Page 2 of 2

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:53 am
by GENERAL_SNM
Nabeela wrote:
GENERAL_SNM wrote:Kolombo, Ogadeen with diin= Hidden agenda.Whats your agenda man? :mrgreen:
:lol: :lol: yo ka qalee, he is the lest qabiiliest on this forum, besides waa wadaad.[/quote

Thats how you lost Kismayo :mrgreen:

Kolombo all jokes mate, no offence intended :up:

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:56 am
by Hyperactive
lol GENERAL_SNM
leave adeer klombo.
we'll call him soon ishallah asheikh a doctor kolombo.lol

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:58 am
by Nabeela
GENERAL_SNM wrote:
Thats how you lost Kismayo :mrgreen:
:lol: Ilahoow dad aan wax ogeen ha cadabiin, thats all I'm gonna say. :mrgreen:

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:59 am
by Kolombo
ES,

According to the religion & as the sunnah of the Prophet (saw) is, a Muslim man must marry a Muslim woman, some scholars even argue a widow or a woman with a disability e.g. blind or crippled is better, because they too need a man to take care of them (nin asturo). But, in the real world, since very few men want such women, they have to follow the shari'ah and if they decide to marry ahlul kitaab women, she must've been chaste & practicing and the intention for marriage must be to convert her (in la badbaadiyo, ilmo Muslim ah hooyo u noqoto), there can never be love between a kaaffir & a Muslim.

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:01 pm
by GENERAL_SNM
Nabeela wrote:
GENERAL_SNM wrote:
Thats how you lost Kismayo :mrgreen:
:lol: Ilahoow dad aan wax ogeen ha cadabiin, thats all I'm gonna say. :mrgreen:
Ignorance is bliss and knowledge is burden...... :mrgreen:

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:02 pm
by Kolombo
General_SNM,

None taken.

Hyperactive,

Ii soo duceey, adeer.

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:07 pm
by Nabeela
General, ii raaxeeso huuno, and remember that every dog has his day. :mrgreen:

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:12 pm
by GENERAL_SNM
Nabeela wrote:General, ii raaxeeso huuno, and remember that every dog has his day. :mrgreen:
General_SNM....Solidarity with my Ilkoyar brothers :up:
Kismayo is a long way from Burco but I will send you the best of luck :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:16 pm
by Kolombo
Also, a man can not marry two sisters at the same time according to this verse:

"Forbidden to you for (marriage) are....two sisters in wedlock at the same time, except for what has already passed"

(Surah al-Nissa, 23)

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:38 pm
by Hyperactive
ader to be honest it's men's right but i dont understand why one want to marry none muslim women while al 3onoosa very high is muslim countries.
marriage is charity, so let us marry our muslims.lol.

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 1:03 pm
by Haddad
Question: Can a Muslim marry an ahlul kitaab who drinks alcohol, eats pork or associates Allah with partners?

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 2:32 pm
by Kolombo
Haddad,

"Lawful to you in marriage are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time" [al-Maaa'idah 5:5]

According to a lecture by Sh. Qardawi, he said in this case "chaste" means (muhsinaat), they must abstain from illegal sexual intercourse and must be practicing ahlul kitaab, if they're Jews and pork & alcohol is forbidden to them, then the question of is she a practicing Jew comes to mind and such a marriage may not be permitted. Also, the only way it becomes permissible is if the intention is to convert her, other wordly reasons aren't enough.

Re: Who Are The Men & Women A Muslim Can Not Marry?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 5:34 pm
by Haddad
Kolombo wrote:Haddad,

"Lawful to you in marriage are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time" [al-Maaa'idah 5:5]

According to a lecture by Sh. Qardawi, he said in this case "chaste" means (muhsinaat), they must abstain from illegal sexual intercourse and must be practicing ahlul kitaab, if they're Jews and pork & alcohol is forbidden to them, then the question of is she a practicing Jew comes to mind and such a marriage may not be permitted. Also, the only way it becomes permissible is if the intention is to convert her, other wordly reasons aren't enough.
Are most cadaan women whom Somali men marry muhsinaat?