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Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:50 pm
by hanad_mn
Lexmark wrote:Although i dont mind who somalis marry (as long as u dont talk shiit about somalis and basically self hate or come back running when he/she leaves ur pregnant foreheaded ass), but something always made me uneasy when i see a somali married to an ajanabi
its like wtf...do they suffer from self hate, were they too ugly to get a somali...all this shit races through my mind.
But please, dont embarrass urself or somalis in the process...nothing is sadder than a fat low income white man married to a skinny burnt xalimo or skinny ass farah married to a fat white chick
its like when somalis marry ajanabis they end up with the waste products that no one wants
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
and the funny thing is that these somalis were the same ones that were calling somalis wasted, ugly, etc....i guess thats karma...my mom always told me what ever faults you hate in a person and announce to the public, is what ur going to end up with....hyperactive
if your mum was right when she said that, I am sure to end up two couple of fat ones. I can't remember how many times i said something about them. I hope she was just joking.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:51 pm
by Goljano Lion
Lexmark wrote:Although i dont mind who somalis marry (as long as u dont talk shiit about somalis and basically self hate or come back running when he/she leaves ur pregnant foreheaded ass), but something always made me uneasy when i see a somali married to an ajanabi
its like wtf...do they suffer from self hate, were they too ugly to get a somali...all this shit races through my mind.
But please, dont embarrass urself or somalis in the process...nothing is sadder than a fat low income white man married to a skinny burnt xalimo or skinny ass farah married to a fat white chick
its like when somalis marry ajanabis they end up with the waste products that no one wants
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
and the funny thing is that these somalis were the same ones that were calling somalis wasted, ugly, etc....i guess thats karma...my mom always told me what ever faults you hate in a person and announce to the public, is what ur going to end up with....if you tell everyone u hate short women or short women are ugly, ur gonna end up with one
you should recycle them
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:55 pm
by Lexmark
Goljano Lion wrote:Lexmark wrote:Although i dont mind who somalis marry (as long as u dont talk shiit about somalis and basically self hate or come back running when he/she leaves ur pregnant foreheaded ass), but something always made me uneasy when i see a somali married to an ajanabi
its like wtf...do they suffer from self hate, were they too ugly to get a somali...all this shit races through my mind.
But please, dont embarrass urself or somalis in the process...nothing is sadder than a fat low income white man married to a skinny burnt xalimo or skinny ass farah married to a fat white chick
its like when somalis marry ajanabis they end up with the waste products that no one wants
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
and the funny thing is that these somalis were the same ones that were calling somalis wasted, ugly, etc....i guess thats karma...my mom always told me what ever faults you hate in a person and announce to the public, is what ur going to end up with....if you tell everyone u hate short women or short women are ugly, ur gonna end up with one
you should recycle them
recycle who?
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:59 pm
by Goljano Lion
Lexmark wrote:Goljano Lion wrote:Lexmark wrote:Although i dont mind who somalis marry (as long as u dont talk shiit about somalis and basically self hate or come back running when he/she leaves ur pregnant foreheaded ass), but something always made me uneasy when i see a somali married to an ajanabi
its like wtf...do they suffer from self hate, were they too ugly to get a somali...all this shit races through my mind.
But please, dont embarrass urself or somalis in the process...nothing is sadder than a fat low income white man married to a skinny burnt xalimo or skinny ass farah married to a fat white chick
its like when somalis marry ajanabis they end up with the waste products that no one wants
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
and the funny thing is that these somalis were the same ones that were calling somalis wasted, ugly, etc....i guess thats karma...my mom always told me what ever faults you hate in a person and announce to the public, is what ur going to end up with....if you tell everyone u hate short women or short women are ugly, ur gonna end up with one
you should recycle them
recycle who?
you should open recycling mafrash for the waste products that no one wants
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:52 pm
by Megatron
Lexmark wrote:Although i dont mind who somalis marry (as long as u dont talk shiit about somalis and basically self hate or come back running when he/she leaves ur pregnant foreheaded ass), but something always made me uneasy when i see a somali married to an ajanabi
its like wtf...do they suffer from self hate, were they too ugly to get a somali...all this shit races through my mind.
But please, dont embarrass urself or somalis in the process...nothing is sadder than a fat low income white man married to a skinny burnt xalimo or skinny ass farah married to a fat white chick
its like when somalis marry ajanabis they end up with the waste products that no one wants
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
and the funny thing is that these somalis were the same ones that were calling somalis wasted, ugly, etc....i guess thats karma...my mom always told me what ever faults you hate in a person and announce to the public, is what ur going to end up with....if you tell everyone u hate short women or short women are ugly, ur gonna end up with one
Really ? Then you aint been around too much, cuz I've seen (and know of personally) MORE than a few.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:54 pm
by shaamboo
Lexmark wrote:
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
i guess you havent seen what i date sxb
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:59 pm
by RebelLion
I say let somali women marry whoever they want, they also have to recognize that this means they have forfeited their culture if they marry non-somali and cannot expect somali's to accept them and the children they produce. Everyone has the right to choose whoever they want, and whatever they want to do with their lives.
Live and let live as they say.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:00 pm
by Megatron
RebelLion wrote:I say let somali women marry whoever they want, they also have to recognize that this means they have forfeited their culture if they marry non-somali and cannot expect somali's to accept them and the children they produce. Everyone has the right to choose whoever they want, and whatever they want to do with their lives.
Live and let live as they say.
Bollocks. NO one "forfeits their cultue" because of the fact some steaming bag of shit doesn't approve of who they marry.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:03 pm
by RebelLion
spaghetti boy
any luck finding a desperate xalimo to take you?
You have to understand somali/muslim culture, women basically become the culture/qabil of the man they are married to. It's how we are, take it or leave it.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:10 pm
by Megatron
Son, one thing you need to know about me, is that I have, and have NEVER had, a problem finding women. Of ANY race or culture. That's just fact, take it or leave it.
As for the lecture, save it. I have heard it all before, and know it intimately. That backwardness is one of the reasons so many Somali's are falling behind in the struggle here in the West. It's called "evolving with the time". Those who resist, lose. Sorry mayne, but that's just the way it is, I didn't write the rules.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:29 pm
by RebelLion
Promotion of homosexuality, transgenered men and women, plastic surgery, hip hop, young girls going on pregnancy pacts...
yeah, what an age we are living in.
No, somali's are falling behind because they have embraced western culture fully to our detriment, we should be taking the positives of the west(education etc) and not imitate the negatives.
If you look at all the successful minorities, it's the ones who have not let go of their cultures ie. indians, pakistanis, chineese etc
I'm comfortable with my backwardness speghaetti boy.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:36 pm
by Megatron
No, b, embracing Western attitudes DOESN'T mean embracing it's vices. It is possible to embrace one, while rejecting the other. I reject the queerness, hip hop culture, etc, as much s you do. Im saying it's possible to live here, and still lead a pious life while avoiding the pitfalls. If a Somali marries a non Somali, it doesn't mean they've automticaly forfeited anything. Know what i'm saying ?
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:40 pm
by Latiifah
I think it's better to marry from your own community. We're already a confused community. Who wants to see our next generation tide between two cultures....N have an identity crisis..
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:49 pm
by RebelLion
megatron
It does, if it's a woman. It's part of somali culture, In somalia you belong to your fathers lineage, any kids a somali woman has with non-somali would have no somali lineage which ultimately means no culture or people to look out for him/her. Simple.
A woman has to recognize if she's gonna be with outsiders, there will be consequences and she has to live with them.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 3:01 pm
by Megatron
But see again, this is where qabiil becomes a problem. Yes, in Somali culture a child inherits his father's lineage, but who can actually be sure, 100% beyond ALL reasonable doubt, that the child is indeed from the seed of the father ? No one. And if the father is non Somali, that therefore is a reason to refuse to acknowledge their existance ? I understand that it's part of the culture dating back forever, but there comes a time for a need to evolve past that. The future of the Somali race and culture depend on it, beacuse it's those values that are pushing many Somali youth away.