Qudbo sireed marriage? you decide

[Haddad]

Regular wedding cost

Meher/Daily activities
Meher sheik $300
Gabaati ama sooryo $1000
Qado $ 2000

Nightly activities
Wedding hall $3000
Dinner $1500
Clothes/rent $700
Musical instrument rent $500
Video camera $800
Musicians $1000
Limo $500
Cake $250


Grand total $ 11,500.00

Is that the type of wedding most girls/women want?

[xidigow]

Xidigow,

Waxan raba gabar Indoyaar ina guursado. Waxan ka daley, calcaal ka dumar ka Somalida oo joogan Mareykan.

Adiga mid ma ku so qabta ?

Adeer,

2 decades ago when I came to US, the first woman I met was INDHOYAR. I have been trying to forget that experience ever since. So thank you..Abgaal waxey yiraahdaan WAA KUGU KALIGAA

[AbdiWahab252]

Xidigow,

Quran miya lagu sarey ?

[Moguul21]

Regular wedding cost

Meher/Daily activities
Meher sheik $300
Gabaati ama sooryo $1000
Qado $ 2000

Nightly activities
Wedding hall $3000
Dinner $1500
Clothes/rent $700
Musical instrument rent $500
Video camera $800
Musicians $1000
Limo $500
Cake $250


Grand total $ 11,500.00

Is that the type of wedding most girls/women want?

Wallee anagaa arganay kuwo kabadan oo intaa kabadan raba,

Actually I heard skinny agreed 100K uulaayo and he is not even wealthy that is what I call stupid.

[Moguul21]

Abdi Hutu,

I bet your life long savings is not even 11k, I think we are on the boat saaxiib.

Rag waa qudbo siraad dumarna waa sheeko

[Kolombo]

Xidigow,

Who are Culumuda isku qilaafsan in gabar wakiil la'aan la mehrin karo? They don't exist. A girl can not be married without the permission of a Wali (guardian). Secret marriages aka Qudbo sireed are false marriages that have no basis in Islam. A marriage is not something that should be hidden, it should be announced to all according to the Prophet (saw).

Evidence?

"There should be no nikaah (marriage contract) except with a wali (guardian)."

(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1101; Abu Dawood, 2085; Ibn Maajah, 1881. It is saheeh, as stated in Irwaa al-Ghaleel, 6/235, by al-Albaani, may Allaah have mercy on him).

And the hadeeth:

"Any woman who gets married without the permission of her wali, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid. If her husband has consummated the marriage, then the mahr belongs to her in return for that. If she does not have a wali then the (Muslim) ruler is the wali of anyone who does not have a wali."

(Narrated and classed as hasan by al-Tirmidhi, 1102; Abu Dawood, 2083; Ibn Maajah, 1879).

Even if the girl's guardian is thousands of miles away, the Shari'ah requires that the groom contact the guardian and ask for the girl's hand in marriage.

Source: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/7193/nikaah,%20guardian

[FAH1223]

Regular wedding cost

Meher/Daily activities
Meher sheik $300
Gabaati ama sooryo $1000
Qado $ 2000

Nightly activities
Wedding hall $3000
Dinner $1500
Clothes/rent $700
Musical instrument rent $500
Video camera $800
Musicians $1000
Limo $500
Cake $250


Grand total $ 11,500.00

Is that the type of wedding most girls/women want?

actually its a lot more money than that

[xidigow]

Regular wedding cost

Meher/Daily activities
Meher sheik $300
Gabaati ama sooryo $1000
Qado $ 2000

Nightly activities
Wedding hall $3000
Dinner $1500
Clothes/rent $700
Musical instrument rent $500
Video camera $800
Musicians $1000
Limo $500
Cake $250


Grand total $ 11,500.00

Is that the type of wedding most girls/women want?

Wallee anagaa arganay kuwo kabadan oo intaa kabadan raba,

Actually I heard skinny agreed 100K uulaayo and he is not even wealthy that is what I call stupid.

Moguuu,

Fiiri

You can have less expensive wedding. Do the Akhwaan way.

Yaa Ukhtii Naftaa kaa hesahy ee ilaahey dartiis igu guurso. no more questions and no SOORYO Plus, Other Akhwaans will do the Mehe for free. At night you come from the mosque to the house, and she is already there by herself...NO Buraambur, No Limo, and NO video Cameras.

[AbdiWahab252]

Moguul,

Illahey wuxu iga digey nin HUTU. Waxan nahay dad imaan leh oo GUURKA ka digin BAISHARA (GANACSI) sida qabiil ka.


FAH1223,

Its more like over $20,000.

[Moguul21]

Regular wedding cost

Meher/Daily activities
Meher sheik $300
Gabaati ama sooryo $1000
Qado $ 2000

Nightly activities
Wedding hall $3000
Dinner $1500
Clothes/rent $700
Musical instrument rent $500
Video camera $800
Musicians $1000
Limo $500
Cake $250


Grand total $ 11,500.00

Is that the type of wedding most girls/women want?

actually its a lot more money than that

Actually that was rough estimate

[Ka darag]

I need qof ii balbalaadiya...coz ma fahmayo waxa lagu hadlayo...

qudbo sireed=?

[zulaika]

Wallee naagtan arko waan ku dayi ilaa mid yeesha helo, maxaa 11 kun doo dollar bixinteeda ii soo arkay.

hadaba mid aad dariiq ka heshid alaha kuu sahlo huuno.. inantu hedy iyada iska yara caqli gaabiso oo ey scrooginadaasi kuugu raacdo, dee reerkeda uunbaa u caqli celini.

its one thing to be frugal, but i just can't stand stingy faraxs. if they won't front $$ for aroos, chances are they won't front money for other things once married and expect the xalimo to fend for herself and her kids..taking welfare and shid..

uff.

[Ka darag]

wuxu mixii ku hadlayan?

[Moguul21]

Where is baqara I mean Basra our resident SNET translator.

[Buhodle-Gurl]

Who are Culumuda isku qilaafsan in gabar wakiil la'aan la mehrin karo? They don't exist. A girl can not be married without the permission of a Wali (guardian). Secret marriages aka Qudbo sireed are false marriages that have no basis in Islam. A marriage is not something that should be hidden, it should be announced to all according to the Prophet (saw).

Evidence?

"There should be no nikaah (marriage contract) except with a wali (guardian)."

(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1101; Abu Dawood, 2085; Ibn Maajah, 1881. It is saheeh, as stated in Irwaa al-Ghaleel, 6/235, by al-Albaani, may Allaah have mercy on him).

And the hadeeth:

"Any woman who gets married without the permission of her wali, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid. If her husband has consummated the marriage, then the mahr belongs to her in return for that. If she does not have a wali then the (Muslim) ruler is the wali of anyone who does not have a wali."

(Narrated and classed as hasan by al-Tirmidhi, 1102; Abu Dawood, 2083; Ibn Maajah, 1879).

Even if the girl's guardian is thousands of miles away, the Shari'ah requires that the groom contact the guardian and ask for the girl's hand in marriage.

Source: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/7193/nikaah,%20guardian

Kolombo, Well said