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Re: marry inabti

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:15 pm
by TrophY-WifeY-
Ina Abtigaa aa .......Is there a man Drought? Acuudkiyooooow

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:21 pm
by Shirib
Marrying your first cousin is halaal and really has no medical side effects

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:33 pm
by SummerRain
Alla maxaa westernized la iska dhigey. Since when was marrying first cousins a bad thing genetically? :? And why isnt it warned of or made xaram inthe holy Qu'ran if that is so :?: Yaab iyo nuus.

To answer your question. Everything is predetermined for you by Allah, and if its your ina abti or ina adeer so be it. Lets just pray he makes a good hubby.

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:51 pm
by Somalistan
Nothing wrong with it. But wouldn't recomend it.

I am Isaaq and I am married from hawiye.

dunida waxaa qoloba cayn looga dhigay,
Ha is cajabiyeene as Boondheri puts it. :wink:

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:01 am
by Cali_Gaab
What's wrong with marrying your real inabti?
It would be strange if you've known eachother all your lifes and then marry as there is no sexual attraction.

It would be another thing if you hardly known eachother which in this case would become like any other marriage.

If the chances of the children becoming disabled was high, as you are led to believe, then surely it would be prohibited in our religion to conduct this practise wouldn't it?

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:00 am
by Faisah
I personally find it disgusting the whole idea of marrying cousins... I just see them as my brothers.... I mean ewwwwww

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 5:31 am
by mizz d-block
hes not my reelinabti :mrgreen: just qolo wize

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 5:39 am
by Somali_4Life
No i wouldnt.I prefer a girl from the same tribe(alshabaabtribe) but not related.

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:13 am
by Murax
Cali_Gaab wrote:If the chances of the children becoming disabled was high, as you are led to believe, then surely it would be prohibited in our religion to conduct this practise wouldn't it?

:up: :up: :up:


Either way for My own personal preference I wouldn't marry My cousins.

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:16 am
by Ashlee
Good for you, but I have no reer abti. I'm the product of 16 consecutive "cousin-marriages". Does it show?

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:26 am
by Murax
Ashlee wrote:I'm the product of 16 consecutive "cousin-marriages". Does it show?

Yes

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:47 am
by ms.nalia


I could be wrong when I say this, however I believe that all cousins are halal except your first/second cousins on the mother side. Something that has to do with the blood and breast milk I dont quite remember.
But like I said, I could be wrong.

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 8:48 am
by Hyperactive
it consider inabti marriage if you marry your inabti's daughter?

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 9:06 am
by Htologist
I don't agree with marrying cousins, it seems wrong to me somehow. I don't think sexually I'd be satisfied with a cousin. Plus, she's part of my family already, why make things more complicated?

Re: marry inabti

Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 9:49 am
by The_Emperior5
my parents are second gen couzins , laakin my grandfather my dads dad
and my mums Mum where real inaabtiyos soo

i turnt out fine