Women and Work

[Firefly]

The-Screw:- Hadaan ku sugo maxaa ii kordhayo talo? Bal taas iisheeg markaas aan jawaab kusiin.

[American-Suufi]

Weershe if they don't work what will they do? Ask for welfare and deny been married and pop out bastard kids according to what the welfare office.

[miss_sweets]

[quote="Cawar"]Should women work..because they want to, or because they have to??

"Once married, while she may still work if she chooses to, it is the husband's responsibility to support her and their children. She is under no obligation to contribute financially from her earned salary and her husband has no right to whatever money she has earned. However, this is not to say she can't contribute, but in the end, the choice is hers"

Do you agree or disagree?? and why??[/quote]

Why not?!?! Two incomes are better then one, lifes hard enough without having to depend on some nacas to bring home the bacon so to speak which probably wouldn't even be enough to maintain the lifestyle which you have come acustom to. Were starting to live in an affluent society...

Work women, work your asses off

[*Cocoa*]

I'd like to be financially independent.

co-sign

[DANGIRL]

Should women work..because they want to, or because they have to??

I mean, what's next, should they start reading, perhaps start thinking for themselves?!

[Gedo_Boy]

Most women don't want to work, but work b/c they have to.
If your wife is a neurosurgeon, then it makes no sense to keep her at home.

However, if there isn't a pressing financial need, then I'm sure most women don't want to be a wage-slave + a full time mother. If she's not doing work she's passionate about, I doubt all of them really want to work when they have kids they are so attached to.

A mother CANNOT be replaced, income CAN.


Here's some politically incorrect advice:
http://www.savethemales.ca/000691.html

3. Make work (not women) your passion. Work is the backbone of a man. Men gain self-confidence from performing a task well, and receiving reward and recognition. Women will try to come between a man and his work but don't let them. Don't let anyone or anything thwart your gift. Women do not respect men who make them their first priority. Your work will keep you on course and help you avoid temptation.

4. Our society makes sex, love and female beauty into a phony religion in order to distract and manipulate us. Sex and beauty soon become tedious. The magic ends. Real love develops over a long period of time and is based on trust and caring.


5. Do not put beautiful women on a pedestal. They are flawed like everyone else. They are more trouble because of their sense of entitlement. Do not marry someone based on sexual infatuation. I recount this error in my book "A Long Way to go for a Date." Never show weakness. In courtship, don't appear eager. Women interpret this as weakness. Keep your dignity. Nothing earns her respect quicker than rejection. Men think they will be loved for their sterling qualities. This is not so. Women are looking for men who make them feel secure. They want men who exude confidence. If you're insecure, remember there are many woman more insecure than you.


6. Now that I have emerged from the hormonal haze at age 55, I can see that sex is a fraud and really a minor part of life. Sexual frustration is used to distract and sell us. People wouldn't be frustrated if they got married at a young age as they did in the 1950's and started families. Women should marry and have kids before going to university; men after beginning their careers.

7. Society is addicted to sex. The atmosphere is sexualized. Human relationships have been degraded. The best way to fight sex addiction is to get married. Sexual liberation is not wanting sex (because you have it.) I am now happily married and find outside temptation intrusive. Call it male menopause but I switch the channel.

. Do not marry a woman who doesn't make you and her family her first priority. Do you want to share your wife with her boss? If you have an aim in life, why would you marry someone who doesn't support it? Or has a competing agenda? In the marketplace of love, men have the power. Our fertility lasts three times as long as theirs. We are the buyers. There are plenty of fine women, especially if we look abroad.

9. Real women are self-effacing. They put their husbands and their children before themselves. This is how women show love: by self-surrender. Avoid women who compete, control, criticize or complain (the 4 c's). Avoid women who are overachievers. Don't get hung up on unavailable women. They're aren't as special as they wish you to think. Choose a wife who complements you and is a good companion. Choose one who will be a good mother.

10. Being possessive is natural. A man wants to possess a woman. Women want to be possessed. In the act of love, we say a man "possesses" a woman. Total love equals total possession. This is not the same as domination. It is a partnership based on mutual trust and respect. My wife does not share my political views on many subjects.

11. Think of your seed as your unique spirit and essence. Would you entrust it to a vulgar or mediocre woman just because she is attractive? Ideally we would only have sex with a woman we would want to mother our children. This is why sex was reserved for marriage.

12. The media is doing a number on us regarding children. How often do we see children portrayed in a truly positive light? As the angels they often are? We are rich in proportion to the things we love. The highest love is between husband and wife, and parents and children.

[Cawar]

Loooooool@ GB.

This is reminiscent of the late Mukhtar..except that is well articulated and not mean to most of women.


Muzika, where do you liv man?? all you talk about is women being on welfare and women being single moms living in section 8 houses..wth??

Most fo the women I know/associate with..are educated..some over qualified and work their butts off to provide not only for their families..but even help out in their communities.
Maybe you need to look outside your house and neighbour, and see how well have many somali women come a long way..and done well.

[Gedo_Boy]

Cawar,


Where has the late Mukhtaar gone? Has he gone underground do the media pressure?

[Enlightened~Sista]

I don't plan on getting married before I'm 30, Insha-Allah. I'd work full time, but once I have children I will work from home and/or stop working, and start working part time once my children reach school age.

and who will marry u then? a man in his forties or fifties

[Costa__]

and who will marry u then? a man in his forties or fifties

Men are best in their forties and fifties but after that they will need nurse not wife

[Ka darag]

I don't plan on getting married before I'm 30, Insha-Allah. I'd work full time, but once I have children I will work from home and/or stop working, and start working part time once my children reach school age.

Loool dude,ull have expired by then...... ...

[Enlightened~Sista]

and who will marry u then? a man in his forties or fifties

Men are best in their forties and fifties but after that they will need nurse not wife

true

[The-Screw]

Cawar,


Where has the late Mukhtaar gone? Has he gone underground do the media pressure?

if gedoboy is asking about the whereabouts of Mukhtar then we must have a problem.

[Hyperactive]

lol screw, i remember i sked you that too. we got a problem and a huge one too.lol

okay, since im from work mother since i was born. i would say it's not all bad wife working and all that. it's how the wife can organize her time and knows her rule at home too.
also the help/support she gets from her husband.
i want my wife to be well educated both mentally and hold a degree too
not necessary to work but when it needs i want her to do her rule.
God knows what the future holds. maybe i will die and she needs to support our kids.

[The-Screw]

i will call up Mukhtar back on active duty after the ramadan. his country needs him.