children would bring an end my hopes.
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 10:58 pm
by 1nemansquad
..i don't remember posting this topic
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 11:05 pm
by Anab
Re: How will it affect your life...
Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 11:16 pm
by 1nemansquad
..fock off nayaa/waraa whatever the fock you are
