Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 4:58 pm
if you ask me, JACAYL = QOOQ + KACSI
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Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 5:20 pm
I believe loves comes after marriage. It's when two people live together that they will truly love & know one another, because they'll grow & learn together. The two people get married not just for the sake of love, but they love each other for the sake of Allah (swt) that's what brings them together initially. They unite as husband & wife, as a team, a partnership in order to build a house in Jannah. Obviously, you'll have an attraction for the person, and that attraction is necessary, but it shouldn't cloud your judgment - you should marry the person after critical evaluation, so it's best to be realistic. You shouldn't marry just for a mere feeling, but think about your goal? What are you hoping to achieve? You're going to spend the rest of your life with this person, and he/she will help you complete half your Deen.
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:04 pm
Firefly wrote:I believe loves comes after marriage. It's when two people live together that they will truly love & know one another, because they'll grow & learn together. The two people get married not just for the sake of love, but they love each other for the sake of Allah (swt) that's what brings them together initially. They unite as husband & wife, as a team, a partnership in order to build a house in Jannah. Obviously, you'll have an attraction for the person, and that attraction is necessary, but it shouldn't cloud your judgment - you should marry the person after critical evaluation, so it's best to be realistic. You shouldn't marry just for a mere feeling, but think about your goal? What are you hoping to achieve? You're going to spend the rest of your life with this person, and he/she will help you complete half your Deen.
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:05 pm
jacayl aa? lol.
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:06 pm
i believe afterwardz. cuz aint no way im lovin no farax before i marry him 
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 9:09 pm
jacayl biri ma gawsosomaliscarface wrote:I say jeceyl ka imadaa after soo arooskeenaa amiin as deen says. 8)
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2008 10:58 pm
LOL @Jaceyl. Waxaas iska iloow aboowe.
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 4:00 am
Marriage is not only about two people becoming one and falling in love, but two people who love each other so much becoming one in God's name! The greatest love is the one for 
Worshiping Allah together is the ultimate aim.
Worshiping Allah together is the ultimate aim.
Re: Does jaceyl aka love come after marraige or before.
Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2008 1:09 pm
ask yo mamasurrender wrote:before marriage obviously. how u marry someone u dont love
